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...See more Back in January, my significant other and I discussed their best childhood friend and his friends girlfriend moving in. He talked very highly of his friend and said he'd be a great roommate, responsible, hard working, flexible. I agreed because they were looking to save money, and he spoke so highly of the male friend. To be clear, they do not have to pay us rent, and we cover electric. The stipulation was they would clean up after themselves, pay for their own food, and get jobs. Its been a little under two months now and so far none of that is really happening. For example, I'm paying almost $2,000 a month on food (delivered via instacart so tip and tax included), to feed everyone. They not only eat the food they request, but eat our food as well, which is a problem because my Significant other has ARFID, so I'm frequently replacing his food. For example, on April 25th, I had 4 cases of 35ct soda delivered to the house. As of two days ago, it was all gone. As well as 5 cases of 42 ct water (granted the animals get some of that). I am also paying for her pet food and needs as well. As for the job aspect, the girl had a job for a couple of weeks, but was mysteriously "let go" out of nowhere (we suspect she may have quit), and has not looked for work since. The male does not have a valid ID and has kind of been putting off getting one. They claim they have no money for food, or anything else, but will ask me to drive them (I'm the only one with a drivers license) to get Mexican or Sushi or recreational objects. Now, if we are out, I am responsible for paying for everyones meal (that was a $75 Chick Fil A bill), but if they get food they don't offer us anything. Not to mention, the girl is frequently upset at her boyfriend for looking in other womens general direction, to the point where it seems like he's afraid to even look at or speak to me. However, when my boyfriend was shirtless she was staring until I stepped in the way. She also listens in to our every conversation. And on way too many occasions, has heard my boyfriend leave the bedroom, and immediately leaves her room and busies herself in whatever room he's in. She also refuses to touch anything my mouth has been on (no history of any cold sores) but has 0 issues smoking or eating after him. The female begged her boyfriend to bring a stray cat down, and the agreement was that it would see a vet before it came down. It did not. The cat is not spayed, not vaccinated, does not get along with my dogs and tries to eat my small animals. However, she quickly decided she didn't want to deal with her and her boyfriend didn't like the cat to begin with, so the cat ended up becoming my responsibility. They also don't clean up after themselves. I paid her to clean the living room and she did, and promptly trashed it a day later building a shelf for her room. Said shelf is still sitting in the living room after a week, with the cardboard box, foam, and cushioning strewn around it. She was also paid to build a bookshelf for me (I have physical disabilities) and it took her 3 business days after being paid to do it. Their dishes have been piling up in the sink for weeks, to the point it's got ants and flies around it, and dishes are overflowing onto the counters. Both my boyfriend and I have asked numerous times for them to do the dishes, and they haven't been done. I clean the kitchen and two days later it's trashed. Empty boxes next to the deep freezer, wadded up paper towels on the counters, packaging and crumbs everywhere. They leave food in the fridge until it rots. We have a griddle that used to fit on the counter, but the counter is so messy that she has to use it on top of the deep freezer. Afterwards, there is a greasy fatty mess on top of the deep freezer which she doesn't clean. She also doesn't clean the griddle after using it, and leaves it for me to find later when I want to use it. We have an airfry/toaster/oven counter top combo and we were gone for two days, we came back to find the tray absolutely covered in fat and grease which is also, sitting in the sink now. I'm just so tired of going behind and picking up after them. I've talked to them about it, nothing and I don't know what to do anymore but it makes me not want to live in my own house. Sorry for the chapter book of an essay but I needed to get that off my chest.

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