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JakieShakie
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Starting a business, would love some emotional support/friend :)
General Support / by JakieShakie
Last post
 February 16th
...See more In need of long term support! Hello :), my name's Jake. I'm going to build a business for managing social media marketing with local, online and hopefully more businesses! CHALLENGES: I get really emotional at times, some examples can be..depression...anxiety...STRESS! and i have some bad habits associated with all three i'd like someone to help me develope new coping mechanisms that i can stick with :). My current coping mechanisms are competitive online video games, conflict, ruminating on negative thoughts, isolation, "self pleasure viewing material", food, music, flirting, building new relationships. And the severity with which i rely on these things is in that order. } Processing my thoughts and ideas can be challenging and emotional for me, also when problems arise sometimes it can be a little overwhelming and with not a lot of support and coping mechanisms in my life..well you can imagine how that's a struggle for me. Building new relationships in a way that people know the real me. A lot of emotion and conflict arises from people not really communicating with the real me cause it's hard for me to show me what with all the emotions and stress i'm having to process while simultaneously run my life. Breaking free of these things will enable me to build key relationships. INFO ABOUT ME: I'm a bit of a dreamer. I'm not gonna lie this isn't the first time I've had an idea in my mind that i wanted to follow through on and many times in the past i didn't, admitting that isn't anything special to me. What's special is this time I'm asking for help in following through and I'm taking action that keeps me engaged with making progress. Will you be the person who helps me break this cursed habit :)? Examples of things i did today to change things: I watched an online seminar on online marketing i learned A LOT of things i could use right now to start getting clients and doing my job with. I also got things squared away with my work at Amazon so i can continue making money to invest in my business and responsibilities :)
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Newly Broken Up Male, help :3
General Support / by JakieShakie
Last post
 October 24th, 2017
...See more Need emotional support: recovering, self esteem, lonely, ---I feel afraid of her ---I feel overwhelmed ---I feel lost ---I feel let down ---i feel confused ---I feel judged ---I keep getting lonely, sad, feeling isolated. ---I feel like i have low impulse control ---I keep trying to distract myself but it doesn't work well, i end up being just...angry at giving into my thoughts most of the time...i could use support with making smart decisions when my mind is clowded with thoughts of self hatred... ---I'm feeling like...i want to get my life together and pick myself back up but i feel like...completely unsupported and she really let me down and judged me when she left and it's like...every second i'm not doing it i feel...less and less as a person and it honestly makes me depressed and insecure and afraid. ---I keep wanting to get with other girls and talk to them and move forward, keep making progress on my own goals (personal development and growing) but i feel down about it when i do it..and end up just not doing it... ---I feel like i can't do it because i can't handle...emotional connection quite yet...and still wanting it with her and all kinds of other conflictions which are holding me back that im having the hardest time processing. ironically though i want another woman to help me do it and love me for it T_T...I've never felt this incling of desire for attention from a woman before and it's so unsettling to be this out of control....this is what i get for eating the forbidden fruit. ---I feel like she's gonna see this, see me be vulnerable and ask for help and look down on me for doing it...for needing this for not being enough...I feel so misunderstood and helpless and like...put down..and...held down...oppressed almost... ---She made me feel cause i wasn't in college and crushing things that i wasn't enough, now i think if i'm not in college i'm not enough..want to go to a college and have sex with a bunch of girls and rub it in her face...but i can't bare the shame of letting anyone near me see what I've become over these 2 years...proud as i am of my progress in my life as i am it doesn't "LOOK" good...it's ironic though...when i had her it did look good...i felt like i could walk outside with my head held high...and now i'm just..not enough..not matter what anybody says. ---Discovering new things has brought me some solice and peace of mind in these dark times, helping a person...changing a life one person at a time with..what little i can offer. It's not enough though i need to be the change i see in other people...i need to own this. I need to be differently...so i can be enough. Idk...Hope someone can help :3. I NEED HELP :( "
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Looking for Moving out/Getting a job emotional support.
General Support / by JakieShakie
Last post
 July 23rd, 2018
...See more Hey my name's jake, i get depressed, anxious and just have negative beliefs about the process..i need support and reassurance...self esteem boost if possible :3
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:3 super nervous, Need Long Term Support from smart listener.
General Support / by JakieShakie
Last post
 October 18th, 2017
...See more Hi my name's jake, i'm moving out of my house for the first time, soon with my girlfriend and I'd like a support circle to help me cope emotionally with this situations rises and falls of this situation any advise is appreciated by im mainly in need of a strong support circle while i learn how to flap my wings :3 i can't find one in real life and it's miserable.
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