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Jam34598767
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PathStep 49 Compassion hearts12 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes12 Current upvotes12 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2022 Member sinceApril 26, 2021
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Empty void
Family & Caregivers / by Jam34598767
Last post
 May 2nd, 2021
...See more My parents were never there for me. Well they were physically but that was it. Emotional, not at all. I went to them plenty of times to ask them advice for college major, or friendship issues, and help with chores and homework. But they couldn’t . They didn’t know how to. They yelled at me and said I should know even though I was only a child. And now, i am angry at them for it. For pushing me away when I asked for help and saying that I don’t listen to them. I did. I just didn’t get it. And now, they say it’s all of my fault for everything that happen in my life. They don’t take responsibility for their actions. I just want some form of safety. That everything I will be okay despite not having any family support. It’s hard for me to trust strangers. It’s hard for me trust anyone.
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Mother - daughter issues
Family & Caregivers / by Jam34598767
Last post
 April 28th, 2021
...See more Hi, I haven’t had the best relationship with my mom since she was emotionally abusive. I believe it’s because she didn’t heal from childhood trauma and putting it out her kids. I no longer live with my parents anymore, but I never understood how can they neglect their children. They yelled at us, insulted us and gave me no support. My dad was cheating on her and passed on a STI to my mom. Instead of going to the doctor, my mom tried doing detoxes and getting skin creams. Sometimes I wondered if she knew it was an STI and she is in the denial. And she did nothing different around me. She didnt try to keep everything sanitized or restrict contact. She went on her life like it was nothing. Not even considering she could have ruined my life, also. I suggested to her go to a doctor but said they will give her meds and it’s not what she wanted. I never told her I thought it was a STI because I didn’t have in me to say it. I want to move on from this and forgive her. Any help, please?
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