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Jassac
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Relationship Stress / by Jassac
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July 4th, 2020
...See more I met this man 20 years ago, he was a customer in my place of work, he always acknowledged me and apparently only started talking when I started working there. We soon started talking and we clicked. We never met outside of work, as I didn't live near him and he didn't drive. He asked for my phone number many years ago and we saw each most days. We did lose contact for a few years after I left but 3 years ago I went back to the same place to work. We just clicked again and it was like we had never been apart. He was so pleased to see me and he told me that he thought he wouldn't see me again. He talked about us making plans for the future and he already had talked about marriage years before. He knew I couldn't have children but he never wanted them. I've always liked him but my family wouldn't approve of him. Now I have left work for good this time and he said that we would keep in contact, he has all my contact details and says he will be in touch but on my last day at work he was off with me and never said bye, just said that he would be in touch and would wait to hear from me. I think the circumstances of leaving work and his behavior has upset me. I don't want to lose contact with him but I don't want him to think I'm chasing him if he doesn't make contact. He always was the first to initiate contact/conversations. I've never had a relationship before and he used to say I wouldn't let anyone get close to me. He used to flirt with me as well and my colleagues thought he was interested in me. We both have issues which doesn't help but it always felt like us against the world. Now I'm not sure he was that interested in me. We could talk about anything and everything but perhaps he was a good actor