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JessicaMae
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Number of ratings99 Number of reviews29 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 13, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 503 People helped145 Chats225 Group support chats193 Listener group chats262 Forum posts156 Forum upvotes213
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Hey friends,
Although I'm not super active, when I am available, I would love to chat.
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Trauma: Any experience emotionally, mentally or physically or all of the above that puts us in a state of distress, and has had no resolution.
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An upside to trauma will always be the growth you experience that comes with it.
Learning to recognise and adapting to love is what i'm all about these days. If you've experienced trauma no matter where you are on the spectrum, I see you and you are important. 
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Recent forum posts
So I have BPD...
Personality Disorders Support / by JessicaMae
Last post
 January 17th, 2017
...See more Hi I am Plum and I was recently diagnosed with BPD... I am shocked and a little scared. I have done some research and my therapist and I have had many discussions, but I still feel alone. I know I am never alone though, not with such a great community like 7 cups. But sometimes you can still feel alone even when you arn't. My diagnosis was kind of a relief. I wasn't a freak, I have a disorder. Everything makes sense now. But why me? The truth is it can and does happen to anybody. You are not born with BPD... you develop it. You develop it by the invironment you're in and the traits that you were born with. I just wish that I could have somebody that could relate to me. I feel alone.
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Duuuude thanks for hearing me out
So much fun to talk to yet still remained professional. Very sweet, empathetic, positive and understanding. I felt validated and she gave me enough space to talk and rant but was still right there when I needed her to respond. Her response time was perfect! Such a lovely person. Gina loves you
She was great 5/5 recommend
Jess is just wonderful. She listened really well, she was kind and supportive. 5/5 totally recommend.
An incredibly nice person who's easy to relate to, dispite any difference in location. Very professional. Made sure she understood what I was saying before making any conclusion. Great person to just talk to when you need a friend.
she is great.
So helpful and amazing person
She is amazing
You really get me :)
She's upbeat, intelligent and open to chatting about things that most people are closed off to, or won't even consider. I didn't get any senseless advise, but felt understood and free to explain things in detail. A most excellent listener.
She was a great listener :)
Plum was a great listener. She did her best to understand my otherwise not understandable explanation of what was going on.
She is SUPER sweet. I didn't have too much to talk about, so there wasn't anything she could help with, but she somehow made me feel better. She was very relaxed without being super casual. Great chat.
Simply just great💜 honestly one of the best listeners on here. She really makes an effort to help you solve the problem💜. She is also really sweet and caring. Thank you so much
She is such a sweet person. I loved her
Jess is such an amazing person. She is smart, funny and so incredibly helpful at the same time. She is compassionate too! I understand that listeners cannot give advise but she made me feel like I didn't need any. She said all the right things and made me feel so so so much better. Jess is a friend. She is so loving and kind. You can tell she really loves what she does! She also can help with such a wide range of problems that so many other listeners failed to do. I was a mess. She basically picked up the pieces and put them back together. I have been talking to Jess for a few weeks and she has just need so amazing. It is one thing for the first chat to be amazing. But when she continues to help you on a regular basis and gives you that same hope and confidence every single time, that is when you know she is special. Thank you. Thank you so so much! I would recommend Jess to anybody. Give her a chance. You will not regret it.
So wonderful, kind, and thoughtful. I recommend Plum to anyone.
She is Awesome -_-
callmePLUM was, and still is, great!~
Amazing listener for self-harm! So empathetic and positive, and understanding. She really helped me through a cutting urge, I would have 100% cut without her, but now I didn't! So amazing!!
Lovely....Lovely .....Lovely
Literally Lovely
Really lovely.
So professional, loving, kind, helpful. The list goes on. I am so thankful for Plum. She is so amazing and helped me in a way that no other listener here at 7 Cups could do. I can see you going somewhere in counselling or therapy. I would recommend her to anyone. Thank you so much Plum.
She made me feel really better.
This girl is a saint,an angle, I can't say enough good things I love y
Her bless her ❣️
Call me maybe was very kind and a very good supporter I recommend call me maybe
You are cool
This person helped me more than I can even say. I just needed someone to talk to so I could get my emotions back in check and they helped me do just that. Whoever this person is, they are amazing and I know they're going somewhere in counseling.
She was great how can I be rude to someone who tried to help me and leave a bad review ! of course I am happy she helped me and she was nice I feel better and more relaxed. that's what I wanted I guess
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