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Kahilum08 |
Listener - Intermediate 10

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

* Disponible para conversar en español *

Souls seeking other souls for comfort is natural to us all,
just as breathing air is.
We are meant to be a global family unit;
not to feel abandoned on an island
surrounded by a sea of our discomfort.
If you wish to put your metaphorical hands in mine,
you can talk, and I will listen,
while maintaining focus on sending you some Energetic Love
to help you enter a healing state.

We are not alone. Never, not for a single moment.
Choosing to find someone to talk to is a big accomplishment.
Believe me -- I also seek help for my own Heart.
No one has all the answers, but each of us has at least one of them.
So, talk it out and keep finding the answers
that might complete the puzzle to help solve your pain!
I'll do what I can on my end; the rest is up to you!

My name is Kahi, and I am happy to meet you.

Love & Patience to you, dearly loved soul <3


* Note: It is extremely helpful to us listeners if you would be
willing to choose a topic upon entering a chatroom.
It helps us mentally prepare for whatever situation
you might be needing some help and guidance on. 

Also, members with topics chosen tend to have
their chats picked up more quickly by listeners,
due to a listener being able to find members
who are dealing with issues that they themselves
have a speciality in working through. *

~ In order to foster the best connection with all 7 Cups members,
I will only be taking one chat on at any given time ~

~ Discussing guilt, shame, and difficulties with feeling
safe enough to communicate out one's pain is my primary focus;
however, I am willing to talk about pretty much anything,
so long as there is genuine respect between you and I
throughout the entire chat ~

~ I also am open to Personal Requests;
however, due to my personal schedule, I would ask that
if there is a pressing matter that you feel would want to be
addressed at a specific time, please consider giving
one of our many other willing and caring Listeners
an opportunity to help you through your tough time.
If you do end up leaving me a message,
I will reach back out to you as soon as I am able ~

Number of Ratings: 20
Number of Reviews: 17
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Aug 20, 2019
Last Active over 6 months ago
Progress Path Step 146
Cheers 20,895
People Helped 42
Chats 325
Group Support Chats 29
Listener Group Chats 19
Forum Posts 92
Forum Upvotes 92
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Financial Stress
Weight Management
Exercise Motivation
ADHD
Bipolar
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Grief
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
PTSD
Disabilities
Relationship Stress
Borderline (BPD)
Self-Esteem
Spirituality
General Mental Health
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 144, May 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Compliment a Listener
    Completed step number is 142, May 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Provide 1-on-1 Support
    Completed step number is 141, May 4th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Is Your Tank Full
    Completed step number is 139, May 3rd, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 137, May 3rd, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
    Completed step number is 135, May 1st, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 134, May 1st, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 130, April 29th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Listener Community Rooms
    Completed step number is 128, April 24th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 125, April 21st, 2020

Feedback & Reviews
Amazing oh my god
Was so great to talk to. Made me feel so validated and heard. Definitely someone I'd recommend...
Was a really helpful and good listener to consider your needs and helped you best you could. Would ask you questions related to the issues and helped you break thighs down in your mind and suggested what you haven't thought of. Was good chat. Was good on the relationship side of things and empathy to me understanding.
Open,easy to talk to,compassionate
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Truly amazing person
Very beautiful soul who will listen and empathize. I recommend!
A wonderful listener!
Approached my situation with a calmness that I needed.
Good listener and really helpful. I was able to talk to Kahi and made me feel better.
You made me feel better, I needed someone who listen to me
open to many issues
This is one of the best, if not the best listener that I have ever had.
I am entirely thankful for someone so kind an genuine. Speaks and treats to me like a friend an not someone who may be as I call myself at times "broken "and or "damaged." Simply empowering speaking to this person. Thank you
Es un excelente oyente
Helping and supportive
best listener on 7 cups no joke, very caring person, selfless. attentive. talkative, honest. all you can think of. i recommend her
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
How do I tell my mom I've been self harming? She knows I have depression and that I tried ending my life before. I just am having a hard time sharing.
August 20th, 2019 6:36pm My father is having an extramarital affair. Part of me wants to end my relationship with him for cheating on my mom, but i worry that he will be depressed as he loves me a lot. How do I deal with this situation?
September 1st, 2019 12:41pm Am I allowed to start being upset and getting help for emotional abuse 3 years after it happened?
August 28th, 2019 8:41pm