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Kdawgmaster
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is this a me thing?
Relationship Stress / by Kdawgmaster
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August 3rd, 2020
...See more hey everyone thanks for taking a read. Heres my situation. I live with my roommate a person who i would much rather be more than just friends with. We've known each other for years, vast sum of our lives, but i've noticed that when she has a "friend" over she treats me WAY different. To put into perspective as friends we use to have a close connection that we would talk to each other, there would be smiles laughter and what seemed like a genuine good time. Now she did have a rough patch with a previous Bf that i wont get into but it caused a hiatus to where we didnt speak for around 1 year, nothing each other did just the situation she was on, anyways after this relationship we reconnected and everything was back to the way it was, she would initiate hangouts, i would initiate hangouts so on and so forth, but then i noticed over the years since then that she started to treat me different, less talking, less hangout initiations on her end and what seemed like a lack of actually wanting to be anywhere near me at times. Fast-forward to know where we are roomies and we can actually go a day without any communication at all. Now to the situation, when ever she has a "friend" over this attitude to me changes a complete 180. She will talk more, crack more jokes, seem to have a smile when talking almost back to the old days with her but nothing seems like shes talking to me like this because she wants to and it feels awkward and this is before they come over.
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