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Kingfisher101
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Backup Plan-Yes or No ?
Relationship Stress / by Kingfisher101
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 September 20th, 2021
...See more Overwhealmed with negitave emotions today im in a relationship with some one who is going through a break up .they are also dealing with alot of issues.I want to help and be there to support him through it but it is hard.Lately Im feeling as if hed rather be else where than with me.we tried to talk about things yesterday but I just couldnt find the words.i do alot to help this guy with daily living and I know he appreciates its .But I cant help thinking that thats the only reason hes with me.That and the fact that the sex is amazing. Am I being stupid ? to hang around waiting for this guy to get over his ex and make up his mind if he wants me or not. He says he feels rejected and un wanted but thats exactly how he makes me feel but he cant see that Am I just his backup plan.? Am I being used ? Is it possible to have an intimate relationship with someone when your still in love with Ex or is it just wrong and selfish of him? Any advise would be greatly appreciated
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Difficult Mum
Family & Caregivers / by Kingfisher101
Last post
 September 9th, 2021
...See more My relationship with my mum is a difficult one we are very close maybe too close. I'm a single parent with a daughter on the autism spectrum and I have no real support network other than my parents.they try to help me when they can but honestly there not able .my mum try to understand and reads up on things then trust to push these things on me.ive tried most things to help my daughter with her anxiety.But my mum causes alot of my anxiety which my daughter picks ip on.Any time I spend with my mum I always come away feeling down on myself sad lonely and frustrated. She treats me like a child.ive been told in the past that her actions are that of an abusive relationship. I'm not so sure. All rhe advise I've been given in rhe past was to distance myself from her as much as I can but it is so hard as she's my only real support.i need her help with the care of my daughter..this really gets me down. I don't know where to turn.
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