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I need to feel like a normal person
Personality Disorders Support / by KoCoquet
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 March 3rd, 2025
...See more I've been acclimating in society for 34 years since being diagnosed with BPD. I've drifted in and out of relationships throughout my 20s and 30s; spent the majority of my 40s single, resolved of the fact that I'm not for everybody. Now I am realizing just how difficult navigating this world single can be! And I would really like to fall in love and feel secure and protected and understood. But I cannot seem to rein in the insecurities)hyper-obsessive thinking patterns/looking for happiness in the unlikeliest places/inability to give up imaginary feelings for unavailable men, and it has me thinking I'll never find someone to love me because I'm simply defective and sabotage myself the most. I want to be in love. I want someone who will let me share with them and embrace me so I can let go of distrust and trauma triggers. Am I cursed to die alone because I don't like a man unless I can't have him? What is wrong with me?
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