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Kristeng2013
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Pain with sex
Relationship Stress / by Kristeng2013
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 April 12th, 2020
...See more I was a virgin when I got married for religious reasons, and I thought I would enjoy sex because my husband and I had a lot of physical chemistry. On our honeymoon though I discovered that I have pain with sex (muscle spasms), and it totally took away any arousal I had with anything before. I think I might be asexual at this point, because I hate being touched in a sexual way, and of course I dislike sex. This causes my husband and I to fight because he doesn't feel sexually appreciated and can't do anything for me (which he really wants to and would try anything), and I want to meet his needs too but I cant make myself have a great attitude about it all the time. Sometime I get panic attacks when we kiss because I feel trapped and I feel like I'm suffocating. But I love my husband, I want to stay married and have kids together some day.
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