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I am Kristy, a courageous, compassionate, colorful and awesome woman, leading from my heart and trusting in God’s plan for me.
Number of ratings143 Number of reviews62 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, American Sign Language Listener sinceOct 11, 2014 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 2,039 People helped340 Chats1,199 Group support chats254 Listener group chats587 Forum posts1,106 Forum upvotes2,024
Bio

Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members.

*:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚*:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟHello!!*:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚*:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ

Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!! 

✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨

 ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨

✨I am in CST.✨

✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨


✨Fun Facts✨

✨I live on a farm.✨

✨I love animals✨

✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨

✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨

🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻

🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻

✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨

✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨ 

✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle.

✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day.

✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨


My current leadership roles include:

✨Approved Adult-Teen listener

✨Chatroom Mentor

✨Teen Chatroom Mentor

✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss

✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury

✨Community Mentor

✨Quality Mentor

✨Academy Mentor:  LDP

✨Safety Patrol

✨Anonymous Evaluations Team

✨Academy Outreach Project Agent

✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent

✨Quality Mentor Project Agent

✨Communities Leadership Project Agent

✨Peer support

✨Chat support

✨Teen Chat Support

✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub)

✨Listener Discussion Leader

✨Doorkeeper

✨Kindness Crusader nominator


✨I have completed the following courses:✨

✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023

✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023

✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24

✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023

✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023


✨The Listener chats that I currently host are:

✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR

✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month.

✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat 

adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room

✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom.

✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST.


💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖


💛What is 7 cups?💛

⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment!

⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person.

💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛

⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better!

⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats.


💛What is the role of a listener?💛

⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.  

⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems.

⭐️A listener should never give you advice!


💛My Chat guidelines💛

✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same.

✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires.

✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available.

✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener.

✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning.


🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑

✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge).

✨Sexual Health


🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message. 

🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply.

📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible. 


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My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!







































































Recent forum posts
Self soothing
Self-Harm Recovery / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more These are some of the things I do to self soothe when I’m having a hard time.  Do you do any of these things?  Are there other things you do to self soothe?  If so, what are they?
Top 5 reasons for self harming behavior
Self-Harm Recovery / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 Saturday
...See more * These are the top 5 reasons that young adults practice in sept harming behaviors.  Which of these rings true for you?  It can be one of them or all of them.  Understanding why we practice this behavior is a key in long term recovery. * 1.  To release emotional pressure (In one study, 85 percent [https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2723954/] of participants said this was their biggest reason for self-harming.) * 2.  In order to control how they’re feeling * 3.  To get away from intolerable emotions * 4.  As a way of punishing themselves or expressing anger at themselves * 5.  Being triggered by exposure to self-harm relapse in others or in the media.
Weekly Check in 4.14.24
Self-Harm Recovery / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 April 14th
...See more
New Forum Supporter
Self-Harm Recovery / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 April 15th
...See more I would like to take a moment to introduce myself to the Self harm subcommunity.  My name is Kristynsmama (Kristy for short).  I have been self harm free for about 10 years!  I look forward to supporting this community!  Please feel free to reach out and make sure to tell me you are from the self harm forum!
Grief & Loss Check in 5/14/24
Grief & Loss / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 April 17th
...See more
Question of the Week
Grief & Loss / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 23 hours ago
...See more
Tonight's grief chat for adults
Grief & Loss / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 April 11th
...See more This is just a reminder that tonight we are having a group chat for adults in the Support Session Room from 9pm-11pm EST.  Please join me!
Light A Candle-Special Event April 2024
Grief & Loss / by Kristynsmama
Last post
 April 15th
...See more Please join me in lighting a candle to honor our loved ones by sharing a pic of a memorial candle of your choice.  This post will be featured for the entire month of April.  Please also feel free to share a favorite memory of your loved one.
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Feedback & Reviews
One of the most brilliant listener I have ever met.
Really great listener!!
Helped me a lot!
they were amazing! super helpful, very understanding, and sweet! will come again!
Good listener, offers support and relevant comments.
Always positive and helpful
Super helpful. Thank you ❤️
I was really struggling at the beginning of our chat. I was so down in the dumps, but she was so kind and loving and helpful. By the end, I was feeling so much better. She is the sweetest person! So kind and encouraging and uplifting. She listened and understood and just, she’s just amazing. Words can’t describe how amazing she is. 💕 Thank you Kristy!
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Understanding and caring
Wonderful person and a great listener. I wish more people were like this
Kristy, thank you so much. You're a wonderful human!
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Helpful, kind! Gives great ideas and helps you keep going. Thanks for your help!
Extremely helpful and caring
Very friendly and supportive to talk to
She's wonderful to talk with and I felt like I was talking with a close friend. It was fun chatting with her and she helped me to feel more at ease during a difficult situation
She indeed was one of the best listeners I've ever talked to. She tried hard to understand me , considering my condition having schizophrenia, and she gave me one of the best companies I've ever came across with.
Very helpful listener - willing to both sit back and listen and also offer helpful comments and productive suggestions.
Will be great if can talk to again
Fantastic! Very helpful and a very good listener——
Great listener
Amazing listener
thank you for taking the time to help me understand this chat.
Great listener and all around wonderful person. Very easy, relaxed and all with a sense of humor. What a great combo.
Angel really understood me, I was in a time of distress and i was lucky to connect to a listener like Angel. :)
It was really great talking with Angelwings2. She was kind, gave me good advice, and made me laugh and smile.
She is a vey good listener
awesome to talk to!
Very helpful and empathetic. Very easy to talk too
good!
Took time and understood me very well even when under stress. Very kind and full of caring words.
so far so good. you make people feel comfortable around you.
Good Job! Keep it up. Thanks for listening
It is great to talk to someone like you who actually seems to care about what I say
I am so grateful for having a genuine person to listen. I've tried other websites and found that the listeners and the subscribers are fake. I really appreciate the help and advice I've been given. I feel better knowing that I have some advice to act on now.
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Wonderful listener, seems like the genuinely care
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My first chatter, so they helped definitely
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It's good to be heard from deep inside. Thank you
:)
Non-judgmental, doesn't make you feel like a freak. Just overall very sweet, and I'm happy she picked me to talk to.
Thank you
I love her. She is very lovely and kind and supportive.
Wonderful and empathetic listener
Angel was amazing and she was of great help :)
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