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Ladyrocker17
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Grieving the Past…and Fearing the Future
Women's Issues / by Ladyrocker17
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 February 18th, 2025
...See more In my early 20s, I thought that by 30, I’d be married with one or two kids. I’m currently 34 without a stable job and not even a boyfriend in sight. It doesn’t help that my mom (jokingly) pointed out that after 5 months, any pregnancy I have will be considered a “geriatric” pregnancy. In my defense, this is a different time. So many women choose not to have kids. Or they choose to have them later in life. Plus, there’s always adoption. But if I’m being honest, maybe I’m just not meant to become a parent, anyway. It’s hard enough to deal with life, anxiety, and depression as a single and childless person in this crazy world, anyway. I don’t know. Maybe I’m just grieving the life I thought I wanted…life before my *** relationships, emotional issues after college, the pandemic, etc. How do you find contentment as a single and childless woman in your 30s? I write, do diamond art, hang out with single friends, etc. But I’m still struggling…
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