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LavenderFlower |
Listener - Expert 9

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Taking a 2-week break from member chats from FEB 11TH-26TH

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💙About Me💙

Hey there everyone! I am LavenderFlower, but you can call me Lavender or Lav. I'm a final year Psychology student. I like video games, writing, acting, music, and art. I’m super interested in Forensics as well. I listen to those with Personality Disorders and Dissociative Disorders on top of the categories I have listed. I also take chats about attention-seeking and lying. I am an empathetic listener who will do my best to support you.

 

💚Involvements💚

Verified Listener

Wiki Team

Safety Patrol

Adult-Teen Listener

Intern Graduate with Honours

Intern Mentor

Forum Supporter

Number of Ratings: 46
Number of Reviews: 29
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 28, 2016
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 215
Cheers 62,718
People Helped 124
Chats 705
Group Support Chats 165
Listener Group Chats 70
Forum Posts 504
Forum Upvotes 740
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Eating Disorder
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
Parenting
Self-Harm
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Weight Management
Exercise Motivation
ADHD
Bipolar
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Grief
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Perinatal Mood Disorder
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Student Life
PTSD
Relationship Stress
Borderline (BPD)
Self-Esteem
General Mental Health
Spirituality
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 214, October 9th, 2020
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    Listener Community Rooms
    Completed step number is 212, March 10th, 2019
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    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 211, March 8th, 2019
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    Nominate a Listener
    Completed step number is 210, March 8th, 2019
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    Provide 1-on-1 Support
    Completed step number is 209, March 6th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 205, February 23rd, 2019
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    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 203, January 28th, 2019
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    Mindfulness: Loving Kindness Meditation(13:25)
    Completed step number is 198, January 23rd, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 196, January 22nd, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 195, January 22nd, 2019

Feedback & Reviews
She is a really good listener and helped me a lot
Helped me a lot with everything listened to me when needed
Lovely person who is also very knowledgeable!
she's so nice and sweet
Excellent listener. Really understands what I have to say and does everything to help.
He/she listens and comforts me.
Really helpful❤ Great person to talk to💕 Thanks a ton!
An absolutely amazing person. Lav really helped with my anxiety
She is just amazing very helpful
Excellent listener!
Very nice and easy to talk to :)
so kind, friendly, and supportive. She always knows what to say, and gives amazing advice. I would certainly recommend her
She was real kind to me
It was really good. They were really nice to me, and helped me learn more about 7Cups. They were patient with me and answered all my questions, even though they weren’t too many. I hope I can find other people just as nice as them
Very kind soul. Really appreciated their advice and help with my situation :)
Very kind and helpful. Wasn’t judgemental even though I came out to her.
Truly amazing and caring person helped me in my.time of need heart of gold
Such a beautiful person to talk to! I loved it , really helped me thinking through and helped me with some of my problems
Such a great listener and advisor
Helpful and attentive!
Incredible helpful and very good listener
Literally the best person to talk to on this website.
She's an angel. I wish good life for her.
Literally the best listener on this site. She helped me so much and asked many questions which helped me understand she cared. I will definetly be talking to her again.
Good listening skills
fast answers, real questions
Very helpful, quick responses and was super nice. Actually listened to me and heard me instead of anyone else.
Great chat very to nice person to talk to!
thanks
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Questions Answered
Can you get addicted to depression?
February 22nd, 2019 3:00am How do you tell if you have anxiety? I don't wanna see a professional right now. But when I have to go out where there's people I often get a pit in my stomach, my heart goes all fluttery, and i feel sick. Is this some sort on anxiety?
December 24th, 2018 11:39am How do I cope with a long-distance relationship?
March 21st, 2019 11:08am