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I only take chats within my topics. If possible please check my profile before requesting a chat with me.   (Not necessary if I took your general request.)
If you're in a too bad condition just make sure you want to talk about something within my areas of expertise.

Sensory overload warning: If you're sensitive to flashing colors you don't need to read the rest of my profile as it may be triggering. In that case, just drop me a message including the topic you want to chat about.

Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like a panic attack, flare-up, or urgent urge you don't need to read the rest of the text and can just drop me a request. I'll take care of you as soon as possible. If you're not in a situation like that please read on to see if I am the right Listener for you. If yes you're very welcome to contact me but you may have to wait a bit in case I am occupied with an urgent case, especially if my status is set to busy (orange).

Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 24 years old female from Germany and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with and that's why I think I can help you with it. I understand you well and maybe I have suggestions, techniques, or skills to help you. I'm familiar with living with chronic pain, self-harm, and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures and I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime to possibly learn from each other when it comes to managing or getting them under control better.

In the following, I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help, I will surely try my best to do so.

If I was to describe myself as a listener I would say I'm mostly supportive, reassuring, and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding I still tend to be somewhat challenging. I can assure you that you have my greatest support if you are willing to work with me and I will be here to guide you through whatever struggle you may face. My favorite saying that I took from the saw movies which I enjoy (don't worry, I'm not a creep) is  "CHERISH YOUR LIFE" and I hope I can help you do that too along the way.

Send me a personal request by chatting to me or leaving me a message if:
- you want to learn to live better with chronic (physical) pain/ disease, especially such that gets worse in flare-ups or you want to know how to best deal with/ support a person close to you that suffers from this  (1)
- you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (autism and ad(h)d included) (2)
- you want to stop self-harm (3)
- you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4)

- you want to talk about non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them or talk about any other kind of dissociation or dissociative/conversion or psychosomatic disorder (5)
- you want to chat about (C)PTSD and how it affects your life and find coping strategies that work for you (6)

- Parenting: I don't have any own kids and not so much practical experience yet but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, especially for children with disabilities in my future job so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain first experiences (7)

If you send a personal request please start the chat with a code number from 1 to 7 (that you see on the list next to the thing you want to talk about) to show you have read this. I do provide long-term support as well! Let me know straight away if you wish that.

Please note: Whilst I do have my own as well as professional experiences with some of these topics I am not a fully trained professional. I am in education for a job where I work with people and help them for example through counseling but on here I am only a Listener and not a Therapist. This means I can't give you advice as to having the ultimate right solution for you. Yet I am glad to provide you with suggestions where I feel it's appropriate and to consider your options together if you want to.

If I am offline (red) you can still drop me a message and I will get in touch when I see it.
If I don't take your request still feel free to leave me a message because I might have forgotten to log out but will get back to you when I see it.

that's why we call it the PRESENT.

​​​If you read everything: Thanks for your patience and attention, you're extra special :-p

Ich spreche auch Deutsch. Themen: chronische Schmerzen oder Behinderung bei Betroffenen und Angehörigen, selbstverletzendes Verhalten, Panikattacken, dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle oder Konversionsstörung, Trauma, Genesung/Erholung/Rehablilitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, Erziehung/ Elternberatung z. B. für Eltern von Kindern mit Beeinträchtigung, andere Themen auf Anfrage, wenn sonst niemand für einen Chat auf Deutsch verfügbar ist.

Ik  spreek  ook  nederlands. Thema's: chronische pijn, handicap, zelf pijniging, paniekaanvallen, dissociatieve stoornissen, trauma














Number of Ratings: 456
Number of Reviews: 205
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Languages English, Dutch, German
Listener Since Apr 10, 2015
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Feedback & Reviews
very good listener
really helpful, thank you :)
I liked how empathic and sympathizing this person is ^_^
An adorable Listener
- English and German - sehr empatisches, offenes und sympathisches Gespräch
Kind and available
Very respectful and rational and gave me ideas to try to keep calm from having a full blown panic attack.
Loved it! Awesome chat!
Friendly yet deals with issues in a practical manner & helped me see things from a different perspective, enjoyed the chat
Very empathetic and also helped me work on the problem
Good listener keep up the good work!!!
Very kind and helpful.
Great listener! Very helpful!!
Best chat i ever had in my 6 months here. Understanding, helpful, caring, really hears me, really wants to help me. I feel as if i won the lottery with this listener. 10/10 reccomend!!
Helpful in narrowing down which of my issues it most important to discuss.
honest and guided to right resources. 5/5
Good talk, the person listened to me and answered my questions.
Very professional and helpful. Thank you so much. The best listener I saw here.
Highly recommend!
A good listener with constructive feedback and pointed questions.
she is so polite
Provided a lot of useful information
This listener was very kind, and sympathetic. They tried to help in anyway they could. I appreciate their genuine care and the fact that they took the time to talk to me.
Understanding and helpful guiding me to what may be best for my needs thank you
very good listening skills and inquisitive questions
Helped me find a listener to help me out
Really helpful and understanding person with lots of knowledge. Thank you very much!
Very kind and caring ❤
Really the first person to sit with me in all I'm dealing with. Helped me feel not alone and like I'm not too much. Thanks! Looking forward to chatting again. :)
It was everything I needed. Someone listens to me until I was calm
She is awsome and helpful.
Nice and helpful
I appreciate that i was made to question myself and LCL was firm in her conversation.
Shes amazingly attentive!
nice one to know
great patience
She asks questions which I loved.
Few people have a big heart like her. She really give of herself voluntto help others. Thank you so much
Very helpful and supportive listener. Thanks :)
insightful and a credit to the site.
Excellent listener, very profficient and attentive and polite, one of the top quality listeners...
I had a great time talking with you!
Thanks for all the support
Good! A lot of care and help given! Thank you!
Gave me a nice welcome to the community, which honestly was a pleasantly unexpected surprise. :P We had a short friendly chat and I asked a few questions about setting myself up, each of which were answered well. Now I'm officially kicked off, and I feel better about my start. Thanks!
asked awesome questions to get me to think about my situation, helped me rationalize through my overthinking. Thank you Nadine!
So amazing. Helped me so much.
Funny and sweet. Very comfortable to talk to!
They're nice and a practical person.
Thank you. I enjoyed it. I appreciate it.
Good advise.......
Great listener and she understands what you goi
Good at following up.
Attentive listener, quite present, committed and authentic in her feedback.
Good at listening, and asking the right questions
Good person with a grounded perspective.
she directed me right
Nice to talk to listener very help ful
Great listener! Very kind and understanding
Quite helpful, i got support, she is good.
Very compassionate and professional. She knows what she's doing and understands herself very well. Thank you for helping me find ways to cope with my pain (the vission problem). If you want to discuss something she experiences in, she's the best listener for you.
Very sweet and comforting, and helped me to stop a panic attack. An absolute pleasure to talk to!
very genuine, easy to chat with!
Very good listener looking out for those who are in psychological distress.
Nadine is a very kind and caring person. She was like a light to help me though a dark moment. She followed up to see how I was doing and is empathetic and supportive in every way. She is one of the best listeners I’ve found here at 7cups.
She is really compassionate and tries her best to help
just started but she seems very knowledgeable
Really kind and professional
Thank you so much
just being able to have someone listen is more then I had before
Very nice listner
They provided resources when they thought I would benefit from talking to someone for my specific problem and helped me the best they could.
This listener was so attentive and patient with me during my panic attack. They have a calm presence and gave me a new technique that helped me so much. They were empathetic to how frightening it was for me and made sure I didn’t feel alone
He is very Informative.... And he is so professional that what i really like about that person
The Listener is very helpful and detail-oriented. The Listener asks some questions to get to know you better and provides concrete, actionable suggestions/resources after hearing your situations. If you are looking for intelligent and honest support, please seek this Listener.
Really good, if you love informative chats where you can have an intelligent talk and get ideas for solutions.
They were kind, reasonable, and made some very helpful suggestions.
Great and helpful!
Despite not being specialised in the particular area he was as helpful as he could be
the listener was great, asked great questions!
Very great and supportive listener. Helped me a lot.
thanks for your help it was really nice of you to speak to me :)
Spoke about chronic illness and gave me a new way to look at it
Wonderful. So understanding, knowledgeable, and caring.
very patient listener that didnt give up on finding a way to help me and succeeded at the end. She is very flexible and can adapt to your needs. I lost my old long term listener and I'm glad to have found her as a new one and I dont almost dare to say but by now I like her even better so maybe it was just supposed to be like that. She is very profesional and experienced with panic attacks and DID .
she was really active.
I woke up with a bad mood due to my current physical condition that makes things a bit difficult but I'm glad to have found this site. The listener was kind and helpful and I felt a lot better after the chat.
Ive tried soo many but she is the absolutely best listener for panic attacks. She helped me on reducing and preventing them a lot but the best thing that thanks to her I deal with them a lot better. I don't fear them anymore so they are kinda less intense too since she taught me some coping techniques. I also liked that first she supported me very closely but then helped me to manage them more and more independent. Another thing I really appreciate her for is how open and directly she talks about everything.
Thank you so much for being always there for me it means so much. I know I haven't been easy the last few months but no matter which crisis I was in you were always there to catch me without judging when everyone else would do the opposite. You are a very strong person and a great idol for me too and I hope one day I can achieve the things that you did in regard to panic attacks, seizures, chronic pain and self harm. But who knows maybe I might with all the strength you give to me. Please never change the way you are.
GReat listener for self harm. Actually helped me more than therapists even in just 2 chats cause she can relate, share experience how she managed to stop herself and she knows many skills and helps to find a suitable one while therapists often just tell me one that doesnt work for me. I'm not saying listeners can replace profesional help but I'm sure this one was the better choice for me
lovely person. cant decide whats more beautiful her face or her soul
great and empathic help with chronic pain. And congrats on your graduation with great results. You surely are amazing in every regard
very kind
She’s soooooonice
This person is a great listener and asks great questions
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