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ONLY TAKING CHATS WITHIN MY TOPICS. IF POSSIBLE PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE SENDING A PERSONAL REQUEST. If you're in a too bad condition at least make sure you want to talk about something within my areas of expertise.

​​​Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like panic attack, flare up or urgent urge you don't need to read the rest of the text and can just drop me a request. I'll take care of you as soon as possible. If you're not in a situation like that please read on to see if I am the right Listener for you. If yes you're very welcome to contact me but you may have to wait a bit in case I am occupied with an urgent case, especially if my status is set to busy (orange).

Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm Nadine, a 23 years old female from Germany and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with and that's why I think I can help you with it. I understand you well and maybe I have suggestions, techniques or skills to help you. I'm familiar with  living with chronic pain, self-harm and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures  and I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime in order to possibly learn from each other when it comes to managing or getting them under control better.

I volunteered in a home for teenagers with emotional disability, psychological disease and behavioral issues for one year. Now I am on university of applied science for therapeutic and inclusive educations where i learn work with people with any kind of disability or chronic disease. 


In the following I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. It does not mean that I don't welcome other people. I just don't want to waste your time and want to make it easy for you to find a suitable Listener. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help then I will surely try my best to do so. Yet   I do not take chats with any kind of sexual content, not from Members and Guests, nor from Listeners. If you message me with that I will tell you to leave and if you don't do so I might not have another option than blocking you.

If I was to describe myself as a listener I would say I'm mostly supportive, reassuring and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding I still tend to be somewhat challenging. 
I can assure that you have my greatest support if you are willing to work with me and I will be here to guide you through whatever struggle you may face. My favourite saying that I took from the saw movies which I really enjoy (don't worry ,I'm not a creep) is  "CHERISH YOUR LIFE" and I hope i can help you to do that too along the way.

Send me a personal request by chatting to me or leaving me a message if:

- you want to learn to live better with chronic pain, especially such that gets worse in flare ups or you want to know how best deal with/ support a person close to you that suffers from this  (1)

- you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (2)

- you want to stop self-harm (3)

- you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4)

- you want to talk about non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them (5)


- you want to talk about any kind of dissociation, including DID which occurred in response to a trauma (6)

- you are recovering from an injury or  a physical or mental disease but things still get tough sometimes/ the progress is not the way you wish/ you still get relapses. In this case please name that the chat is supposed to focus on recovery/ rehabilitation (7)

- Counseling in education: I don't have own kids and not so much practical experience with education yet but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, specially for children with disabilities in my future job so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain first experiences (8)


If you send a personal request please start the chat with a code number from 1 to 8 (that you see on the list next to the thing you want to talk about) to show you have read this. I only take requests about these topics, thanks for understanding.

I do provide long term support as well! Let me know straight away if you wish that.

If I am offline (red) you can still drop me a message and I will get in touch when I see it.

If i dont take your personal request still feel free to leave me a message because I might have forgotten to log out but will get back to you when I see it.


​​​If you actually read everything: Thanks for your patience and attention, you're extra special :-p



Ich   spreche   auch   deutsch. Themen: chronische Schmerzen oder Behinderung für Betroffene und Angehörige, selbstverletzendes Verhalten, Panikattacken, dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle infolge eines Traumas, Genesung/Erholung/Rehablilitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, Erziehung/ Elternberatung z. B. für Eltern von Kindern mit Beeinträchtigung 

Ik  spreek  ook  nederlands. Thema's: chronische pijn, handicap, zelf pijniging, paniekaanvallen, dissociatieve stoornissen in reactie op een trauma, beterschap van een schade of lichamelijke of mentaal ziekte

Jeg snakker litt norsk  (Bokmål) emner: kronisk smerte, funksjonshemming, selvskading, panikkanfall, dissosiative lidelser som svar på et traume, bedring/rehabilitering etter en skade eller fysisk eller psykisk sykdom

Hablo un poco de español  temas: dolor crónico, discapacidad, autolesiones, ataques de pánico, trastorno y fenómenos disociativo en respuesta a un trauma, mejoría/rehabilitación de una herida o enfermedad física o mental





 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 







 
Number of Ratings: 278
Number of Reviews: 173
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Dutch, German, Norwegian, Spanish
Listener Since Apr 10, 2015
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 802
Cheers 155,461
People Helped 686
Chats 2,091
Group Support Chats 3
Listener Group Chats 61
Forum Posts 51
Forum Upvotes 136
Feedback & Reviews
I appreciate that i was made to question myself and LCL was firm in her conversation.
Shes amazingly attentive!
nice one to know
great patience
She asks questions which I loved.
Few people have a big heart like her. She really give of herself voluntto help others. Thank you so much
Very helpful and supportive listener. Thanks :)
insightful and a credit to the site.
Excellent listener, very profficient and attentive and polite, one of the top quality listeners...
I had a great time talking with you!
Thanks for all the support
Good! A lot of care and help given! Thank you!
Gave me a nice welcome to the community, which honestly was a pleasantly unexpected surprise. :P We had a short friendly chat and I asked a few questions about setting myself up, each of which were answered well. Now I'm officially kicked off, and I feel better about my start. Thanks!
asked awesome questions to get me to think about my situation, helped me rationalize through my overthinking. Thank you Nadine!
So amazing. Helped me so much.
Funny and sweet. Very comfortable to talk to!
They're nice and a practical person.
Thank you. I enjoyed it. I appreciate it.
Good advise.......
Great listener and she understands what you goi
Good at following up.
Attentive listener, quite present, committed and authentic in her feedback.
Good at listening, and asking the right questions
Good person with a grounded perspective.
she directed me right
Nice to talk to listener very help ful
Great listener! Very kind and understanding
Quite helpful, i got support, she is good.
Very compassionate and professional. She knows what she's doing and understands herself very well. Thank you for helping me find ways to cope with my pain (the vission problem). If you want to discuss something she experiences in, she's the best listener for you.
Very sweet and comforting, and helped me to stop a panic attack. An absolute pleasure to talk to!
very genuine, easy to chat with!
Very good listener looking out for those who are in psychological distress.
Nadine is a very kind and caring person. She was like a light to help me though a dark moment. She followed up to see how I was doing and is empathetic and supportive in every way. She is one of the best listeners I’ve found here at 7cups.
She is really compassionate and tries her best to help
just started but she seems very knowledgeable
Really kind and professional
Thank you so much
just being able to have someone listen is more then I had before
Very nice listner
They provided resources when they thought I would benefit from talking to someone for my specific problem and helped me the best they could.
This listener was so attentive and patient with me during my panic attack. They have a calm presence and gave me a new technique that helped me so much. They were empathetic to how frightening it was for me and made sure I didn’t feel alone
He is very Informative.... And he is so professional that what i really like about that person
The Listener is very helpful and detail-oriented. The Listener asks some questions to get to know you better and provides concrete, actionable suggestions/resources after hearing your situations. If you are looking for intelligent and honest support, please seek this Listener.
Really good, if you love informative chats where you can have an intelligent talk and get ideas for solutions.
They were kind, reasonable, and made some very helpful suggestions.
Great and helpful!
Despite not being specialised in the particular area he was as helpful as he could be
the listener was great, asked great questions!
Very great and supportive listener. Helped me a lot.
thanks for your help it was really nice of you to speak to me :)
Spoke about chronic illness and gave me a new way to look at it
Great!!!
Wonderful. So understanding, knowledgeable, and caring.
very patient listener that didnt give up on finding a way to help me and succeeded at the end. She is very flexible and can adapt to your needs. I lost my old long term listener and I'm glad to have found her as a new one and I dont almost dare to say but by now I like her even better so maybe it was just supposed to be like that. She is very profesional and experienced with panic attacks and DID .
she was really active.
I woke up with a bad mood due to my current physical condition that makes things a bit difficult but I'm glad to have found this site. The listener was kind and helpful and I felt a lot better after the chat.
Great
Ive tried soo many but she is the absolutely best listener for panic attacks. She helped me on reducing and preventing them a lot but the best thing that thanks to her I deal with them a lot better. I don't fear them anymore so they are kinda less intense too since she taught me some coping techniques. I also liked that first she supported me very closely but then helped me to manage them more and more independent. Another thing I really appreciate her for is how open and directly she talks about everything.
Thank you so much for being always there for me it means so much. I know I haven't been easy the last few months but no matter which crisis I was in you were always there to catch me without judging when everyone else would do the opposite. You are a very strong person and a great idol for me too and I hope one day I can achieve the things that you did in regard to panic attacks, seizures, chronic pain and self harm. But who knows maybe I might with all the strength you give to me. Please never change the way you are.
GReat listener for self harm. Actually helped me more than therapists even in just 2 chats cause she can relate, share experience how she managed to stop herself and she knows many skills and helps to find a suitable one while therapists often just tell me one that doesnt work for me. I'm not saying listeners can replace profesional help but I'm sure this one was the better choice for me
lovely person. cant decide whats more beautiful her face or her soul
great and empathic help with chronic pain. And congrats on your graduation with great results. You surely are amazing in every regard
awesome
good
very kind
She’s soooooonice
This person is a great listener and asks great questions
Love
Takes care of problems much easier than you think
Amazing listener, by far my favorite
Incredibly helpful and empathetic. They took the time to understand my situation and gave me advice that I will definitly be using. I’m so grateful for that they took the time to help me!
Incredibly helpful and understanding
She is a true fighter that has to go through a lot and yet she tries to take something good out of it to help others. I feel like she kind of infected me with her strong mentality and this changed my life to good. Im sincerly thankful this site gave me the opportunity to meet this amazing soul.
In the member forum someone suggested me this listener for chronic pain. I have something where I need support through flare ups so I dont lose my mind and this person was a great help actually. I hope I can talk to her again.
another listener reffered me to her when I was having a panic attack and I'm very glad about this because I couldnt think of a better help with that. She really helped me get my breathing back under control and eliminate the attack after all
She was very helpful and experienced with PTSD and related things, coping with panic attacks and quitting self-harm
Good listener - non judgemental. Good person to chat with
Im impressed. she has a lot of skills and coping strategies for many of her areas of expertise and they work well and also she doesnt just throw them at you but helps you find the suitable ones for you
I read in the profile that she specializes on chronic pain diseases with flare ups and since i have crps i tought i give her a try. Seemed very profesional and experienced with it and I can really handle the flare ups better since i talk to her. later I saw she already has some reviews for crps so she seems to be quite specialized on it. Specially she is helpful with it cause she really knows what its like she can give self tested coping strategies
strong and amazing girl and a great helper too
very encouraging. just what i needed in this very moment
Very helpful and supportive with panic attacks. Couldnt have asked for a better listener to help me through that and i hope to talk again when Im in the same situation. She seemed really professional and experienced with it too. Highly recommended for this
This is a really nice person we talked about some hard thing I deal with about my disabilities and how they effect my life her response time is great and she really cares about the ppl on here I recommend her to anybody having trouble with disabilities or trama great listener and friend :)
Very Nice, can relate.
she is so.. calming! Always makes things feel right again when I chat with her.
Thanks so much for never giving up on me even when everyone else does and even I do sometimes. You always know how to motivate me again.
this sweet and caring angel almost immediately enlightened my heart
So far she has been really helpful in all her areas of expertise that we talked about and I believe we have almost covered all of them.
This person is a true inspiration to me how she has been through so much suffering and simply made the best out of it using it to help others. Often people can help others bette than themselves but this doesnt apply to her. She knows how to help herself and take care of herself so she is stable to help others in a specially good way.
I so appreciate that I can always rely on her however tough things may get, she doesn't let me down.
A truly amazing listener and a very strong person too. Keep up the good work.
great listener who also really takes care to stick with all the rules and active listening skills
for sure giving this one all the 20 stars on the board and Id rather rate her with 10 stars than with 5. For me she is the perfect sample listener in any regard. I like to talk to her as a member when I'm not well but also as a listener she is a good support.
thanks for breathing with me whenever I need ;-)
thank you for being such a great help
great person to talk about whatever is on your chest. Always takes time to provide the help one needs and I really appreciate this.
excellent listener. So supportive.
Very patient, empathic, profesional and understanding. Thanks a lot.
great for ptsd and managing emotions. really helped me sort some trauma related thoughts and emotions and finding an outlet for them and she is quite experienced with DID and other dissociative trauma related things too.
for me simply the best listener on here. no matter what problem I am facing she can always help and i dont need anyone else anymore
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