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LetsTalkNL
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L Apprentice 4
5 star rating
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Number of ratings23 Number of reviews8 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Dutch Listener sinceAug 25, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 8 People helped33 Chats118 Group support chats19 Listener group chats8 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes4
Bio

Hey there, what's on your mind?

Quite often it is a lot easier to look rationally at other people's problems and worries than at your own. I think this is where 7cups really shines!

I will try not to bother you by suggesting to just think positive, but I will try to listen to you, let you vent and maybe I can even ask some questions that may or may not help.
 
I am twentysomething from The Netherland who is currently studying computer science.  I'd like to think that I'm pretty open-minded and somewhat analytical, pragmatic and down-to-earth. I spend most of my spare time running, reading and just wasting my time on the internet. I have (had) some personal experience with (social) anxiety, autism (aspergers) and I'm gay.

A little bit of practical info:
- I can speak Dutch and English, but you should expect some broken English every now and then;
- I really want to focus on our conversation, so I try to talk to only one person at the time for ~ 30 minutes.
- Feel free to say that you want to try another listener. No hard feelings! Everyone is different and sometimes a listener and member just don't match at a given time.

Feedback & Reviews
Best listenner I had the pleasure to chat with in a long time. Asked the right question and also let me vent. Couldn't have asked for a better christmas gift. Thank you. :)
You are a wonderful listener and extremely intelligent and helpful ally. I am so appreciative of your time and help.
He asks really excellent questions. Really helped me figure out how to open up and think about things in a new way.
It was nice to talk with him!
I love the way you listen and you have a great amount of empathy. You help me feel a lot better even though I feel somewhat miserable and hopeless before we talk. Thank you
YOU ARE THE BEST. THANKYOU SO MUCH
Awesome. Really helped me see things realistically and develop a plan.
You were great. Thanks
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