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Relationship Stress / by Lillypad25
Last post
 April 27th, 2020
...See more Hi to whoever may be reading this! My ex broke up with me around 6 weeks ago now. We were having a few arguments (nothing major) and my anxiety was really bad towards the end. He said he was unhappy and that he didn't feel the same way towards me as he did before. (Meaning he didn't love me) I moved all of my things from his house. And I begged and pleaded with him for around 4 weeks on and off. I know now that was a massive mistake. I love this man will all of my heart. I'm so upset, I feel so low. I cry everyday, I dream about him most nights. I feel like I've lost the best thing that's ever happened to me. We got on so well, and we're making plans for the future. I'm now on 2 weeks with no contact. He seems to be moving on, on dating apps. I literally just don't know what to do now. I want him back more than anything! Can anyone help or give me some words of advice. I literally feel so broken at the moment. x
Struggling with a break up
Relationship Stress / by Lillypad25
Last post
 May 20th, 2020
...See more My ex broke up with me around a month ago now. There were issues within our relationship that stemmed from mistrust. I find it hard to trust because of past relationships and struggle with anxiety. I never had a reason to not trust my ex until I saw a photo on his phone of him kissing another girl in a club. - this was when we were 6months into dating and he had gone on a night out. We werent official at this point. He passed me his phone to pick some pictures to print for the house. He was shocked to see the photo and was very apologetic. After that I had convinced myself there must be more so I checked his phone while he was asleep. I didnt find anything but would constantly moan because he didnt show me enough affection and would confront him about girls he liked /fancied (pathetic I know). I would cry constantly and get pains in my chest. And I felt like he didnt care and I was losing him. One Friday he literally said to me he thinks we should break up because we are both unhappy. I pleaded with him not to do it but I got a bag and went back to my parents. The next day he had packed up everything of mine and told me to collect. Since then I have called him, messaged him, even gone round to the house with gifts for him begging him not to do it. He has been kind to me saying it wasnt my fault but things change and he doesnt want to be with me anymore. He has been helping with my anxiety and apologised for making me feel so insecure. He has said he doesnt love me anymore but will always care for me and be my friend. I feel like Ive been stabbed in my heart, I dont sleep and hardly eat now. I would do absolutely anything to get him back, hes the one and Ive pushed him away. Can there ever be a future after this? Do exs ever get back together?!
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