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Listener89104
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Number of ratings20 Number of reviews16 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceSep 30, 2022 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 33 People helped47 Chats530 Forum posts56 Forum upvotes56
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In the midst of death, life persists.
in the midst of untruth, truth persists.
in the midst of darkness, light persists.

~ Mahatma Gandhi

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Embracing darkness
Mindfulness Center / by Listener89104
Last post
 February 29th
...See more All the posts I read on here (if it's not someone describing certain events/incidents) or on social media are all positive, bubbling with energy.. Tho everyone these days says embrace yourself. But *** fears diving unto themselves. Your whole self is not all positive n excited. It's the seriousness, the depth, the darkness inside you too that is an existing part of you. The world does not end if you recognize it, sit with it, give its existence validity. Rather the world inside you calms down, becomes slower, like weight off your back. What is it about trauma that keeps reminding / remembering us of the good old days ? It's the mind taking us to a safe place. For teens might be childhood time, for adults might be college days or school days.. Ego is always self-preservative. So in trauma / extreme stressful situation, it takes you to your happy place. A lot of psychologists / psychiatrist also take people to their happy place, as part of therapy. Else one can develop things like anxiety, ptsd etc. Overtime. But that therapy is not the solution alone. It's like a pause button, for you to take a break (which you really need). N then get up, go on n fight the world again hehe, no, go on n start bettering yourself again. embracing your serious side, facing your fears, contemplating in darkness helps too. Just not what people like to handle. Plunging inside your mindful abyss is too scary for most.
A little joke with 7cups
Positivity & Gratitude / by Listener89104
Last post
 November 16th, 2022
...See more Any anime watchers on here ? I really like how the profiles are set up here at 7cups. There's tangible / quantifying parameters defined for our simple activities e.g. no. of cheers, no. of chats, ratings, reviews etc. Which is rewarding to both listeners and members. But could you get competitive with those parameters ? remember the sports cards / WWE stat cards / Pokemon cards, we as children used to duel with. what if you had listeners deck of cards ? or members deck of cards ? hahaha 😂 an anime series: where the old listeners (who've done exceptionally well) ; have so many badges attached to their profile. like they have so many power ups that they are extremely powerful listeners. using hand signs to listen to your thoughts, sub-conscious, and even soul... dialogues like: He is the soul reader! 😂 and a member who has overcome a lot, chatted with a lot of listeners. has so many points on here. has powers like overcoming adversities inside other humans. lol "omg! he overcame anxiety of Sasuke to boost all his stamina n energy back"
daily thoughts: hypocrisy of being
Mindfulness Center / by Listener89104
Last post
 October 28th, 2022
...See more you promise forevers, yet constantly review momentarily you speak of a positive attitude, yet get irritated on the slightest misconduct you quote masters of peace, yet get disappointed on bad results. you can't even content fully have a single meal of food which's taste you dislike. (something that is nourishing you) you aren't able to sit through a lecture that you find annoying. (something that is giving you wisdom/knowledge) you aren't able to empathize with others who have diff problems - and yet you have the audacity to tell them to "get over it" (and you expect literally the whole world including strangers on the internet, to empathize with you. to even feel sad/joy with your sadness/joyness) “We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behaviour.” ― Stephen M.R. Covey "You say you love rain, but you use an umbrella to walk under it. You say you love sun, but you seek shelter when it is shining. You say you love wind, but when it comes you close your windows. So that's why I'm scared when you say you love me. " - Bob Marley
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hes very kind, patient and understanding. ty for helping me feel a bit better to where i did not self harm
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He's an amazing person, plus a wonderful and truly skilled listener. I'm glad I connected with him. He patiently heard me and gave the most practical and useful advice. He's truly a blessing!
GREAT GUY!!! Great at listening and understood how I felt 
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He's a kind and good listener. Thanks
Super good and helpful listener who was prompt and really validated how I felt. Thank you!!
amazing listenr
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Was good to talk to. Good listener.motivated me a lot
He's good, thanks
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