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LittleOleUs |
Listener - Apprentice 8

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Hey there! My name is Fran.
I'm delighted that you have found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am a trained listener, here and happy to lend you an ear. I am in no way a professional therapist/guidance counselor; despite that, however, I'm here to help you through your struggles and lift you up; don't ever be afraid to message me!
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Want to know a bit about me?
I'm 19 years old, and a sophomore in college. I enjoy a lot to do with "the arts," including: Instrumental Music, Singing, Theater, Drawing, Photography, and Writing. I also do Martial Arts, my styles being: Hapkido, Tong Moo Kwon, and Jiu-Jitsu ground fighting. I found a lot of who I am, and who I aspire to be through martial arts. I'm very nature-oriented, and I do a lot of Hiking, Gardening, and spending time outdoors. When it comes to religion, I have explored many options in terms of spirituality. I am ultimately an atheist and a lover of the Earth.
I am also a proud member of the LGBT+ community, and have been for many years. I have gone through a lot of exploration and changes with my gender and sexuality, but have ultimately found who I am by listening to myself and no one else. I consider myself bisexual and female, but labels don't matter to me and I just go with what feels right.
I have been in a very lovely and strong relationship now for over a year and while there have been ups and downs, we build each other up as people and I am happy to share my experience with others.
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I firmly believe that everyone - no matter your race, sexuality, gender, religion, or any other sort of practice - has a place in this world, and that everyone deserves happiness. That includes YOU. You are a perfect, amazing human being, capable of perfect, amazing things. Don't ever forget that. I want you to love being you, and I want you to love living. Don't ever think you're weak for seeking help, because that is the strongest thing anyone can do. You're strong and brave.
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Don't be afraid to message me, even if I'm offline! I will respond as soon as I can. Be safe, be kind, and live life. I love you all! <3
 
Just a note - I do not feel comfortable talking about self-harm or suicide, just because I feel, myself as a non-professional, that I could never give that person the support that they really need. If you have self-harmed or thought about suicide, I really recommend that you use one of the hotlines this website provides, and if you message me needing support, I will provide you with those numbers. Thank you!
Number of Ratings: 67
Number of Reviews: 17
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Apr 17, 2015
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 183
Cheers 9,775
People Helped 75
Chats 78
Group Support Chats 2
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 1
Forum Upvotes 0
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Eating Disorders
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Breakups
Family Stress
ADHD
Forgiveness
Grief
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
Relationship Stress
Spirituality
Student Life
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 182, on January 13th, 2018
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    Completed step number is 181, on September 10th, 2017
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    Completed step number is 179, on March 11th, 2017
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    Support Guide
    Completed step number is 178, on March 4th, 2017
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    Completed step number is 176, on March 4th, 2017
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    Completed step number is 172, on March 4th, 2017
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    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 171, on March 1st, 2017

Feedback & Reviews
LittleOleUs was absolutely lovely
He was very helpful
I recommend. Good Advice.
I recommend. Good advice.
He was very nice and polite. I loved chatting with him, although it was short. His attitude made me feel comfortable.
Great response time and very empathetic
10/10 would recommend very helpful and kind thanks again
Most help I've ever gotten with 24/7 crisis/depression/anxiety etc. chat. Keep doing what you're doing, it certainly made me feel better
I honestly appreciate your empathy. Thank you Francis. - Chloé
Really helpful and kind :) would totally recommend!
He did amazing! Towards the end, we started talking casually, but it still felt awesome and supportive!
Amazing listener. Makes you feel trusted right from the start and will listen to you for hours.
The best listener I've met in my whole life.
The listener was really helpful, I've learned a lot and it was a great help!
I recommend this listener to everyone 'cause he's the best!
The best ever. Helpful, very nice. Never changed the pace or asked anything I found wrong. The best ever.
LittleOleUs is very easy to talk to, replies quickly, and is considerate and thoughtfull. They are open to listen to any problems I feel like I have, whether I think them small or large. If you are reading this LittleOleUs, thank you for being here to listen to me and help me along the way.
Helped me figure things out
AWESOME SIMPLY AWESOME
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Magnet Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Surviving Breakups Self Harm Sexual Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Bullying Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher College Guide Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening People of Color Guide Boundaries Forgiveness Managing Finances Getting Unstuck 7Cups Guide 12 Steps Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Evolution First Chat Five Steps Hang 10 Open Door
Questions Answered
How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
September 3rd, 2016 11:07pm Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
September 4th, 2016 8:48am What are triggers and how do I know if I have one?
September 3rd, 2016 11:01pm How do I keep myself from overreacting?
September 3rd, 2016 11:02pm What's the difference between bullying and teasing?
March 29th, 2016 6:53pm Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?
February 24th, 2017 4:24am Is it healthier for me to ignore and stay away from what causes my anxiety or to confront it?
March 29th, 2016 7:46pm How can I stop my hands shaking
March 30th, 2016 2:33pm Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?
September 5th, 2016 4:47pm How do I come out to someone I like romantically?
March 29th, 2016 7:18pm Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
September 4th, 2016 8:43am I've just come to terms with being transgender. How do I come out to my girlfriend of many years?
September 3rd, 2016 11:06pm Why is exercise important for me?
September 3rd, 2016 10:58pm