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Would you be able to forgive?
Relationship Stress / by LittleSpitfire
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 July 5th, 2019
...See more My partner dumped me again. It seems to be a favorite thing of his to do. He kept promising (like every time before a breakup) that we weren't and then we did. Again it was over something stupid and I'm not even going to get into it. We were in a relationship (finally) on Facebook and he had told me to just leave it be and then last night he got on and changed his to single. So much for leaving it be. My trust in him has diminished since the first stupid breakup back in May and keeps diminishing after each. I feel so betrayed. He kept lying and breaking promises. He keeps hurting me and all he can do is say sorry. It's not enough anymore. He wants to remain friends and "better" ourselves. He said that changing his status to single was part of the breakup process and it's "just a status on Facebook." He doesn't seem to give a shit about anything he does and how it makes me feel. He said maybe down the road after we "fix" ourselves, we can get back together. Why should I? Why should I remain friends with someone who wasn't even a good boyfriend to me? So he can feel better for hurting me constantly? He LIED. Repeatedly. Yeah, he didn't cheat (so he says), but he LIED about other stuff. How can I forgive him or even trust him again? Being dumped 4 times for no real reason. Would any of you remain friends with your ex after he dumped you for stupid shit? 
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Newbie Hub / by LittleSpitfire
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 September 28th, 2014
...See more I heard about this place because of a listener by the name of MissHedgehog. She posted it on a forum I frequent called Loving From a Distance. Thanks to her and this place, I've gotten to feeling a LOT better about some stuff.
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