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...See more Hey so I'm not entirely sure if spilling my guts on this website will be helpful or hurtful or maybe even against the rules? (Pls dont ban me!) But I just saw some other entries where people were talking about their feelings and people responding so kindly and with so much support so I just wanted to try some things out. I've lost a couple really important people in my life over the past year. It's not something I really talk about because everyone who has experienced those same losses have such different coping mechanisms that it's hard for me and them to be on the same level. My best friend for almost eight years decided to move on from me last year, it was one of the hardest things I had ever gone through. And right before that happened, my brother moved out and stopped talking to my family. Then me and my male crush at the time had a bunch of fights and parted ways, same with another friend. It's so so so hard for people to cope when you feel like your support group is falling apart. And now, I feel like we're just supposed to pretend like nothing happened? Ignore each other in the halls, if my brother ever reaches out i'm just supposed to forgive him, and just in general pretend your life still goes on just fine without those people. Because those people are darn good at looking like they're just fine without me. I don't mean to make anybody sad or revisit past feelings if they've ever experienced some sort of similar loss, but I just needed to tell somebody that wasn't angry when I was sad, or crying when I was fuming. Sometimes it's good to just let the feelings out. xx

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