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LogyBear
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Heyo, I'm Logy and I'm pangender (any pronouns)! My favorite type of music is punk rock and musicals. I like to watch Vines on YouTube, along with Thomas Sanders. I also like anime (that doesn't have to do with sports). I would love to talk with people that also like things like Thomas Sanders. I'm a writer and artist. I dislike the use of emojis and lack of punctuation and capitalization, but it's fine if you do those things. We're all unique, so you do you.
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Am I the toxic friend?
Relationship Stress / by LogyBear
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 April 7th, 2020
...See more I recently got into a fight with one of my closest friends, Raven, and she had one of her other friends come and talk to me about it because she was so upset over it. What I had said, I regret and it was mostly just me wording my thoughts wrong. Anyways, when Raven's friend, Freedom, came to me to tell me how I was making her feel Freedom mentioned how I was a toxic friend. She also added that people who are toxic usually don't know it, so that got me thinking. Am I actually the toxic friend here? That's when I decided to seek help. I had no clue that I was being a toxic friend and I wanted to change that so that I at least knew when I was being toxic so that I could stop myself. As for the things that I said. I tend to not have a filter when I talk. I can go on and on about whatever topic you give me as long as I either know about that topic or I have an opinion about it. Some of the things that I would talk about is murder and cannibalism. Which are morally wrong in so many ways, but if you think about how that would help in terms of overpopulation and world hunger, they could solve that. The thing that we got into an argument about was whether incest was okay. Now, I know a lot of people are going to go "But it is bad!" or "I would never want to do the do with a relative!" I understand that, and I wouldn't either. But we were talking about fictional characters who are brothers. Some of the points that Freedom made were that parents force their kids to get married and that if it's gay that it can be an uncle and nephew or an aunt and niece. I'm aware of that, but that's where my points of that if it's a blood relation, it shouldn't be a straight couple because of the genetic deformities that a child produced by the two would have unless there is a sperm donation or something like that. Another point that I made was that if the couple should be within five years apart or less for age reasons. I got sidetracked, sorry. Anyways, would I be the toxic friend for not watching my mouth even though I put trigger warnings on things for the people who don't like the things I talk about? Or are Raven and Freedom just overreacting to what I do? Because neither of them ever asked me to stop, they just told me that what I was doing is wrong. Freedom yelled at me over text, and Raven blocked me without talking things through with me. And my friend, Royal, even has a problem with Raven and their therapist told them that Raven was the toxic friend. So, as much as I want to believe Royal's therapist, I also want to believe Freedom because people are naturally harder on themselves than most people are on them. So, to bring us back to the main question. Am I the toxic friend or is my friend the toxic one?
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