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...See more Okay so here's the short version....I started talking to this guy that ive always had a crush on. We connected on Facebook and hit it off. Strong feelings were exchanged in a rather short period of time and i love yous were said about a month after we started talking.....yes I know seems fast but we had that kind of chemistry. So anyways...a few weeks after that he abruptly stops talking to me...I thought I loved you but I don't...you feel way stronger for me than I do for you.. etc....made me feel like shit...we didn't talk for 2 weeks and then all of a sudden he messages me on Facebook and he's apologetic that basically he scared himself and that he wouldn't hurt me again and that he wanted to move slower. Which i totally agreed to. So now...things have been great that was back in may and we are in Oct now....well deja vu has struck and he's like I don't want to be in a relationship. I can't do this I've been thinking about it for a few weeks now and its not fair for you for me to promise you something that I can't give....so now I'm like wtf? He's been telling me all this time how much he loves me and wants to start a relationship with me. I asked him if it was me and he says no that it's him. My question is what do I do? It's been over a week and a half now with no communication. Should I leave him alone? Demand answers? My mind is going crazy.... :(

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