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Trauma-informed care

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Grief is Misplaced Love
Trauma Support / by LovingMilton2020
Last post
 March 28th, 2022
...See more Grief is love with nowhere to go. Grief is simply the love you had for the individual who died or you lost in any form such as death, divorce, etc. You can no longer directly express the love. It is trying to force itself out of your body. Often it does so in tears and screams. There are ways tho we can learn to still express our love for them without being able to still hug, kiss or talk to them. * Advocacy- if your loved one died from the injuries of suicide you may begin to find relief in supporting people suffering with suicidal thoughts and learning how to help the mental health community. The same can go for breast cancer awareness etc. * Memorialize- Some people will make metrical gardens or decorate their loved ones grave. I actually painted for quite awhile. It can be arts and crafts. Anything you feel memorialized them and manifests itself physically. * By loving others- If your wife died you may love your child even more that you both created. This may feel like your still directly expressing your love to that person or passing it down. In conclusion, your love for them can still be sent into this world and come back to you. It can be difficult to find what helps you most, but you will find out. Support and compassion, Milton St. Emiliani {CGCS, ORDM}
Daily Qoute
Trauma Support / by LovingMilton2020
Last post
 December 18th, 2021
...See more Man Cannot Remake Himself Without Suffering for He is Both the Marble and the Sculptor. -Alexis Carrel
Relationships in adulthood after child abuse
Trauma Support / by LovingMilton2020
Last post
 December 17th, 2021
...See more Relationships in adulthood after an ACE(Adverse childhood experiences) often reflect what our childhood lacked. It unpleasantly resurfaces itself. As a child I was adopted from foster care by an abusive dad and an ill mother. They both died before I was ten. My entire life I’ve had “mommy/daddy issues”. Which is a very terrible thing to call it. Overtime I’ve began to heal through therapy and today I am almost a therapist myself. Has anyone else experienced this and in what ways?
In memorandum of the children of Sandy Hooks
Trauma Support / by LovingMilton2020
Last post
 December 16th, 2021
...See more Today, was the ninth anniversary since the a gunman claimed the lives of 20 children and 6 teachers at a school in Sandy Hook, Connecticut. That was a dark day I remember very vividly. As a person born in 2001 it seems fun violence has been my “9/11”. Today, we keep in our hearts and minds those who still mourn the loss of these innocent children and people by violence. We remember the tears they cry alone even after all these years. Usually, after a traumatic event has faded away in the news the victims and people traumatized are forgotten as the world keeps turning. Tonight, I keep in mind the survivors with these memories engraved into their minds and the mothers who still weep at the graves of their children. It is my prayer everyone who mourns this tragedy heals and attains serenity in their hearts. We will never forget the children of Sandy Hook.
Child Abuse
Trauma Support / by LovingMilton2020
Last post
 December 17th, 2021
...See more Child Abuse Recovery When I was an infant I was adopted with both my sisters by a family that couldn’t have children. The mother was very ill and the father was an LPN. Overtime the father became very burned out from caring for my mother as she was bed ridden. My mother died when I was 7 and my father decided to move back to his hometown with us to be closer to family for emotional support. He loved us into a terrible house that was falling apart and broken in any way you can imagine. He became so consumed by his grief he became an alcoholic and drug user. He became extremely angry and abusive. When I was 10 he died of a heart attack. Both my adoptive parents had died and I was only ten. His ex wife started taking care of me and 3 months later she died of breast cancer. I was so consumed by grief as a child I was mentally damaged very badly. I saw a school funded counselor for years and then as I became older I went to a therapist(LCSW). Today, I am finishing my psychology degree and a certified grief counselor. It’s my hopes to help others and to see everyone recover.
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