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...See more Back story:(sorry if this is hard to understand and is crazy long) Me and my ex boyfriend started officially dating in March but were friends for about a year before we got together as we worked together. I was in another long term relationship while we were friends. He started to catch feelings and proceed to chase me for 6 months. my previous relationship was coming to an end and it had nothing to do with my most current ex. We ended up booking up while I was still with that current boyfriend knowing it was wrong I caught feelings for my most current ex. About two weeks later I got the courage to break up with the guy had been dating for 4 years. My most current ex has also been f*cked over in previous relationships. He was then skeptical to get in to the relationship even though we both had feelings because of what I had done to my other ex he didnt want to be hurt again. I had never felt the kind of love I had with him we continued in the relationship and had told him I would reassure him if he was ever feeling insecure. Dash forward to what I thought was 7 wonderful months of love. He broke up with me. We got in a small argument and it escalated and we never really fought he said he didnt think he could be in this relationship. I cried and I begged to get back together for about a week then I started to lose hope. We still kept in contact me pleading him saying no then yes than no again. Until this past week when he said he thinks we could try again. We were hanging out and I went to the bathroom and he looked through my phone to see a guy send me a shirtless picture seeing miss your face this guy was a friend I met on a hike we had hung out once and talked back and forth maybe a little flirting but nothing crazy I had told my ex I had met him and was snapping him but I denied having his number. He caught me in the lie when we were arguing but I only lied Because I didnt want him to get mad. Realizing now it only made things worse. We werent dating when I met this guy and I had no emotional attachment to this guy just someone to talk to. He then proceeded to tell me he cant trust me and cant do this... again. I beg and I pleaded... again and did today even. He cant get over it and doesnt believe we didnt hook up or I didnt have feelings for him. I dont know what to do I love him and only him but he wont believe me. I know what I did was wrong but I never cheated never would. He says he still loves me and has said it and been hot and cold this whole month but Im confused and Im not even sure if this got the message of what Im asking for clear across. If you read to the end thank you and sorry for the confusion please give advice

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