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Thanks for stumbling into my profile :) It's very nice to see you! I'm Mel and I'm a young girl from Buenos Aires, Argentina. I'm a college student majoring in physics. I work as a support teacher for young kids mostly. I love teaching and explaining things - I think everybody deserves their chance at understanding a difficult matter, even if they need more time for it than someone else would. 

I'm not much of a talker as a listener. I feel like it's very important that every single person out there has someone to rely on and be there for them. I want you to feel like you can tell me anything on your mind, feel heard, understood and never judged. That's what I aim for. I know I can't change your life nor magically solve your problems (Although I would really like to be able to do that) but I do can promise to be here, as much as possible and as much as you need. I'm your friend and I'll always care about you. I deal my own battles every day and I know that talking helps. You are never alone here.

I would like to be a writer someday, because books mean a lot to me. Everything I want is what I write to be special for someone, if I could make at least one (only one) person feel something by something I wrote, I would already feel realized. Writing has always come naturally to me. It's who I am. As a kid, I would always grab a pencil and write, instead of drawing. I would always make stories up in my mind to tell other people. I would always write too much, speak too much, and take too long to tell an anecdote. I was born a storyteller. At the moment, I just do it for fun and for myself or my close ones.

Anything else you would like to know about me, feel free to message me and ask, I'm pretty much an open book! and will love to get to know eachother more. If you are around here and have any question or need someone to chat or you are a new listener and want a long term mentor to cheer on you and be happy for all your success - I'm your gal. 

Much love,
Mel. 
Number of Ratings: 195
Number of Reviews: 55
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Aug 20, 2014
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 1,102
Cheers 373,374
People Helped 455
Chats 2,120
Group Support Chats 644
Listener Group Chats 2,545
Forum Posts 2,575
Forum Upvotes 4,515
Categories
Managing Emotions
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Anxiety
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Family Stress
Weight Management
Bipolar
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Perinatal Mood Disorder
Social Anxiety
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General Mental Health
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Growth Path Timeline
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    Small, Simple Step
    Completed step number is 1101, on January 25th
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    Support Guide
    Completed step number is 1100, on January 25th
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    Listening is important Work
    Completed step number is 1099, on January 25th
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    Small, Simple Step
    Completed step number is 1098, on January 25th
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    Compliment a Listener
    Completed step number is 1097, on October 29th, 2020
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    Shout-Out
    Completed step number is 1096, on October 29th, 2020
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    Practice Mindfulness
    Completed step number is 1095, on September 22nd, 2020
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    Is Your Tank Full
    Completed step number is 1094, on September 22nd, 2020
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    Group Support
    Completed step number is 1093, on September 15th, 2020
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    Most Important Thing
    Completed step number is 1092, on September 13th, 2020

Feedback & Reviews
one of the best listeners here. i love getting messages from Mel, shes always so supportive, friendly, and nice. she reads all my messages and understands exactly what i say. im so grateful for you, Mel
Mel is super approachable and helpful.
Mel is a compassionate listener. I am glad I was able to speak with her. She was patient and supportive to me. Recommended 10/10
Idk really know what to say other than thank you for everything x
Very thoughtful and full of enthusiasm!
Great chat. Very helpful and nice.
This person has helped me a lot 💚
She's patient and takes you seriously, helpful and easy to talk to, ambitious and her personality is a positive breath of fresh air. A good example of what a good listener is.
So lovely and genuine, definitely worth the click!
Very helpful and understanding
incredible
Mel is awesome! She is super helpful and caring to be honest. ❤
very caring
she's really nice! te amo
Truly amazing person truly cares about people heart of gold helped me in my time of need
Thank you
Lovely gal :)
She was very helpful.
Amazing
such a kind human being. I'm happy I had a chance to talk to you
She took the time to listen to me even when I didn't matter. Thanks
She is a great listener
Always listens to me and never judges Mel is amazing thank you so much you always make me smile!
Mel is amazing listener I adore her thanks mel!
Is an amazing listener! I am so glad and happy I had the opportunity to have her as my listener! She is kind, supportive, sweet, and awesome! You'll love her as your listener!
No one else has ever cared about me like she did. Mel is the sweetest girl I have ever met. Thank you so so much
Hugs! Yeeee! Your awesome and you know it! Boo-da boom-boom
You are perfect and I just wanna thank you for how amazingly kind you are with us
Mel is great because she cares for you like no one else will. Thanks Mel :)
Incredible listener, super sweet girl. Helped me a lot.
I love you, Mel
Mel, thank you so much for being there. You are awesome
Lovely girl. She's always here for me. Thank you so so much
Love her to the moon and back so helpful
Great
Really good listener and helped me with everything I needed. Mel's awesome!
I feel like what was being said really helped me to think a lot better of what was going on
Mel, you're the best listener here, I couldn't have asked for anyone better. You made me feel loved because I know you care, even if you don't know me ♥♥ You're supportive and you're always there for me! You are literally always always online no matter what time is it and you answer so fast ♥ And every feeling you leave on our talks, they show me that you really care! You made me realize I do matter and I know I couldn't have done it (you know what! :p) without you!! I love you, thank you, thank you
your really understanding and you dont judge give excellent advice.
She's so kind and comforting! A terrific listener :)
She's such an amazing person. Really helpful
Is the best!
thank you so much!
Muy buena escuchando, realmente ayuda mucho y uno se siente escuchado ♥
Mel is a great listener!
Very thoughtful and understanding and easy to talk to. .feel like iv known you for ages!
She is not only my regular listener, she's my friend. I know I can trust her and that she'll listen with attention, she really cares and it's like... too sweet! Couldn't ask for someone better.
Thank you, Mel
She's literally the best person in this world. She's a really good listener and she really knew how to help me. I loved talking to her, she was really really helpful. She's nice and sweet. And she answers really really fast! Also asked a lot a of good questions and made me realize things I haven't thought! I will definitely contact her again. The best listener I have talked to.
Mel, thanks for being there, you're amazing!!
-virtual hug-
Very helpful, great person. :3
She responds super fast and is really really nice.
Thank you for listening last night. It helped me put words to my thoughts, words that would have come out as gibberish today if I hadn't talked to you first.
Really helped me and understood me. Helped me figure out a way to hopefully make things better instead of saying "move on". Thank you :)
Great
Love all your help!
thank you a lot! i wanna hug you -virtual hug-
Great chat, really helpful.
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December 23rd, 2014 12:58am What are your personal strategies for coping with the symptoms of your anxiety?
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