MidnightRaven999 |
Listener - Virtuoso 8

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Please read the whole profile before contacting me! (except quotes section you dont have to read that unless you're interested) 

My availability is: Monday-Thursday, 1 pm- 1 am EST; I dont take member chats Friday - Sunday, as those are my self-care days. You can still message me over the weekend and I'll get back to you on Monday! I also limit my chats times to between 30-60 minutes, depending on how much time I have.
I usually keep my status set to busy or offline mode, but dont be afraid to send me a message anyway. Please include what you would like to chat about when you leave me a message, it would be really helpful to me so I know what you're going through.

About Me
My name is Jayson and I'm a transgender guy! I've suffered through ADHD, PTSD/trauma, anxiety, BPD, and I'm proudly a part of the LGBT+ community. I'm always here if you need to talk. I want you to know that when you open a chat window with me, it is a safe, confidential place where you can share as much or as little as you want with me.

Topics I specialize in taking



ADHD



Anxiety



BPD



PTSD/Trauma



LGBT+ issues



Bullying



Chronic Pain

Topics I DONT take



Depression



Suicide/self-harm



Drug/Alchol Abuse



Sexual chats (I do take sexual issue chats, but if you are being inappropriate toward me, i will end the chat. Please be respectful)



The topics listed above are often trigger-topics for me, so please find a different listener to chat with about these issues. If you have a different topic that is not on either of these lists, or on my listed topics i take, you can feel free to contact me and I'll see if i can help you!

Listener Twins!!
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Things I do here!
Peer Support- I offer support to listeners after they have been through a difficult or stressful chat



Quality Mentor
Chatroom Mentor
Global Mod
Safety Patrol
Verifier Team
Chat Support - i offer support to listeners during a difficult/hard chat





~Quote The Raven, Nevermore~



"Sometimes there is no darker place than our thoughts, the moonless midnight of our mind" -Dean Koontz
"We're all needed, even those who sometimes think we're worthless, plain and dull. If we love and allow ourselves to be loved...Well a person who loves is the most precious thing in the world, worth all the fortunes that ever were." -Dean Koontz
"Being polite is not only the right way to respond to people, but also the easiest. Life is so filled with unavoidable conflict that I see no reason to promote more confrontations." -Dean Koontz
"There's no such thing as being cowardly in a fight" -Edward Elric
"Sometimes its good to be scared, it means you have something to lose" -Richard Webber
"Just put one foot in front of the other, just get through the day." - Meredith Grey
 "I'm a human being, I make mistakes. I'm flawed, we all are." - Derek Shepherd
"The future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes." -Owen Hunt


Number of Ratings: 132
Number of Reviews: 55
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 8, 2018
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 2,786
Cheers 202,391
People Helped 343
Chats 1,562
Group Support Chats 252
Listener Group Chats 1,799
Forum Posts 507
Forum Upvotes 1,174
Categories
Bullying
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
ADHD
Social Anxiety
Disabilities
Borderline (BPD)
PTSD/Trauma
Feedback & Reviews
Very great listener! They let me talk about all that i needed to talk about. They wre very empathetic and cared a ton! I would totally recommend them, especially to anyone struggling with borderline personality disorder! Thank you so much for being there for me when you could be! I wish you the best! -kat
Had an amazing and focused chat! Got to the core of my problems and was able to find a solution really quickly
Lovely lovely person. Very understanding. Very helpful. Shared relevant personal feelings. Able to use reflective techniques while still conveying empathy and not sounding like a robot. Thanks so much for being you, it really did help.
Awesome willing to build trust and don't rush you to open up
Open minded, non judgmental, queer* friendly. Definitely have a talent for listening, always feel as though I have been heard after we have talked!
they were such an amazing listener, really appreciated my chat with them!! :D
Really understood me and listened fantastically. Helped a tremendous amount
Really helped me understand what I am going through and provided valuable insight.
Amazing and really helped me through it all thanks so much x
Super nice
So nice
Great
Really empathetic of the complex issue I put forward. Very understanding!
good listener, very friendly and understanding
She really cares
Nice
you are my rock!
Patiently listens and helps you the most he can!
Jayson was really nice, supportive and comforting.
Excellent!
he was nice
Great
There a few of good listeners, this one of them... good listener
Really amazingly nice and kind. Has a lot of patience and is very supportive!! Highly recommended!
Helped me with a very sensitive topic. Thank you!
very sweet, very very nice and helpful!
Understanding
very nice
Very empathetic and supportive.
Good
Doing amazing
Great
Great
Very validating
Very kind & helpful
great listener!
Great listener who also gives helpful feedback. It’s nice to not feel like you’re just having a one sided conversation.
he's really nice, and empathetic. i really like him :) C
Very nice
It's like talking to a close friend. He makes you feel comfortable at all times. Highly recommended!
Great! He's so kind and is a great listener.
Very supportive.
Very helpful, super kind and caring. I'm so glad I had him as a listener. He really helped me a lot. Thank you so much.
Very understanding and knowledgeable. One of the best listeners I've spoken with on here :)
Great Listener. 1000 stars
Lovely and warm. Not at all pushy or demanding. An interaction I found almost easy!
Genuine
Thanks for listening... and for giving input. You helped me get through this afternoon.
very sweet and helpful :)
Wonderful listener. Calm and patient....wish i had more stars to give you. Xoxo
So helpful to talk with this listener. I felt like they genuinely understood what I was going to and they were super caring. Seemed like they were really focused on our conversation and not judgmental at all. Really helped me gain some clarity!
Excellent Listner
good listener
Really a great person.
Very very grateful
Community Leader
Chatroom Moderator
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support Community
Chatroom Moderator
Positivity & Gratitude Community
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Questions Answered
How can I stop with triggering myself to self harm?
August 7th, 2018 6:40pm How to tell someone you're depressed without saying it?
August 9th, 2018 5:56pm How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
August 9th, 2018 5:54pm Is it okay to miss my biological Mom even though she abused me for the first 5 years of my life?
August 7th, 2018 6:17pm Why do people feel the need to demean others to feel better about themselves?
August 7th, 2018 6:08pm What's the best way to stand up for someone that's getting bullied without becoming the target of it yourself?
August 7th, 2018 6:00pm Is it considered a panic attack if I do not get any chest cramps or major pain?
September 24th, 2018 5:52pm Does everyone have panic attacks in the same way? Are panic attacks different for everyone?
August 7th, 2018 6:39pm When should you seek medical attention for anxiety?
August 7th, 2018 6:49pm how do i stop worrying about the things that don't matter?
August 7th, 2018 6:11pm How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
March 21st, 2019 4:18pm Is staying in the closet forever a bad thing?
August 7th, 2018 6:21pm Why can't I start to talk with my crush ?
August 7th, 2018 6:05pm How can I be a great advocate for the trans community as a cisgender individual?
October 15th, 2018 8:25am Where can I find information about gender identities?
August 7th, 2018 7:12pm Why is my daughter a lesbian?
August 7th, 2018 6:29pm I'm a 14 year old boy, I've had many girlfriends, kissed and some petting, I watch straight and lesbian porn, but I watch gay porn aswell does that make me gay?
August 7th, 2018 7:07pm How can you unlove someone?
August 7th, 2018 6:25pm Is it normal to constantly feel an urge to be under the influence of something?
August 7th, 2018 6:37pm Is it normal when you get upset you cant cry you just feel as if you cant breath and you just sit there thinking of nothing except all the pain thats coming onto you
August 7th, 2018 6:02pm Where do parents draw the line between being concerned and being controlling?
August 7th, 2018 5:57pm How do I deal with a religious family as an atheist?
August 12th, 2018 11:07pm