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MissCarla |
Listener - Intermediate 2

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Please be respectful of all the listeners on this site and remember that we are all giving our time to talk to people in need. Please don't reach out to me just to have inappropriate chats, I'm happy to listen and help but not be inappropriate. 



My name is Carla and I am a Verified Active Listener here at 7 cups.  I have struggled with anxiety and an eating disorder since I was a child, and depression for most of my adult life. I am also a cis gendered female who happens to be a pansexual. I am a Mum and a wife, and the issues you and I have do not define us as people. You'll find me hanging out in the Anxiety support group and also in the LGBTQ+ group chats too :)



I know the struggle some of you are feeling every day so I am here to listen, to talk things through with you and together, we will get through this.


For anyone who would like me to listen, I am here for you. Send me a message so we can get started.


Number of Ratings: 50
Number of Reviews: 15
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 20, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 566
Cheers 17,058
People Helped 91
Chats 205
Group Support Chats 16
Listener Group Chats 7
Forum Posts 55
Forum Upvotes 43
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Eating Disorder
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Parenting
Self-Harm
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Family Stress
Social Anxiety
Loneliness
Relationship Stress
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Nominate a Listener
    Completed step number is 564, August 2nd, 2017
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    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 562, August 2nd, 2017
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    Is Your Tank Full
    Completed step number is 561, August 2nd, 2017
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    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 560, August 2nd, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 559, August 2nd, 2017
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    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 558, August 2nd, 2017
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    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 557, August 2nd, 2017
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    Small, Simple Step
    Completed step number is 556, August 2nd, 2017
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    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 555, August 2nd, 2017
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    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 554, August 2nd, 2017

Feedback & Reviews
Attentive, caring and responsible. Very, very kind!
they were very nice,
Helped a lot in a time of need when I could not talk to anyone else
Greatest listenet i've ever met. Makes all your problems seem irrelevant
Helpful and really understanding of how I feel
Very helpful
Great gal
She's great. :)
So helpful. Responded right away and gave sensible and empathic advice/replies. She even checked up on me the day after. I felt actually listened to, not that I was just typing to someone. Her replies were thoughtful and she was very attentive to my feelings, just the right amount of sensitivity as well.
Absolutely superior listener!!! She is very wise, patient, tolerant and non judgmental. She really made me feel better when I was feeling so bad...just excellent.
This was the first time I felt like somebody understood what i was saying and didn't belittle me for expressing the way I feel about my problems. it was extremely cathartic for me and the feedback showed a genuine empathy and understanding of my issue.
Nice to talk to, very helpful
sweet, caring, very kind. Definitely someone I would recommend!!
She's very nice, and very caring!!
Wonderful lady. Listened to me with such patience and understanding that I felt very comfortable with her and for a moment forgot my loneliness too. I will sleep better tonight thanks to her. Thank you Miss Carla
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
At what point should I seek help for how I feel?
June 29th, 2015 12:35pm What's the best way to get over loneliness?
June 20th, 2015 7:40pm Why do I desire to sleep so much?
June 22nd, 2015 12:41pm Is it normal for me to scratch and bite myself?
July 31st, 2017 3:03pm I'm worried I look incompetent at work, what can I do?
July 30th, 2017 3:56pm I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
June 21st, 2015 10:33pm Am I considered anorexic if I eat normally sometimes?
June 22nd, 2015 12:44pm Why can't I stop eating or stop the craving for food?
June 22nd, 2015 12:40pm Why can I ask a question directed away from me, but as soon as conversation is turned to me I panic?
June 22nd, 2015 12:47pm Why does anxiety cause insomnia?
June 22nd, 2015 12:45pm Even though I understand my anxiety and coping skills from a logical perspective, such as what triggers my anxiety and how I can calm myself down, why doesn't understanding make the problem better?
June 22nd, 2015 12:38pm Why do I keep waking up thinking about the day ahead?
June 22nd, 2015 12:46pm How can I tell my parents that I'm gay?
June 20th, 2015 11:45am How can I hide my weaknesses from those around me?
June 22nd, 2015 12:43pm I've tried to address things with my family but they still won't change. How do I just let things go?
June 22nd, 2015 12:42pm Why can't I be treated equally?
June 22nd, 2015 12:41pm How do I support my family better?
June 22nd, 2015 12:37pm