MonicaQu |
Listener - Virtuoso 7

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Hello, I'm MonicaQu a listener glad that you came across my profile. Hola soy una oyente y estoy muy feliz que has encontrado a mi perfil.  

I am able to talk to teens as I teach 15 and 16 years old. Also I can talk about most topics with adults about  anxiety, relationship problems, school problems just to name a few. I am able to talk about sex related topics but with not too much information. All other topics I'm fine with such as chats on Bipolar, depression and issues to do with Weight Management and Eating Disorders as I have family members who deal with these.

You can message me offline to make an appointment . I'm free most weekends during the day or night and sometimes around 5pm until 6pm on Monday to Thursday. Or else you can send me daily messages telling me about your days.

In my chats, I usually can talk for 40 minutes then continue another day and talk to only one person at a time. Listening to you, means a lot as I know some things you can't go to a friend or family member that it is easier to do where you are anonymous.  In my chats, you can expect a non-judgemental place and feel like you are talking to a friend. 

I can take chats in English or Spanish.  

For listeners, 

I am a teen/adult listener and have been a member since 2014 so you can come to me for any problems or if you want to refer a chat you can tell them my username.  You can find me in Listener Support Room, or High School Room for teens. I am also part of the Spanish Speaking group so if you come across a Spanish speaker or you are a Spanish speaker yourself, send me a message. :)


Some cool information about me : I'm an Anthropologist and study Spanish at university. I have been in Ecuador for 3 and a half years now. I'm originally from New Zealand. 

I have been involved in a variety of projects like the : Red Cross, Refugee Service and I am a yellow ambassador where students at my school could come to me to talk a bit like 7cups but in real life.  I really like coffee and like to use Stumbleupon as it interests me to see what random page I come across. I also like to destress by going to rumba (dancing latin rhythms at the gym)

Number of Ratings: 317
Number of Reviews: 107
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Sep 19, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Progress Path Step 1,714
Cheers 198,795
People Helped 1,047
Chats 2,706
Group Support Chats 22
Listener Group Chats 40
Forum Posts 101
Forum Upvotes 96
Feedback & Reviews
Very polite, pays attention, interactive, confortable to be with and compassionate. A true good listener!
She’s great. Really professional and caring.
amazing. she truly helped me out.
she was very understanding and patient with me, even when it was hard for me to articulate what I wanted to say.
Friendly person.
MonicaQu is a good listener and tries to understand you
An awsome listenner asking the important questions.
reall good listener
Sweet and supportive, although her answers seemed a bit choppy.
The listener was very relatable. She is compassionate and tries her best to help you. Highly recommended. She'll make you feel better.
very understanding towards everything
she is amazing and helped me alot
Amazing listener and very helpful! Thank you!!!
She's nice, no stress
She's an amazing listener and so personable! I feel like myself around her!
It’s going great
she is awesome to talk to !!!
MknicaQu really listened to what I had to say and I appreciated her checking on me.
I felt that I was able to finally talk to someone about my issues and still feel wanted even after talking about how I felt on certain topics. Very nice and doesn’t make me feel dmall
She was super nice, listened well and really just calmed me down. This is hands down the best experience I've ever had on this site!
Really receptive, responded quickly and was very polite
Asks questions and was very nice and understanding
Very nice and patient person.
She was super helpful and a great listener :)
open to listen...
It went pretty well
she is just awesome and very caring great listener
Incredibly helpful
Awesome listener!
great listener best I found
Very good variety of resources and responds very quickly
Thank you to MonicaQu for spending the time to listen to me and my woes. She provided a friendly ear, gave me links to useful information. Really apprieciate her time and thankful for finding this site as I didnt have anyone else to speak to.
Gave me many helpful and thoughtful options to sort out my situation.
Awesome to talk too
amazing, to be honest
Speaking with MonicaQu has helped comfort and calm me down so far.
Very nice
Really helpful and informative
Very good!
Very undersatanding!
A helpful person, makes me feel so better and with professionalism
She's a really good listener
I think she s an amazing person , and anyone with a problem wont be disappointed to talk to her
Excelente persona
kind and caring
Extremely professional but not on the edge of being ungenuine. Very helpful and willing to look into resources for you.
very nice!!!
Incredibly understanding and doesn't use that typical sympathetic attitude. Extremely professional.
understanding and patient.
Thank you!
amazing, very caring, helpful and understanding. I feel so lucky to have had this conversation.
really amazing, very understanding
She gets it. She understands, she's attentive
Thank you for your support
hey you are great! :)
Great service really love being here
very helpful and insightful great to talk with MonicaQU
she is a wonderful listener !
She is very nice and courteous
I love that she checks back in on me a few days later!
ready to listen, very kind and helpful. Thank you so much!
she was so great, she listened about a really difficult topic and didnt try to give me bad advice or judge me like others did, she helped me outline options and really just let me vent and created the environment for that, great listener!!!
I wish to speak again
Personally I am not a very open person but Monica has really helped me to feel comfortable and is very professional but not over the top. Has a nice and easy to talk to side.
Good listener. Kind-hearted and helpful. Asks good questions to get me thinking. Great experience!
She's really nice
they help you a lot with a calming chat.
She's nice, very clever
A very kind and compassionate listener.
This person helped me clear my mind and really think the situation through. Thank you :)
Im glad i had the experience to talk to you
She is extremely helpful. I felt so much better after talking to her. I was able let everything out and she was very understanding
They were nice
Honestly she is awesome........I like her way of talking.....she is really good....thanks a lot of..
Very Helpful
Very kind and understanding.
I trust their advice a lot because of their position in a teenager's life like mine! They are so helpful and relatable.
Very good listener. You can tell she genuinely tries to be there for you
Very helpful and insightful person. I really felt like I was talking to a friend

Great Listener!
Very helpful :) When I said that I had to go since I had to go to sleep she was very understanding and said that we could keep talking about it tomorrow. No matter how complicated things got because of my personal circumstances, she kept trying to help find new ideas on how to manage things
She is so patient and understanding. She is also very polite.
She was very helpful. Thank you, 7 cups of tea.
thank you for listening!
I like her
Thank you for your words
You are pretty good at what you do, and amazing at giving compliments. I appreciate what you said to me, and I think the other venters feel the same way.
You are Amazing.
I so love her opinions , as if she knows everything :-) thank you monica :-)
She giving me good advice so far
Professional and insightful. Thank you for your time, I truly appreciate it.
Good listener
I really appreciate you talking to me thank you so much for helping xxx
It feels like a true counseling session, which I like a lot. I didn't know internet counseling existed before today, and I'm surprised I just found out now.
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