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MonicaQu |
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Hello, I'm MonicaQu a listener glad that you came across my profile and more than welcome to message me. Hola soy una oyente y estoy muy feliz que has encontrado a mi perfil.  

I am able to talk to teens as I teach 15 and 16 years old. Also I can talk about most topics with adults about  anxiety, relationship problems, school problems just to name a few. I am able to talk about sex related topics but with not too much information. All other topics I'm fine with such as chats on Bipolar, depression and issues to do with Weight Management and Eating Disorders as I have family members who deal with these.

You can message me offline to make an appointment . I'm free most weekends during the day or night and sometimes around 5pm until 6pm on Monday to Thursday. Or else you can send me daily messages telling me about your days.

In my chats, I usually can talk for 40 minutes then continue another day and talk to only one person at a time. Listening to you, means a lot as I know some things you can't go to a friend or family member that it is easier to do where you are anonymous.  In my chats, you can expect a non-judgemental place and feel like you are talking to a friend. 

I can take chats in English or Spanish.  

For listeners, 

I am a teen/adult listener and have been a member since 2014 so you can come to me for any problems or if you want to refer a chat you can tell them my username.  You can find me in Listener Support Room, or High School Room for teens. I am also part of the Spanish Speaking group so if you come across a Spanish speaker or you are a Spanish speaker yourself, send me a message. :)


Some cool information about me : I'm an Anthropologist and study Spanish at university. I have been in Ecuador for 3 and a half years now. I'm originally from New Zealand. 

I have been involved in a variety of projects like the : Red Cross, Refugee Service and I am a yellow ambassador where students at my school could come to me to talk a bit like 7cups but in real life.  I really like coffee and like to use Stumbleupon as it interests me to see what random page I come across. I also like to destress by going to rumba (dancing latin rhythms at the gym)

Number of Ratings: 600
Number of Reviews: 267
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Sep 19, 2014
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Feedback & Reviews
Really nice. Sweet to talk to.
She was a very good listener, and was genuinely interested in my situation.
An amazing person!
A very kind person
Really kind, understanding, supportive and fabulous listener. Monica gets you and empathizes so well. She helped me feel a lot better.
She understands what i say. She listens
theyre really nice!!!
She is really kind and listens to you
I have been there many times and I have seen many amazing listeners but she is one of the best. I'm so thankful and grateful that she exists
a lovely person very helpful thankyou so much xx
She is a really good listener and she knows how to respond. she is always caring and always checking up on me which makes her awesome! she has helped me through a lot :)
A very nice listener who accepted me as I am.
Monica is such a nice person to talk to! She's kind, caring and so thoughtful! I love talking to her.
Great listener and really friendly and nice to talk to
So kind and comforting. Thanks for all your help.
She is probably the best listener on this site, she is AWESOME.
she is amzing and hse is helping me
Super nice and a great listener. Would love to talk with her any time!
shes a great listener and it made me feel better about my problems
She listened to what i have to say and it helped
Loved it! Awesome chat!
kind heart and warm
Very helpful and empathetic
Knows exactly what to say!!! So sweet and understanding.
Gran oyente, disfrutè mucho hablando. Ayudò a que me sintiera un poco mejor.
She's good, calmly listened to me.
thanks me for participating in sessions, really nice:)
It's a good listener! I feel better chat with her
A wery nice listener,helped me a lot!
She is really nice, and listens :p
¡Es bastante buena! La recomiendo.
They reached out to me after a sharing circle and talked to me about depression by asking me questions and guiding the discussion. I've never had a listener do this before and it was interesting. I think it helped me to realize or at least remember some things about myself and answering the questions helped by giving me something to focus on other than my thoughts.
Super sweet! She really understood me
She’s caring and listens to what I have to say.
Always so helpful!
that was a kind and respectful chat tho thanks
They're a really nice listener
Great listener! Really understands and very thoughtful!!!
She is a good listener
She is a great listener, seems to understand everything that I'm telling her.
A very understanding person, awesome
They are very supportive
she is one really really good lisiner i like talking to her and she is always there when you need her!:)
It was a nice chat.
She is understanding and very nice. She connects with the person
Amazing , she is a really good listener who gives great feedback!
They were nice and really understanding.
Really friendly and a good listener. Makes me feel welcome. I would recommend to anyone that is struggling to find a good listener. Takes a little bit to reply, but I don’t think that’s necessary a bad thing. Just letting anyone reading the review know.
She is very sympathetic and seems to really understand what I'm going through
Really good listener, they helped me out a lot and gave some really good advice and insight.
they're a great liste er and honestly cheered me up a lot more. I was super calm finally getting the stuff off my chest and they were super supportive.
Very good listener :)
she really listened to me and took her time it helped me a lot
she is understanding
They helped me so much
very helpful...
very kind and caring lovely person to talk to
Best person to talk to! :)
she nice and really cool
I don’t really know what happened but she was very nice and thoughtful. Something happened and now I’m here.
Great listener!!
kind great awesome
Kind, helped me well and understood me. :)
She's a great listener.
She is so understanding and very nice! Although she does ask quite a few questions at a time, she is still very worth talking to :)
the person was really great and helpful, thank you,
Pretty good really understanding
She will comfort people who needs help. She listen to people. I recommend her!
She was amazing and very real
She is very helpful and is a good listener.
Engaging and encouraging she was just wonderful to chat with
Brilliant, I feel a weight had been lifted off my shoulders
She's super nice and helpful!
Moni is really kind, she helped me calm down in less than 15 minutes
Nice person, knows how to listen, helpful as well, helped me
is the most wonderful student in the world
Very kind❤️ Highly recommend
Really helpful and nice
Great listener they ask great questions
Seeks to understand while also staying chill and giving open space. Engaged but not overwhelming.
She was very understanding. I was feeling very alone and depressed, and she made my day
thx helps you feel better
They really helped and they did great
A great listener. I really felt heard. This listener is genuine and actually wants to help and be there.
She is very helpful and it is nice having someone to talk to.
Really helpful and complete :)
She is helpful, and is listening to what I have to say.
It was great to have someone listen to me, thank you
very good and details your answers to make you feel reassured and happy there’s someone to listen
She was very nice
Very kind and patient, thanks for your help!
Asks multiple questions to get me going. Great listener and doesn’t twist my words
helpful listener
She is a great listener. So far so good
Was very helpful!
So far she is very polite and replies fast
Really helped me think critically about the issue I was dealing with. Although the feeling hasn’t fully subsided, I feel much better about what we were talking about.
Kind, understanding, and calm, MonicaQu is an amazing, compassionate person. Would recommend talking to her if you want a calm opinion.
Very good listener
Great listener really knows how to help!
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