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Moniv32
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Recreating Boundries
Relationship Stress / by Moniv32
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 September 15th, 2023
...See more Hello, my partner and I have been together 13 years. My family refuses to accept her and before this weekend I had strong barriers that allowed me to see how interested my family was in my life. To be frank, my boundary for the past couple years has been that I stay away from my family and stay close to those who add value to my life. This past weekend my family home was threatened by a Forrest fire and I reached out to see how I could help. This created a rift with my partner but she encouraged me to go help. When I was done helping I let my family know where I stand with my boundaries and why I don’t go around. I ended up hanging with my cousins and drinking. Mind you that I don’t drink. I called my partner to pick me up and she refused because for one I was drinking and for two she didn’t want to be around my family. I called her some ugly names and my sister and her friend gave me a ride home. When I arrived home my partner spoke to my sister and told her how she didn’t want me home while I was drunk and I started to blame my sister for creating the rift between my family and my partner (my chosen family). I want to ensure that I am strong enough to recreate my boundaries and do a hard reset. I want to learn to become less impulsive in my decisions. Any suggestions?
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