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MoyaDad
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Pushing through!!!
PathStep 142 Compassion hearts211 Forum posts14 Forum upvotes71 Current upvotes71 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2025 Member sinceMarch 1, 2025
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I am traditionally a loner with very few friends and relationships. This was not an issue in my younger days but I am finding it hard to cope as I get older. At this point I feel that life just keeps hitting me harder and harder...pushing me to the floor irrespective of how hard I try. The last few years have been a constant struggle. 

I would like to find a hand to hold. A shoulder to cry on. A friend to laugh with...go to movies with. Someone I can cook for and even argue with. 




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Shikata ga nai
Newbie Hub / by MoyaDad
Last post
 April 3rd, 2025
...See more Hi all. Recently came across this and thought I should share.  There is so much in our lives that is outside our circle of influence. We must try to learn to accept that which we cannot control.  Love you all. Bises xxx
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Blackouts
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by MoyaDad
Last post
 July 4th, 2025
...See more I don't often drink, maybe twice a month. Problem is that when I do, I get total black outs within the first 2-3 hrs of drinking. My friends tell me they don't notice as I act totally normal. They say I don't look drunk until much later in the night.  I have made the decision to completely stop drinking. I don't believe this will be an issue as I stopped 2 years ago for close to a year whilst I went through a health improvement stage. Incidentally, my blackouts started since my resulting weight loss as I use to drink way more and also more often before I lost weight. 
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