Pandette |
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**Sorry for being MIA lately. I've been incredibly busy (school) and I'm not sure as to when I will be back on. Feel free to send me a message and perhaps we can schedule a time if you are interested. Sending love and hugs your way!**
Hello everyone and welcome to our lovely home, here at 7 Cups of Tea! I'm glad you decided to join us for whatever reason it may be! I just wanted to let you know that you are always welcome here and I know that I will never judge any of you.
A little bit about myself: well, I was in depression for 7 Years and was able to overcome all of the negativity and hardships. During this time, I was also self-harming and addicted to various drugs/alcohol. There were tons of misdiagnoses. Oh, it was not a good time for anyone but I am here to tell you that things do get better! I was able to get out of my long-term depression and you can too! You can face and conquer any problem that comes about! Now, I would like to mention that I am diagnosed with bipolar disorder and sometimes it gets the best of me, but I try my best to make it work! 
I've been through a lot in life and faced many issues: major depressive disorder, eating disorders, panic attacks, breakups, traumatic experiences, work-related stress, self-harm, sexual abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, parenting, bullying, family stress, phobias, and sleeping well! If you have anything on your mind at all, please do not hesitate to send me a message.
Sending lots of love and very warm hugs your way. And never forget, I will always be here if you need me. Love you all so very much!
Number of Ratings: 60
Number of Reviews: 19
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Punjabi
Listener Since Aug 6, 2014
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 964
Cheers 88,776
People Helped 116
Chats 839
Group Support Chats 49
Listener Group Chats 270
Forum Posts 338
Forum Upvotes 364
Feedback & Reviews
panda is cool
She is the greatest ever! I love how she helps me with everything!
She is just awesome. It wont be wrong to say that she is like a lightening star in one's hopeless life. She deserves 5 stars and may be more. I wish for her a life full of happiness as she spreads in mine.Stay blessed Pandette, Always!
My best experience with a listener on this site, ever! ALL OF THE STARS!
Pandette is wonderful. She really listened to me and helped me talk things through. My evening was a little less lonely for having talked to her.
Thank you Pandette.
Emily B. x
Thank you for taking the time to talk to me.
Best conversation I've had about ptsd yet.
Pandette! you are an Angel. Stay the same just like the way you are. The world needs you :)
She is quite simply awesome :)
This listener is amazing. Give her a few minutes of your time. It will be worth it.
She is so lovely and compassionate. I felt like no one could understand the way I was feeling, but guess what? She did. I wish I had more people like you around, you make me feel so good and appreciate. She really cares!!! Pandette, thanks you very much for everything. Our conversation made me feel so special, I wish I could give you a big hugs and I don't actually feel like I have words enough to describe how great you are.
You are a very lovely listener and you always lift people up when they are down. :) I always leave you the highest ratings because of this. Everyone check her out. :)
An amazing listener!
so far they have been true! :)
I really enjoy talking with this listener he/she is amazing and is very helpful and will help you sort through whatever issue you may have. :)
she's an amazing listener i wish everyne whjo cums on here get the chance to speak to pandette.. really niceperson feels as if im speaking with an old friend
I really appreciate how you respond so quickly and are so helpful. You really make me feel supported, and like there is a caring individual that is there for me
Awesome!
Very sweet, kind, empathetic and overall helpful. :)
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Questions Answered
How do you help someone who is depressed?
November 18th, 2014 5:00am
How do you deal with depression after a breakup?
November 10th, 2014 2:48am
I've been depressed my entire life, what is it like to not be depressed?
November 17th, 2014 8:31am
What kind of treatment is available for depression?
November 19th, 2014 1:29am
Can depression lead to other problems? Does it often?
November 16th, 2014 8:41am
Shouldn't I be able to get over depression on my own?
October 27th, 2014 2:30am
Is there a quick-fix for depression?
November 16th, 2014 8:38am
I'm always tired and too exhausted to seek help, what can I do?
December 8th, 2014 3:31am
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
October 27th, 2014 2:28am
My friends, family or colleagues don't think depression is a real illness. How can I educate them?
November 10th, 2014 2:49am
How can I stay motivated when I suffer from depression?
November 18th, 2014 4:45am
Will I always have depression?
October 27th, 2014 2:41am
How can I stop being a control freak?
November 20th, 2014 4:49pm
How do I stop from using the internet too much?
November 17th, 2014 8:36am
What to do when you're lonely and have no friends?
June 1st, 2016 6:47pm
Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
July 7th, 2016 3:59am
What can I do when I'm really angry at someone but can't immediately leave the situation?
November 18th, 2014 4:53am
I can't get angry at the people I care about, is there something wrong with me?
October 27th, 2014 2:40am
Is it possible to control my emotions?
November 10th, 2014 3:00am
How can I stop being lazy?
November 17th, 2014 8:32am
How can I manage looking for a new job while busy with my current one?
November 18th, 2014 4:50am
I am unemployed and depressed, how can I stop depression from affecting my job search?
September 18th, 2014 12:18am
What can I do about harassment or abuse at work?
November 17th, 2014 8:30am
Someone in my office is being harassed by our boss, what can I do about it?
November 18th, 2014 5:16am
How can I stop being a bully?
April 15th, 2015 12:07am
How can I get bullies to leave me alone?
December 5th, 2014 5:27am
what do "normal" people eat?
August 3rd, 2015 12:10am
Is it normal not to know what is the portion a normal person eats?
May 6th, 2015 5:51am
Why can't I eat as much as I used to?
May 4th, 2015 3:27am
Is it possible to have a binge eating disorder but still be skinny?
July 6th, 2016 6:49pm
Does it help to identify panic triggers?
November 18th, 2014 5:19am
Is there any medication I can take for panic attacks?
October 27th, 2014 2:23am
Will these panic attacks stop me from doing the things I love my entire life?
May 6th, 2015 6:32am
Can a panic attack last longer than a few hours?
June 28th, 2016 6:07pm
What are some alternatives to self-harm?
November 18th, 2014 5:09am
Why is self-harm so addictive?
November 10th, 2014 2:52am
Are you open about the fact you self-harm, or do you hide it?
October 27th, 2014 3:43am
Why can't I stop self-harming?
October 27th, 2014 2:42am
Will my marks heal?
November 10th, 2014 2:57am
Am I a bad person for self harming?
November 19th, 2014 1:32am
I'm scared if I tell someone I self harm, they'll think I want to commit suicide and send me to the hospital. Could this happen?
November 10th, 2014 2:58am
Can I die from self harm?
November 18th, 2014 5:15am
Can self harm be considered a coping mechanism?
November 10th, 2014 3:01am
My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?
December 18th, 2015 2:49am
I cheated, should I break up with my partner?
October 27th, 2014 2:57am
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
November 18th, 2014 6:01am
How do I get over wanting to contact my ex?
November 16th, 2014 8:43am
We broke up, but I feel like I want to get back together with them. What should I do?
November 10th, 2014 2:46am
How do I know I should break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend?
November 17th, 2014 9:44pm
How can I stop talking to my ex after a breakup?
June 1st, 2016 6:45pm
Why do I freak out in relationships so easily?
July 15th, 2016 6:10am
How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?
July 7th, 2016 4:01am
is it a bad thing to stay in love with someone who left you?
July 15th, 2016 6:13am
Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?
July 6th, 2016 4:31am
How can I stop drinking or taking drugs?
October 27th, 2014 2:35am
My family member is an addict and I don't get why they just can't stop now.
November 18th, 2014 5:52am
Are there others out there who have managed to stop completely?
November 22nd, 2014 8:29pm
How do I deal with my emotions if I relapse?
October 27th, 2014 2:45am
How do I know if my drinking or drug use is becoming an addiction or a problem? I can stop any time I want...
November 10th, 2014 2:56am
Why do I feel depressed when I'm not smoking weed?
August 3rd, 2015 12:08am
Why should I stop drinking?
July 10th, 2016 11:46pm
My parent discourages me from expressing my emotions. How can I vent?
November 18th, 2014 5:24am
My parents don't listen to me, what should I do?
October 27th, 2014 3:25am
My family always makes decisions for me, what can I do about that?
November 19th, 2014 1:32am
My family seems to hate my significant other. What can I do?
October 27th, 2014 2:22am
I hate my family and want to move out right when I turn 18... is that okay?
November 16th, 2014 8:40am
I'm an only child, and I worry about who I'll be with when my parents die. What can I do?
May 6th, 2015 8:00am
My parents complain about each other to me, and I don't know what to do.
November 17th, 2014 8:27am
When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
July 15th, 2016 6:17am
How should I respond when one parent speaks badly about the other?
August 3rd, 2015 12:14am
I've been sexually assaulted. What should I do?
November 18th, 2014 5:50am
I'm scared to tell people how my trauma affects me, because I don't want to be seen as weak-what can I do?
November 17th, 2014 8:28am
I have a hard time talking about what happened. Why?
September 8th, 2015 11:36pm
Can a therapist help me deal with my trauma?
November 10th, 2014 3:03am
If I tell someone about what happened, will they try to make me relive it?
November 18th, 2014 5:49am
I tried to talk to someone about what happened to me, but they just said I should stop complaining. Are they right?
October 27th, 2014 2:25am
I've witnessed a crime, how can I handle this situation safely?
October 27th, 2014 3:38am
I am the only survivor. Why do I feel guilty?
November 17th, 2014 8:34am
Will talking about what happened make me feel worse?
November 16th, 2014 8:37am