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Pastell
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Relationship Stress / by Pastell
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 April 11th, 2020
...See more Since lockdown, I flew back to my country for safety. My partner is from London so he stayed there was he lives with family . We have been together just over 2 years. Recently we seem to be having a lot of arguments and it gets really heated. Since lockdown we haven't really spoke and when we do it's brief before falling out and not talking for days. In a crisis like this it makes it worse because I feel we should be together . He's recently started watching Netflix on video chat with his friend , they are watching this tv show that contains lots of female nudity . When he mentions he is going to watch this show I get really angry and turn volitle and treat him coldly . The thought of him looking at it makes me really angry and hurt . This is so foolish I feel foolish typing it out. I mean everyone knows what boobs looks like , but why do I feel like this? I really don't know. He's nearly 30, if he wanted to look at naked women he can go on Google and look it up . He loves me and I love him and I trust him. He has re assured me plenty of times about this. But why am i having such problems with it.. it's not jealousy, it's not insecurity. Is it stupid to only think your partner should see naked parts of you and not other women. Yes probably it is because there's no running away from it in modern society. I just want advice on how I can get over this. I don't want to unfairly treat my partner this way. Out of all things to have problems with, this has to be the stupidest sorry .
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