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PerfectlyImperfect9090
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5.0 star rating
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Number of ratings26 Number of reviews8 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Punjabi, Urdu Listener sinceNov 23, 2014 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 77 People helped45 Chats85 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes4
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Hey Beautiful soul!

When you disclose to other people – whether the disclosure is something embarrassing, painful, humiliating, or desperate – when you admit fear, when you share pain, and most especially when you cry in front of someone else… when you do these things, you make yourself vulnerable. You allow other people to see you at “less than” whatever society – or your family or your friends – has deemed appropriate for people in your given situation. You allow people to get close. You allow for the possibility of rejection. You put it all out there and it screams, “This is who I am right now. It is not strong. It is not pretty. It is not easy to see. But it is exactly where I am right now, and it makes me me.”
And when you do that, the person you are disclosing it to has the option to walk away. And in giving people the choice to walk away from a pained and scarred and raw you, you made the bravest choice of all; you showed what I believe to be real courage.
Just because it hasn’t happened, doesn’t mean it won’t. A lot of things take time to mature, especially people.

May your goodness always increase
 And your smiling face never cease :)

Feedback & Reviews
She came into my life to help me when I was in hurting and her words were kind and compassionate and I had a Eureka moment where it all made sense
Fantastic beyond words will have to speak to this one again at any time
Absolutely fantastic beyond words, responded quick and gave excellent self advice I would love to speak to this listener at another time really, really, really great highly recommended give this listener a try !!!
She's awesome, such a beautiful, kind, sympathetic, and lovely person. I highly recommend her. People like her should exist more to make this planet a better place to live :)
She's a really good, empathetic and nice person. :3
Kind, considerate and neutral. I feel so much calmer now
Very good listener. Shows empathy and professionalism. Highly recommend her. Not enough stars here for her. :-)
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