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PhoenixB |
Listener - Intermediate 7

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hey! I’m glad you’ve found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I’m an active listener and I like to support people struggling with everything from self-harm to family problems and whatever lies between. I enjoy writing (it’s my passion in life), being outside, listening to music, and playing with animals. I’ve overcome a lot in life and would love to help by listening to you and offering support. If I’m online, please feel free to start a chat. If I’m offline, send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you’re here.

Shoutout to my twinsies and friends, @skyisblue, @brilliantshoe, and @Brightheart993!

Number of Ratings: 41
Number of Reviews: 9
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Oct 20, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 93
Cheers 19,223
People Helped 83
Chats 286
Group Support Chats 1
Listener Group Chats 1
Forum Posts 23
Forum Upvotes 27
Growth Path Timeline
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    Member Welcome Program
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    Simple Breathing Exercise
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    Self Care Initiative
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    Share Gratefulness
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    Welcome a Newbie
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    Treat Yourself Like a Friend
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Feedback & Reviews
She's good, she's sweet
She's a person you want to meet
A listener who makes you forget sad version You
And helps you think lots of happy stuff too!
really kind and nice!!! they are really supportive and they helped me a lot
(S)he really made me feel accepted and important. She didn't judge me and I felt like I could connect to her
This person could be god.
PhoenixB was great. They emphasized the idea of me being a beautiful human and they really made me feel better.
absolutely amazing, she/he helped me so much and i feel so much better now, shes a great listener
Very nice, super helpful and answered back pretty quick, considering our different time zones. helped me figure out some of my problems and id definitely talk to them again :)
It was helpful to talk to the listener, she actually listened and it helped me a lot to just talk to someone, no time limit to stop
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Cultural Diversity Bullying Chronic Pain Sleeping Well Love Bug Refresher Self-Care Self-Love Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Schizophrenia ADHD Social Anxiety Managing Finances 2nd Birthday Party Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Evolution First Community Five Steps Hang 10 Fall 2018 Events
Questions Answered
How do you help someone who is depressed?
December 15th, 2015 6:36pm
What is the difference between sadness and depression?
November 2nd, 2015 7:06pm
I feel like it will never go away. Will it really?
January 14th, 2016 12:17am
Should I quit my job or take leave (FMLA) because I'm having a difficult time trying to function normally.
December 15th, 2015 6:40pm
How to get rid of depression?
November 10th, 2015 6:20pm
Why does no one care about me?
December 15th, 2015 6:41pm
I have a good life why am I not happy?
December 15th, 2015 6:50pm
What makes it so hard to put into words what's going on in your own mind?
October 27th, 2015 3:53am
How can I stop pretending I'm not there?
November 2nd, 2015 7:02pm
Why do I feel so inferior and worthless and useless all the time?
December 15th, 2015 6:54pm
"Have I been gaining weight because I'm depressed, or have I been depressed because I'm gaining weight?"
December 15th, 2015 6:56pm
Why am I not able to get out of bed?
December 15th, 2015 6:35pm
Who can i go to for relationship advice?
October 23rd, 2015 6:36pm
I need help. Can I find this on 7 Cups of Tea?
November 15th, 2015 7:00pm
Why do I feel so depressed at night?
November 15th, 2015 6:32am
Why do I feel so depressed before my period?
January 14th, 2016 12:15am
Why do I feel so alone?
November 4th, 2015 7:01pm
How can I help people online in need?
November 14th, 2015 4:26pm
How can I help people with depression?
October 27th, 2015 3:55am
How can I help people with cancer?
November 15th, 2015 6:34am
How can I help people in other countries?
November 15th, 2015 6:35am
How can I volunteer online helping people?
November 25th, 2015 4:54pm
How do I stop being jealous of others success?
November 4th, 2015 4:11am
Who can I talk to about my problems?
November 18th, 2015 7:12pm
Who can I talk to about my problems online?
November 18th, 2015 7:13pm
I need help with my life
November 13th, 2015 3:05am
How can I find a listener whom I can talk to at set times every other day or so?
October 24th, 2017 9:39pm
What are the consequences of vomiting on a regular basis?
December 3rd, 2015 7:31pm
What's the easiest way to come out of the closet?
December 1st, 2015 7:00pm
Am I really who I want to be?
December 15th, 2015 6:43pm
What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?
December 1st, 2015 6:55pm
Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?
December 1st, 2015 6:57pm
How can I know if I won't regret sex change treatments?
October 24th, 2017 9:40pm
When is the right time to come out?
December 15th, 2015 6:47pm
Why do I have to constantly prove to people im Bi?
December 15th, 2015 6:37pm
How can I know if I'm bisexual if I had only one-gender experiences?
October 27th, 2015 6:23pm
How can I cope with the fact that I self harm?
December 15th, 2015 6:44pm
How to get rid of self harm scars?
December 3rd, 2015 7:21pm
Why is trichotillomania (hair pulling) not as addressed in the self harm community?
December 1st, 2015 6:52pm
How can I stop feeling ashamed of my scars left from my self-harm after recovery?
October 27th, 2015 3:47am
Do the thoughts of self harming ever go away, even if you've officially stopped?
December 15th, 2015 6:58pm
How do I get out of the routine of self-harm, it is something that makes that dark numb feeling go away and frankly I feel addicted to it.
October 27th, 2015 6:21pm
How do i deal with urges to relapse?
October 29th, 2018 8:07pm
I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
December 3rd, 2015 7:25pm