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PhoenixB |
Listener - Intermediate 7

Listener Rating     
Hey! I’m glad you’ve found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I’m an active listener and I like to support people struggling with everything from self-harm to family problems and whatever lies between. I enjoy writing (it’s my passion in life), being outside, listening to music, and playing with animals. I’ve overcome a lot in life and would love to help by listening to you and offering support. If I’m online, please feel free to start a chat. If I’m offline, send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you’re here.

Shoutout to my twinsies and friends, @skyisblue, @brilliantshoe, and @Brightheart993!
Number of Ratings: 41
Number of Reviews: 9
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Oct 20, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 93
Cheers 19,223
People Helped 83
Chats 286
Group Support Chats 1
Listener Group Chats 1
Forum Posts 23
Forum Upvotes 26
Categories
Depression
LGBTQ+ Issues
Self-Harm
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Support Guide
    Completed step number is 91, on March 20th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 90, on May 26th, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 88, on December 14th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 87, on December 14th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Share Gratefulness
    Completed step number is 86, on December 14th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Welcome a Newbie
    Completed step number is 85, on December 14th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Treat Yourself Like a Friend
    Completed step number is 84, on December 14th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 82, on December 14th, 2016

Feedback & Reviews
She's good, she's sweet
She's a person you want to meet
A listener who makes you forget sad version You
And helps you think lots of happy stuff too!
really kind and nice!!! they are really supportive and they helped me a lot
(S)he really made me feel accepted and important. She didn't judge me and I felt like I could connect to her
This person could be god.
Amazing
PhoenixB was great. They emphasized the idea of me being a beautiful human and they really made me feel better.
absolutely amazing, she/he helped me so much and i feel so much better now, shes a great listener
Very nice, super helpful and answered back pretty quick, considering our different time zones. helped me figure out some of my problems and id definitely talk to them again :)
It was helpful to talk to the listener, she actually listened and it helped me a lot to just talk to someone, no time limit to stop
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Cultural Diversity Bullying Chronic Pain Sleeping Well Love Bug Refresher Self-Care Self-Love Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Schizophrenia ADHD Social Anxiety Managing Finances 2nd Birthday Party Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Evolution First Community Five Steps Hang 10 Fall 2018 Events
Questions Answered
How do you help someone who is depressed?
December 15th, 2015 6:36pm What is the difference between sadness and depression?
November 2nd, 2015 7:06pm I feel like it will never go away. Will it really?
January 14th, 2016 12:17am Should I quit my job or take leave (FMLA) because I'm having a difficult time trying to function normally.
December 15th, 2015 6:40pm How to get rid of depression?
November 10th, 2015 6:20pm Why does no one care about me?
December 15th, 2015 6:41pm I have a good life why am I not happy?
December 15th, 2015 6:50pm What makes it so hard to put into words what's going on in your own mind?
October 27th, 2015 3:53am How can I stop pretending I'm not there?
November 2nd, 2015 7:02pm Why do I feel so inferior and worthless and useless all the time?
December 15th, 2015 6:54pm "Have I been gaining weight because I'm depressed, or have I been depressed because I'm gaining weight?"
December 15th, 2015 6:56pm Why am I not able to get out of bed?
December 15th, 2015 6:35pm Who can i go to for relationship advice?
October 23rd, 2015 6:36pm I need help. Can I find this on 7 Cups of Tea?
November 15th, 2015 7:00pm Why do I feel so depressed at night?
November 15th, 2015 6:32am Why do I feel so depressed before my period?
January 14th, 2016 12:15am Why do I feel so alone?
November 4th, 2015 7:01pm How can I help people online in need?
November 14th, 2015 4:26pm How can I help people with depression?
October 27th, 2015 3:55am How can I help people with cancer?
November 15th, 2015 6:34am How can I help people in other countries?
November 15th, 2015 6:35am How can I volunteer online helping people?
November 25th, 2015 4:54pm How do I stop being jealous of others success?
November 4th, 2015 4:11am Who can I talk to about my problems?
November 18th, 2015 7:12pm Who can I talk to about my problems online?
November 18th, 2015 7:13pm I need help with my life
November 13th, 2015 3:05am How can I find a listener whom I can talk to at set times every other day or so?
October 24th, 2017 9:39pm What are the consequences of vomiting on a regular basis?
December 3rd, 2015 7:31pm What's the easiest way to come out of the closet?
December 1st, 2015 7:00pm Am I really who I want to be?
December 15th, 2015 6:43pm What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?
December 1st, 2015 6:55pm Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?
December 1st, 2015 6:57pm How can I know if I won't regret sex change treatments?
October 24th, 2017 9:40pm When is the right time to come out?
December 15th, 2015 6:47pm Why do I have to constantly prove to people im Bi?
December 15th, 2015 6:37pm How can I know if I'm bisexual if I had only one-gender experiences?
October 27th, 2015 6:23pm How can I cope with the fact that I self harm?
December 15th, 2015 6:44pm How to get rid of self harm scars?
December 3rd, 2015 7:21pm Why is trichotillomania (hair pulling) not as addressed in the self harm community?
December 1st, 2015 6:52pm How can I stop feeling ashamed of my scars left from my self-harm after recovery?
October 27th, 2015 3:47am Do the thoughts of self harming ever go away, even if you've officially stopped?
December 15th, 2015 6:58pm How do I get out of the routine of self-harm, it is something that makes that dark numb feeling go away and frankly I feel addicted to it.
October 27th, 2015 6:21pm How do i deal with urges to relapse?
October 29th, 2018 8:07pm I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
December 3rd, 2015 7:25pm