Hello and welcome! I look forward to meeting you!! 😸

I'm PheonixKitty92, and this is my listening account! You can call me Kitty!

I'm a 🇨🇦 Canadian 🇨🇦 Cis woman in her 30s, residing in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada. My beautiful neurodivergent mind graces me with the daily struggles of ADHD, depression, minor OCD, and quite possibly other autism spectrum disorders.

I have a habit of getting attached easily and quickly, which often causes strain on friendships/relationships in my life. This has led to relying on online relationships/friendships, as I seem to have a little better luck there. 

My partner of almost 5 years was actually met online; he lives in California, USA, and we are quite happy! Our long-distance relationship is quite difficult; however, we do our best to have open and honest communication and be as supportive of each other as we possibly can. Sometimes we spend time watching movies/TV shows together online, we would both pick something together, and then do our best to press play at the same time. And we message each other while we're watching, so it's almost like we're there together. Other times, we will play video games together or sit on video chat and just enjoy each other's company. 😸

My biggest goal in life is to help brighten the lives of those who may feel consumed by the darkness of negativity and cruelty in their life. I intend to use my time here at 7 Cups to be a compassionate listener who can provide support to those who feel alone or would just simply like someone to chat with. I will always do my best to respond to messages in a timely fashion; Within 24 - 48 hours of contact. If something comes up that affects this goal, I'll do my best to ensure that any members involved in 1 on 1 messages with me are informed promptly.

I often have a bad habit of oversharing, but I try my best to be a good listener and support those around me. I felt that since I already try to do this in my daily life, it would be beneficial to also do it here in the 7 Cups community!!

Some things I enjoy doing to help keep me grounded:

🎵Listen to music! What types of music I am likely to listen to is often influenced by the mood I'm in (or sometimes the mood I want to be in).

✏🖊Writing!! I sometimes write poetry that may one day be composed into music. I also like writing stories, essays, and journals! 

🧑‍🎨 🎨 Artistic Activities! Drawing (mostly digital), colouring, crochet, macrame, and diamond art. The arts in general have been my go-to coping mechanism when I am struggling.

🎮 Video Games! The current game of choice is Ark Survival Ascended, because I find that the dinosaurs look really cute, and it's my way of having pets in a home where pets are not suitable. It also allows me to use my creativity to build a base and explore the area!! Lots of things for me to do when I need an escape from the real world!

If anything I've shared here sounds like something you'd like to chat about, or you'd like to just chat about anything, my inbox is always open! I 

AVAILABILITY: 

Unfortunately, I am currently unable to support any new members until further notice.

Before I go, I'd like to share a little gem that has helped me through many of my own dark times. Unfortunately, I can't remember who wrote it, but here it is:

When times get hard, and you feel you have absolutely nothing left to keep you going... try to have HOPE:

Hold

On

Pain

Ends

Note: Please let me know if the colours on my page are not working for whichever format you're using. I'm working on trying to find colours I can use that will work universally with both light and dark formatting. I will gladly keep adjusting the colours until I find a winning combination!

Kind regards, 

PhoenixKitty92Listens