Probius |
Listener - Exemplar 11

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Hello! My name is Probius and I am glad you found me on Seven Cups of Tea. I'm a Verified Listener, and I can help with LGBTQ+ issues or anything else you need help with. I have dealt with LGBTQ+ issues myself, so I would love to help you. If I'm not immediately available, send me a message and we can work out a time that will work for you. 
I am no longer taking new members. 

My Past Involvement:
LGBTQ+ Support Team Co-Leader
Internship Mentor
Quality Mentor
Peer Supporter
Group Moderator
Verified Listener Team
7 Cups Intern Graduate
Welcoming Committee
Adult/Teen Listener
If you want to chat with me, you can book me by clicking on the icon below, or just PM me anytime. :)


Number of Ratings: 382
Number of Reviews: 144
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 21, 2015
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 899
Cheers 420,761
People Helped 899
Chats 8,269
Group Support Chats 597
Listener Group Chats 113
Forum Posts 576
Forum Upvotes 892
Feedback & Reviews
Great guy i love him
Probius was a great listener. They've helped be better understand how I feel about my sexuality.
Probius is a good listener, he asks questions which u often forget to ask yourself. By that you enlighten your situation yourself a little bit. He's nice and patient. Gratis agere tibi -loyalCran
A lovely and thoughtful person. I look forward to chatting again :)
He was a real,help
Probius was very helpful and especially kind and empathetic. They helped me figure out some things about my sexuality and clear some confusion that I had as well.
Really good listener!
Amazing person, a true kind soul :)
You’re such a good listener who knows what they’re doing. Keep it up, you really helped me tonight
Incredible listener and very good advice
Very helpful and feel at ease sharing my feelings
An incredible listener. thank you for everything
Probius helped me sort my thoughts and hesitations about my issue. They were non-judgemental, kind, calm, and asked me great questions and reminded me of what I had trouble reminding myself of.
very helpful. got back in time fast and just a good support :)
Amazing amazing amazing
Probius let me vent despite my confusing explanations, and asked good questions to help me reflect on the situation. Thank you!
Probius made me feel very relatable while I spoke to him. He helped me gain knowledge on what sexuality could be and made me more aware of things. I liked talking to him, he is great
I felt very relatable while talking to him. Probius really helped me gain knowledge on what my sexuality could be and made me more aware of things. I liked taking to him. He is great :)
Probius is so relatable . He understood me and genuinely helped me know more about my sexuality. Keep up the good work :)
He is very helpful
A great listener , incredibly patient and kind soul, been a great support for me in difficult times!
Very good Listener, moderator and Person.:)
Probius' was extremely supportive and I felt I could relate and open up, which I found fantastic.
So kind, professional, and caring. Absolutely amazing!
Very helpful, supportive and understanding
Most amazing listener and I appreciate everything you have done for me. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Was willing to talk to me one on one and it's very helpful
He is an amazing, fantastic, and absolutely magnificent listener! Wow! That sums up my experiences chatting with him. I would definitely say that he is one of the best listeners on this site. His responses are very quick, never known any other responses to be as quick as his are. He is very understanding, very empathetic, very non-judgemental and just is an extremely awesome person to talk to. I would definitely recommend talking to him, if you need someone to talk to about something, whether it is specific to what he is experienced in, and has good knowlodge on, in his topics, or whether it is something else, I'm sure that no matter what it is, he will be able to help you you out no matter what the problem is, even for a general chat, he's so lovely to talk to as a person, he's a good person too. He gives great and helpful advice and tips, and the questions he has asked helped me anyway to better understand my situation. I felt miles better after talking to him, and was glad to connect with him when I did.
Really helpful. Really professional. Would talk to them more often to help me!
Best af all
I would like to speak again with Probius
they really seemed professional. they asked a lot of questions ... i'd rate an overall 8/10
The user was great. I think it was the best first experience I could have gotten. I will definitely be going back to them.
Probius is not only an amazing listener, but he is also exceptionally kind, intelligent, and insightful. He made me feel like I could be myself and he propped me up in times that I felt like I wasn't worth while. He went out of his way for me, time and time again. I can't thank you enough Probius- for what you have done for me and what you do for others. Thank you so much.
Doesn't say much, but from my experience, says enough.
This man has an massive talent! Most reliable person i've seen! Thank you!!
You are so incredibly kind and understanding. Thank you for going out of your way to help me. I have appreciated talking to you so so so much. Remember that all the effort and time that you give to people is appreciated very much. Never stop doing what you do :)
Probius was fantastic, super supper helpful. Would defiantly recommend especially for LGBTQ+ issues.
Thank you for listening
Really seems to understand what I'm saying
Was very helpful helped me out of tears
This listener had given me the help that I have been longing for that I have never received from anyone else and is helping me to finally find light at the end of this dark tunnel
I love him so so so much, he's magic ✨
Probius has been an amazing listener in my time of need. He's patient, kind, and has a warm and caring energy that leaves you feeling relaxed. If I could give him 6 stars I would, he is simply amazing, professional, and a joy to talk to.
Very understanding and caring. Thank you for calming me
Very nice and helpful
very motivating and really gives out positive energy
a very nice and gentle fellow
Probius is very kind and motivating
Probius was very kind and seemed to be a gentle creature.
Great listener!
Helped so much. I don't know what I'd do without Probius.
Thank you so much.
very kind, prompt responses, and zero judgement. didn't try to force an opinion/suggestion on me, just genuine good listening.
very good listener
Amazing listener
Amazing helper
I felt the listener had a good command of the subject matter and provided very good emotional support.
Epic person :D
Best listener gave me a great amount of time of great advice
They were very friendly and helped me know that it was going to be okay
Helped me talk through my thoughts.
He was very listening and helped me with my stressful situation thanks 😊
Thank you for listening :)
thanks probius for hear me. your words make me realize i shouldnt give up.. thanks again..
they were very good at listening but sometimes it felt like her responses were nothing more than routine, and that made me feel a little less heard
Probius is an amazing listener, this was my first time going to 7 cups and I was really nervous to begin with, but Probius definitely made me feel more comfortable and I felt cared about. Probius was also easily able to help me with my problems and make me feel the best that I had in a while about my problems.
They were extremely kind and helpful.
They helped a lot. I'm glad I talked to them.
Very good listener
The advice this user have me was very helpful and helped me get through my hard times. So I recommend you to talk to this user because he will help you! 😊
Good person with great heart. Thank you for your help.
Thanks for the help! I appreciate it!
just fantastic
Really nice. Kind person. Will talk to him again if I need to, I know he will help :)
Very amazing listener. Listened well and is respectful
He is the best and helped me so well. I have never had such a great listener before.
Patient and quick responder. Very willing to understand situation to help you out!
5/5 on everything. Honestly has to be one of the best listeners out there. Very helpful and supportive, it seems like I'm talking with someone I've known for years.
Good person to talk to.
Says a lot even with only a few words. I appreciated the questions Probius gave, which helped me to answer some of the problems I was struggling with, which allowed me to resolve the situation on my own.
Helped me so much! The conversation was very helpful. I feel better now.
Was very helpful, kind, understanding, and supporting. Even though Probius is a stranger, I felt like we could talk like old friends.
Great listener, reaffirming and supportive
hes pretty cool and understanding ,, made me feel alot better about myself when i was really feeling like shit :) hands down one of my fav listeners on here so thanks man :)
It took a while for him to come on, but when he did he really helped a lot!
Best person to talk to
Probius was incredibly helpful, and ever so kind and patient. A truly wonderful listener!
She was a good listener. Understanding and gave me a good breathing technique to help manage my stress.
Very helpful. Thank You!
An amazing listener. Didn't judge me or my beliefs at all. Was always kind and understanding, even when I expressed some strong feelings about a sensitive subject. A true diamond in the rough.
Thank you so much!
Thanks for the breathing technique. It makes me clear.
thank you
Great listener, super considerate and extremely helpful. Always knew what they were talking about, insightful and easy to get along with. One of the best listeners I've had in a while. Thanks!
Extremely helpful and understanding. Helped me talk through my problem in a way that helped me make more sense of it
Probius is literally the best, cannot hate him
Great listener overall. Very helpful.
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Questions Answered
I don't identify as either gender consistently. What does this mean?
May 24th, 2016 7:22pm
How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?
May 21st, 2016 6:24am
What is the difference between pansexuality, polysexuality and bisexuality?
October 23rd, 2015 12:44pm
Is there something wrong with me for being LGBTQ?
November 2nd, 2015 9:58pm
What does it mean when you aren't attracted to anyone but you don't want to be alone?
October 27th, 2015 3:11am
Do you have to come out to everyone?
July 12th, 2016 5:05pm
I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?
September 24th, 2015 3:06am
When is the right time to come out?
October 23rd, 2015 2:46pm
How do I come out to my parents?
May 18th, 2016 4:33pm
Why can't I just be "Normal"?
May 24th, 2016 7:46pm
Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?
June 28th, 2016 6:43pm
Why am I gay?
November 2nd, 2015 3:53pm
Why am I gay? I hate myself.
October 23rd, 2015 12:43pm
Why is my son gay?
September 24th, 2015 3:25pm
Why is my daughter a lesbian?
October 24th, 2015 3:32pm
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
June 22nd, 2016 8:18pm
Why does everyone run away from me and my scars?
June 6th, 2016 2:58pm
Why does my girlfriend cut herself?
May 27th, 2016 2:36pm
Why is so difficult to leave that world of drugs and alcohol when life is more that that?
October 27th, 2015 3:09am
Why does everyone love to drink, but I completely hate it?
October 27th, 2015 4:11pm