Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Probius |
Listener - Pinnacle 15

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

Hello! My name is Probius and I am glad you found me on Seven Cups of Tea. I'm a Verified Listener, and I can help with LGBTQ+ issues or anything else you need help with. I have dealt with LGBTQ+ issues myself, so I would love to help you. If I'm not immediately available, send me a message and we can work out a time that will work for you. 

My Past Involvement:
 LGBTQ+ Support Team Co-Leader
 Internship Mentor
 Quality Mentor
 Peer Supporter
 Group Moderator
 Verified Listener Team
 7 Cups Intern Graduate
 Welcoming Committee
 Adult/Teen Listener 

Number of Ratings: 580
Number of Reviews: 194
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 21, 2015
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 1,084
Cheers 562,583
People Helped 1,122
Chats 12,061
Group Support Chats 608
Listener Group Chats 118
Forum Posts 641
Forum Upvotes 1,119
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Listener Community Rooms
  • Exercise completed!
    Welcome a Newbie
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request

Feedback & Reviews
Very helpful and very thoughtful
understanding and has good, thoughtful responses with questions to bring out more conversation & talking
Very good listener and always asks questions
Promoted mindfulness
Very good and attentive listener and very comforting presence.
They are a very good listener and gives very good advice and tips
He has a calming soul. Very attentive, caring, sweet and understanding. Just a very awesome person to talk to. Thank you for being here. You are making a difference.
This was so so so so so so helpful thank you so much!!!
Very helpful and asked tons of questions to help me figure some stuff out
Great listener…
Great Listener. I felt understood and comfortable talking with them.
I am grateful that you listened to me. I felt loved and you bring me hope. The hope you brought to me is so powerful that I can continue on living life. I processed and learned a lot about myself with you. Thank you. You are an amazing listener.
Thank you for listening and help me to understand myself.
Helped me a lot and listened to me very patiently. Thanks a lot
Right when the chat began, I felt comfortable, welcomed and safe. Probius is very calm and his presence was really comforting. I was scared to talk, but he was non-judgemental and gave me the space to open up. It felt like a genuine conversation. What else can I say other than that they are an amazing person and I hope to talk to them again. Thank you so much Probius. I appreciate you.
I've been speaking with this listener for sometime now and feel overdue to leave a review. This listener is super attentive and very thoughtful with their responses. They ask thought-provoking questions, which makes me really feel like they are listening. They don't judge, just really good about making observations and encouraging me to critically think about my situation. Amazing listener, overall!
He was great, made me feel comfortable talking and helped me find a positive outlook
good bloke like truly good chap
really nice, and attentive
He is amazing he listens really well and supports gay people for who the are
Probius helped me magically by listening and not judging me. Made me feel understood and motivated. Thank you so much for your presence. You make this platform better place.
Nice person. Listened and treated me with kindness.
They were very down to earth, and helped me stay grounded.
It was good. I felt safe to express myself. Thank you again
they were super nice and they really listened. supa awesome! totally recommend
A listener since 2015! This guy deserves a medal. He must have helped so many people. I’m so grateful I got the chance to speak with him today.
Good listener. Listened through my issues with compassion and understood what I was feeling. Thank you Probius. ♥
Very receptive and asked questions that helped me better understand where my feelings were coming from
He was understanding and nice
Awesome listener
They helped me figure out more about myself that I didnt know. Amazing listener and knows lots about lgbtq+ identities.
Very understanding, helped me understand more. Thank you so much.
Took time to talk to me, I'm really grateful
Amazing there really helpin
Honest and good hearted❤❤❤
Good listener knows his stuff
Was a really good listener
Very kind and listened to what I had to say with no judgement.
I was in a very bad place and Probius came in at the right time. The chat with him was really helpful. He lead the conversation in a way where I could explore and rearrange my thoughts again. He reminded me of some really important things. I'm really glad he gave me a safe space and allowed me to take my time to vent.
a great person to talk to,very understanding .much love to this person very kind i appreciate the effort this person gave.
Probius is truly a special human being and my words fall short of how he has helped me get through my difficult times that I’ve been facing. I love the way he asks me questions which I avoid asking myself and that lifts the weight. You truly are god sent to me in my life now and always the best for you always always Thank you
Great availability. Thanks for your time
helpful questions that let me reflect, very friendly and professional :)
Probius ir rally respectful and to the point, he gave me really good advise and thoughts
amazing and so very helpful
He's like my best friend and I tell him everything after which I feel so much better. I told him my deep secrets and he promised to never judge me , I like him very much and he's very nice and Caring. Thank you so much -- Max 💗
amazing loved it
Thank you for giving me your time
Really nice person and was very helpful!
Kind, understanding. Great person overall
Great guy i love him
Probius was a great listener. They've helped be better understand how I feel about my sexuality.
Probius is a good listener, he asks questions which u often forget to ask yourself. By that you enlighten your situation yourself a little bit. He's nice and patient. Gratis agere tibi -loyalCran
A lovely and thoughtful person. I look forward to chatting again :)
He was a real,help
Probius was very helpful and especially kind and empathetic. They helped me figure out some things about my sexuality and clear some confusion that I had as well.
Really good listener!
Amazing person, a true kind soul :)
You’re such a good listener who knows what they’re doing. Keep it up, you really helped me tonight
Incredible listener and very good advice
Very helpful and feel at ease sharing my feelings
An incredible listener. thank you for everything
Probius helped me sort my thoughts and hesitations about my issue. They were non-judgemental, kind, calm, and asked me great questions and reminded me of what I had trouble reminding myself of.
very helpful. got back in time fast and just a good support :)
Amazing amazing amazing
Probius let me vent despite my confusing explanations, and asked good questions to help me reflect on the situation. Thank you!
Probius made me feel very relatable while I spoke to him. He helped me gain knowledge on what sexuality could be and made me more aware of things. I liked talking to him, he is great
I felt very relatable while talking to him. Probius really helped me gain knowledge on what my sexuality could be and made me more aware of things. I liked taking to him. He is great :)
Probius is so relatable . He understood me and genuinely helped me know more about my sexuality. Keep up the good work :)
He is very helpful
A great listener , incredibly patient and kind soul, been a great support for me in difficult times!
Very good Listener, moderator and Person.:)
Probius' was extremely supportive and I felt I could relate and open up, which I found fantastic.
So kind, professional, and caring. Absolutely amazing!
Very helpful, supportive and understanding
Most amazing listener and I appreciate everything you have done for me. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Was willing to talk to me one on one and it's very helpful
He is an amazing, fantastic, and absolutely magnificent listener! Wow! That sums up my experiences chatting with him. I would definitely say that he is one of the best listeners on this site. His responses are very quick, never known any other responses to be as quick as his are. He is very understanding, very empathetic, very non-judgemental and just is an extremely awesome person to talk to. I would definitely recommend talking to him, if you need someone to talk to about something, whether it is specific to what he is experienced in, and has good knowlodge on, in his topics, or whether it is something else, I'm sure that no matter what it is, he will be able to help you you out no matter what the problem is, even for a general chat, he's so lovely to talk to as a person, he's a good person too. He gives great and helpful advice and tips, and the questions he has asked helped me anyway to better understand my situation. I felt miles better after talking to him, and was glad to connect with him when I did.
Really helpful. Really professional. Would talk to them more often to help me!
Best af all
I would like to speak again with Probius
they really seemed professional. they asked a lot of questions ... i'd rate an overall 8/10
The user was great. I think it was the best first experience I could have gotten. I will definitely be going back to them.
Probius is not only an amazing listener, but he is also exceptionally kind, intelligent, and insightful. He made me feel like I could be myself and he propped me up in times that I felt like I wasn't worth while. He went out of his way for me, time and time again. I can't thank you enough Probius- for what you have done for me and what you do for others. Thank you so much.
Doesn't say much, but from my experience, says enough.
This man has an massive talent! Most reliable person i've seen! Thank you!!
You are so incredibly kind and understanding. Thank you for going out of your way to help me. I have appreciated talking to you so so so much. Remember that all the effort and time that you give to people is appreciated very much. Never stop doing what you do :)
Probius was fantastic, super supper helpful. Would defiantly recommend especially for LGBTQ+ issues.
Thank you for listening
Really seems to understand what I'm saying
Was very helpful helped me out of tears
This listener had given me the help that I have been longing for that I have never received from anyone else and is helping me to finally find light at the end of this dark tunnel
I love him so so so much, he's magic ✨
Probius has been an amazing listener in my time of need. He's patient, kind, and has a warm and caring energy that leaves you feeling relaxed. If I could give him 6 stars I would, he is simply amazing, professional, and a joy to talk to.
Very understanding and caring. Thank you for calming me
Very nice and helpful
very motivating and really gives out positive energy
Badges & Awards
Recruit Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Peppermint Sage First Step Messenger Envoy PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Baron of Big-Hearts Knight of Smilehood Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Peter Pan Listener Oath ATL Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Grad Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Scholar Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Chit Chat Voice Talker Communicator Speaker Ray of Hope Shining Light Florence Nightingale Help Angel College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Perinatal Schizophrenia Scrum Report People of Color Guide ADHD Social Anxiety OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Surviving Domestic Assault Getting Unstuck Mindfulness Support 7Cups Guide Rocket Listener 12 Steps Community 101 7 Cups Intern Grad Twinning Pro 2nd Birthday Party Sparkler Entrepreneur Self-Esteem Master Self-Esteem Champion Self-Esteem Training Badge Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener NAMI Oath Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Meet & Greet Reconnection Hero I Reconnection Hero II Reconnection Hero III First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Weight Management Diabetes CBT Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Appreciated Hope Training New Mom Support Pineapple Tulip 7th Birthday Party
Questions Answered
I don't identify as either gender consistently. What does this mean?
May 24th, 2016 7:22pm
How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?
May 21st, 2016 6:24am
What is the difference between pansexuality, polysexuality and bisexuality?
October 23rd, 2015 12:44pm
Is there something wrong with me for being LGBTQ?
November 2nd, 2015 9:58pm
What does it mean when you aren't attracted to anyone but you don't want to be alone?
October 27th, 2015 3:11am
Do you have to come out to everyone?
July 12th, 2016 5:05pm
I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?
September 24th, 2015 3:06am
When is the right time to come out?
October 23rd, 2015 2:46pm
How do I come out to my parents?
May 18th, 2016 4:33pm
Why can't I just be "Normal"?
May 24th, 2016 7:46pm
Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?
June 28th, 2016 6:43pm
Why am I gay?
November 2nd, 2015 3:53pm
Why am I gay? I hate myself.
October 23rd, 2015 12:43pm
Why is my son gay?
September 24th, 2015 3:25pm
Why is my daughter a lesbian?
October 24th, 2015 3:32pm
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
June 22nd, 2016 8:18pm
Why does everyone run away from me and my scars?
June 6th, 2016 2:58pm
Why does my girlfriend cut herself?
May 27th, 2016 2:36pm
Why is so difficult to leave that world of drugs and alcohol when life is more that that?
October 27th, 2015 3:09am
Why does everyone love to drink, but I completely hate it?
October 27th, 2015 4:11pm