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Pumpkin74 |
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5.0 star rating


*****Sorry, I am not able to take new chat, but please feel free to browse the listeners if you need help :)*****

Hi! I am glad you are reaching out to talk! To me, talking is most important! I am a happily married woman who currently holds a BA in Psychology from a well known and accredited college. I also have been through a lot including PTSD, Depression and anxiety. I would love to hear from you and please know you are not alone. :)

Things have been getting busy on here so I must limit all chats to no more than 30-60 minutes. I also must inform you that I do not support chats that involve sexual issues as I feel there are other listeners who are more qualified than myself. If I am unavailable and you need someone right away, please browse our listeners and get the help you deserve! 

I am now twinning on 7cups! Thank you to @DaisyLion for being so supportive and encouraging! @Charmingbeauty55 @VIIbackVIIIforward   :)


Number of Ratings: 128
Number of Reviews: 44
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Albanian
Listener Since Apr 10, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 1,666
Cheers 121,949
People Helped 211
Chats 1,986
Group Support Chats 324
Listener Group Chats 229
Forum Posts 514
Forum Upvotes 760
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Feedback & Reviews
I really didnt know what to expect from 7cups. Pumpkin74 gave me the help I needed at a time I was really struggling. I felt like she understood what I was going through and she gave me some tangible ways to help get me through those moments that can seem unbearable. I’m so glad I reached out!
She really helped me realize everything was going to be ok.
She has supported me through so much, words can not express my gratitude.
Such an amazing listener. She was prompt in her response time, gave great suggestions, and was really able to help me out a lot. She is so kind and one of the best listeners I've encountered.
She was very kind and helpful. Not judgemental at all.
was really helpful and nice. non-judgmental.
Wonderful listener. She took the time to understand and really listen.
Very helpful!
Very helpful
Very helpful
Pumpkin 74 very nice person and very helpful. Gave me the support that I needed. Respectful person and considerate person. Pumpkin is amazing!!!😊😊😊😊😂😂!!!!
Very nice. Pumpkin 74 couldn't talk right then. But Pumpkin 74 set an appointment with me. To talk later on. Very professional, courteous, kind hearted person.
Awesome gal. Really helped me through my weakest point
the bestest
Thank you so much dear! You helped me realize the truth. Take care
Very positive, supportive and intelligent person. I am was lucky to have a chance to chat with her.
wonderful to me
Great listener, supportive and open with feedback and advice. Really excited to use her again.
She is an amazing woman, is some how ones the right things to say to make you feel better and open your eyes. Thank you so much I'm glad I found 7 cups and found YOU.
Just started talking to her but she seems like a really nice and caring woman. I like her.
Thank you for helping me.
WOW! Just wow. I think this is the first time I received some real practical tools I can take from our conversation and apply to everyday life. I feel so encouraged and hopeful after our chat. Truly amazing listener!
So good to talk to! She really helped me feel better and totally could relate 😀
What a great listener...cared so much about my problem and help me in resolving it. Thanks so much:)
she was professional, genuine, friendly, easy to talk to, give me that time to understand my point of view, talked to me honestly and give me all the advice I need, Thanks a lot
Pumpkin was really nice, she helped me out a lot and talked me through sloth and eventually got my mind off of things. She was very helpful
Pumpkin is the best. She's understanding, kind, empathetic. I don't feel judged, I feel supported. She's wise and tells you to follow your heart. I hope she stays here a long time.
Little bumpy at first but their ending piece of advice really really helped. They helped more than they will ever know
Great pumpkin pie
Incredibly sweet! Always tells me when they may not reply right away. Strongly recommend. ❤
Really just an amazing person
The best listener ever ! Very kind and compassionate person as well as thoughtful! I advise this listener to anybody who wants to feel like he or she is listened to!
I felt respected and was comforted just the right amount. Speaking with her was everything I needed !
Beautiful person inside & out! Loved the help.
She is amazing! Made me feel better when I truly believed that I was just crazy and wouldn't find anyone to talk to. So kind and understanding!
10/10 would recommend :)
Kind words and listening ear.
she was awesome
Absolutely wonderful!!!
So nice!! They really understood what I was saying/how I felt, even though I'm not the best at communicating! Couldn't of asked for a better listener. :)
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Questions Answered
What do I do when I feel like I've hit rock bottom and I'm not worth it anymore?
February 28th, 2018 8:24am
I feel like life is pointless. How can I find meaning in my life?
April 26th, 2018 3:20pm
How to tell someone you're depressed without saying it?
February 28th, 2018 8:29am
How can I open up to people more even if it scares me?
February 28th, 2018 9:00pm
How do I know if I'm overreacting?
February 28th, 2018 8:28am
What can I do to better manage my overwhelming sexual desires by my own without a counsellor/psychologist? How can I stop masturbating and stop watching pornography?
April 12th, 2018 9:24pm
Why do simplest things, such as my sister promising plan for the day that don't happen, hurt me so much? I am way too angry and sad and am feeling depressed over the smallest things...
February 27th, 2018 4:23am
Is it my fault that others bully me?
May 20th, 2015 5:24am
How do I maintain a strong sense of self-confidence after being bullied?
February 27th, 2018 4:22am
How do I know if I'm a bully?
April 6th, 2018 11:42am
Other people can go without eating, why don't I have that kind of self control?
May 20th, 2015 6:57am
What are some of the best ways to calm yourself in during a panic attack?
May 20th, 2015 6:40am
How do I calm down?
July 10th, 2018 2:44am
Does having anxiety mean your crazy/mental?
April 1st, 2018 4:39pm
Is it normal for parents to push you to get over your anxiety?
May 20th, 2015 7:02am
Why do anxious feelings create the need to go to toilet frequently?
February 28th, 2018 8:22am
Why can't I talk easily in front of my class?
April 26th, 2018 3:16pm
How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
April 26th, 2018 3:33pm
Everything in my life is messed up. Motivation works temporarily and I'm not suicidal but feel it's pointless to live like this. What should I do to feel hopeful?
March 19th, 2018 7:51pm
Why does this feel so right but I know it's so wrong?
May 20th, 2015 7:14am
Why do I wake up sweating?
February 28th, 2018 8:15am
Whats the best way to get over your ex moving on before you do?
April 26th, 2018 3:23pm
Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?
April 12th, 2018 9:21pm
How can I forget about the bad memories of my past?
February 28th, 2018 8:26am
Why can't I learn to open up to people?
April 6th, 2018 11:28am
Why do I always say things I don't mean?
February 28th, 2018 8:18am
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
April 26th, 2018 3:29pm
How can you move on after a long term relationship?
April 17th, 2015 5:05am
How do I get myself to stop constantly thinking about them?
May 20th, 2015 6:54am
I can't get over my divorce. What should I do?
April 26th, 2018 3:31pm
I'm dating someone who has been cheated on. What should I do?
February 22nd, 2018 5:32am
How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)
April 12th, 2018 9:18pm
He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?
February 28th, 2018 8:34am
How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?
April 12th, 2018 9:28pm
My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?
April 6th, 2018 11:39am
I want to see a therapist. How do I tell my parents?
February 28th, 2018 8:32am
Why am I not good enough for my parents?
April 5th, 2018 3:15pm
Who can I talk to if I am dealing with a serious problem about my parents?
February 27th, 2018 4:26am
What's the best way to get over a family member's death ?
May 20th, 2015 7:07am
Why can't my family just support me in my time of need?
July 10th, 2018 3:00am
Am I obligated to immediately forgive someone for a wrongdoing just because they are family?
May 20th, 2015 6:45am
How to stop hating your little brother?
April 26th, 2018 3:37pm
What do I do when my husband ignores me?
April 6th, 2018 11:31am
How do I live with a mentally-ill parent?
April 1st, 2018 4:41pm
What age is too young to leave home?
April 6th, 2018 11:27am
How can I make my family understand that I'm not seeking attention and just trying to get the help I need?
February 28th, 2018 8:37am
Should I go to the hospital for unhealthy eating habits?
July 10th, 2018 2:38am
How do I independently motivate myself?
April 26th, 2018 3:17pm
How much exercise is too much?
April 1st, 2018 4:36pm
I can’t seem to ever concentrate. My friend says Adderall helps him concentrate. How do I find out if it’s a good option for me?
April 6th, 2018 11:44am
Can I improve my bipolar without professional help?
April 6th, 2018 11:36am
How do I stop thinking about the car accident I was in 4 months ago?
May 20th, 2015 5:19am
How not to sound weird when talking to authority?
February 28th, 2018 8:13am
Why doesn't taking care of myself come naturally to me?
February 28th, 2018 8:20am
What are the pros and cons of making friends online?
February 28th, 2018 8:36am
Is polyamory wrong even when everyone involved is happy and consent is given?
May 20th, 2015 7:10am
I am a girl who is romantically attracted to my boyfriend but not physically. What do I do?
July 10th, 2018 2:53am
my boy friend broke up with me without a warning. left me a foreign land. two days without any communication. then sends email that he is breaking up with me. he is not giving me closure. what to do?
July 10th, 2018 2:57am