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RUMBUM
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts88 Forum posts42 Forum upvotes68 Current upvotes68 Age GroupTeen Last activeAugust, 2024 Member sinceApril 14, 2024
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I’m 13. I’m a transgender man. I like to write poems and I like to draw. My favourite book is New Kid. I love FNAF. That’s all.



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Is this normal?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
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 July 16th, 2024
...See more I am a trans dude who just found out they were trans last spring. I like a lot of trans people have a new name. Whenever I speak in third person in my head though I accidentally call myself my deadname. Is that normal?
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I don’t want to be trans anymore
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
Last post
 June 19th, 2024
...See more I hate being a tran masc youth. I live in America and there are 355 anti trans laws. Politicians want me to be dead or taken from my parents and they won’t listen to professionals. I hate the way my body is. I wake up everyday looking in the mirror and hating who I see, sometimes I can’t even look at myself in the mirror. I can’t even come out to everyone because they won’t accept me and they’d leave me. And the people I am out to keep forgetting my name and pronouns but I’m too much of a coward to correct them. The state that I live in isn’t the worse but I always get weird looks because I have a girl body and short masc hair and face. I wish I could stop being trans. No matter what I do nobody will truly see me as a boy or they will want me dead. I feel like I’m not living im just barely surviving.
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Should I come out to my friends?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
Last post
 June 17th, 2024
...See more I am a trans dude who is in middle school. I am out to 6 of my friends but I want to come out to my whole class. One person I’m scared to come out to is my best friend. He is generally nice and always ask if something he said was offensive or not but he has said some transphobic things in the past but I think that’s just because he’s a middle school boy. I really don’t want to lose him as a friend or for him to out me to my family. Context: He comes over almost everyday and my whole family thinks he’s amazing
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Coming out as trans to my friend
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
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 June 13th, 2024
...See more I am a trans dude who uses he/they pronouns. I’m only out to 2 people and I’m about to come out to one of my best friends on Monday or Wednesday. He isn’t the most accepting and sometimes says offensive stuff but I help him learn what to say. He has said bad stuff about trans people but I think that’s because he’s a middle school boy. I was going to either hand him a card saying stuff about it or try to say it really casually. Can anyone help me on this? I think I want to come out but I don’t want him to get mad or stop being my friend or treat me differently.
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HAPPY PRODE MONTH EVERYONE
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
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 June 2nd, 2024
...See more HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!!! REMEMBER TO BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE AND REMEMBER YOU CANNOT CHANGE NO MATTER WHAT! IF YOU ARE A TRANS MAN YOU ARE A MAN! IF YOU ARE A TRANS WOMAN YOU ARE A WOMAN! IF YOU ARE NONBINARY PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT YOU! AND IF YOU ARE AGENDER YOU ARE A GENDERLESS BEING! BE YOU BE PROUD!!!!!!!!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️
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Trans stuff
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by RUMBUM
Last post
 April 28th
...See more TW: Gender Dysphoria I’ve been having really bad gender dysphoria recently. I am a transmasc who isn’t out to my parents. I have tried almost every hack to help it. I don’t have a binder but I’m saving up for one. My chest is too big, my hair is too long, and I’ll never be a real boy. Also I have a friend who is just being *** about me being trans so that isn’t helping. I just don’t know what to do. I feel like sh!t basically 24/7.
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