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Raerae9
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Relationship Stress / by Raerae9
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 September 16th, 2023
...See more Hi, Im new here but not exactly sure where to start. I am in my mid 20s been with this guy going on 4 years next week and I feel like ive wasted the past 4 years of my life just to be with him. Him and I met online, he drove 4 hours to meet me and we did long distance for the first 6 months of our relationship. He drove 4 hours every weekend to see me, and he now has been living with me in my parents home. We have talked about moving out and getting a place of our own but then he does things that I cant stand and I change my mind about moving out. I have severe anxiety, genarlized and social so the minute something drastic happens I shut down. We are at seperate places in our lives right now where I feel like we are just roomates instead of a couple and when I express how I feel or things that need to change he doesnt respect how i feel and does nothing to change the problems at hand. His job has always been more important to him then our relationship ever has. Theres just so much
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