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Hello! \(^_^)/ Welcome to 7cups of tea!

I am sorry because you felt the need to come here on this site, because it probably means that something's wrong, but hey, you know what? You've made one big step, the hardest step! You started to seek for help, to find solution for everything and by that I can see how strong you actually are!

A little bit about myself ^^

''I am a paradox. I am faithful and yet detached. I am commited and yet relaxed. I love everyone, and yet no one. I am sociable, but also a loner. I am gentle and yet tough. I am passionate, but can also be platonic. In short, I am predictable in my own unpredictability.''

Most difficult and dark days I overcomed when I was a teenager. I was always that kind of person who tries to find something good in everything, no matter what. I'm always trying to end up well, to help people if I'm able to do that. Unfortunately, I know how it feels to be ALONE. Alone in your head, in your heart and really alone with everyone around me. That's one of the things that actually made me to think that I should do something good, to help people, to show that they don't need to be alone, that there is help and solution for everything. Maybe I will not be able to help you, but be sure in that I will always lead an ear no matter what. Sometimes listening can help way too much then 'trying to find solution' for something. Sometimes you just need to get rid of something what's on your chest.
I'm a big fan of music(mostly rock, but I can listen everything), I love to read books, I love long night walks, I love to enjoy in things that actually rare people like. I love deep things, deep conversations, I love to watch stars at thing and just think about a universe and all people in this world.

My favorite quotes

''Close your eyes and imagine the best version of you possible. That's who you really are, let go of any part of you that doesn't believe it.''

''We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining. Expecting. Worrying. Doubting. Just let it naturally evolve.''

''Sometimes you need to take a step backwards before you move forward again. Let your body rest and your mind heal. Let the wounds mend, and time pass. Only you know when you are ready to begin again.''

''No one is going to love you exactly like you imagine. No one is ever going to read your mind and take every star from the sky at the perfect time and hand it to you. No one is going to show up at your door on a horse, with a shoe you lost. Do you understand? That's why you have to love yourself enough, so that any other love just adds more candles to the cake you've already iced.''

''Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you're in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you.''

On 7cups, I am here as:

1. 7cups Mentor

2. Teen and Adult Listener

3. Adult Chatroom Mentor

4. Verified Listener

5. Peer Support

Adult-Teen Listener

Number of Ratings: 116
Number of Reviews: 34
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 3, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 224
Cheers 149,044
People Helped 316
Chats 803
Group Support Chats 44
Listener Group Chats 1,391
Forum Posts 40
Forum Upvotes 68
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Feedback & Reviews
One of the best people I have spoken too
So supportive and instantly lifted my mood ❤
helped me talk through my problems and was very understanding and caring.
A wholehearted, caring and helpful person.
I could not have asked for a better person to help me get though such a tough time. I felt at ease and that I could put all my trust into them.
Many Thanks :)
this person seems to care more than my friends.
I felt like someone actually cared.
They were so great, and helped bring up my mood for the day. Give them a raise
A really kind and a calming person to talk to
I am writing this to show my apreciation for the conversation I just had with incredibleRainfall48.
It is been a while since I visit this website just to vent or for help, but I have never met anyone like her, either here on 7 cups or in life, very supportive, nice and caring person, knows exactly what to say to encourage and push you, if you need a push like I needed .
I will gladly talk to her more times and I highly recomend to anyone.
Wow! Very helpful and supportive, I was really going through my first heartbreak it was so painful to bare, and overwhelmed with emotions but after connecting with incredibleRainfall48 and I talked and vented out what was bothering me I felt so much less overwhelmed and this person encouraged me that it will take time and of course the pain will ease with time although I felt horrible unfortunately and that it was good I was talking about it and it was the first step in healing, I am glad for there support, listening, and patience, sometimes all it takes is good listener which they perfected, thanks again.
It felt nice to talk to and she was very helpful and understanding. I really appreciate her help
very good listner, clarifies and asumes nothing
Amazing listener. A great person to hepl you, when you think when nobody's there to help You.
Very helpful, feel free to talk with❤️
She is a very good listener and gives good advices. I can't remember the last time talking to someone so understanding like her.
Such a wonderfull listener she made my bad all was dark before talking to her I mean so happy and hopefull now TY alot !!! :3
Great listener! understood concern and provided appropriate guidance. Thanks!
great listener
she made me to understand about the easiest way of tackling the life.. Thanks to her and her response was very soothing to my mind...
Your are such an awesome person . thanks for your help sweety :) you really helped me alot
she is an amazing friend and listener, her positive emotion helps me a lot! Feels like a friend of mine instead of a listener!
She's so understanding and unbiased. Responds quickly with comforting advice.
IncredibleRainfall is one of the best listeners I have ever talked to, she knows exactly what to say and I would definitely recommend her
Very helpful and thoughtful
Helped me alot
kind and compassionate.
She is so kind )))
wonderful girl
very nice
Divna osoba. Neko ko ce vas saslušati i ohrabriti.
she is really good. good listener. love to see her again
Really nice, kind hearted Woman. If you need a rock she's there :)
10/10 ign- citizen kane of listeners
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