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A chill and relaxing realist who is taking things one day at a time.

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Boundaries???
Relationship Stress / by Realist85
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 October 5th, 2023
...See more My boyfriend has a spare room which he told me was “My room” so I could work remotely or just have time to myself, kind of like a Woman Cave. I decorated it to my liking. But….when I went home to my own personal apartment he allowed his sister in-law to sleep in “My room” (which has my personal items and bedding) without my permission. He knows I am very territorial and he has another spare room which is his Man Cave which she could have slept in. I got extremely upset because I DO NOT like people touching my things! It’s an instant trigger! He did not ask prior to and his response was “Sorry, you feel that way” which I feel is a sarcastic “F**k You” when a person doesn’t relate to how you feel or even care. Am I overreacting? What should I do?
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