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Rhedonderon
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PathStep 14 Compassion hearts17 Forum posts7 Forum upvotes6 Current upvotes6 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2022 Member sinceApril 20, 2022
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Not quiet there yet.
Relationship Stress / by Rhedonderon
Last post
 May 21st, 2022
...See more I do have the thought of divorce somewhere in the back of my head and even did some research on it just to get an idea of how things could play out if me and my spouse did. I'm having a very difficult time forgiving him for his recent past behavior. It makes me feel I cannot count on him or trust him to be a reliable person and it's over stuff we have discussed. It's undermining not only the trust that we had, but also whatever attraction was there and some of my respect for my spouse. However the only thing he's upset over is the lack of intimacy and I'm finding that to be difficult. I should give him the time and space to show that he can be reliable. I want to do everything I can to make it work, but I'm terrified I'll just be stuck in a repeating loop of forgiving him and it is making me resent him which is effecting my behavior around him. I expected when I got married we'd be partners throughout life helping each other through all that life could throw at us. Instead I feel like we're just stuck in this gray area. Nothing so terrible that divorce needs to be an immediate option, but not much great coming out of it either. How can I forgive him?
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Looking for long term listener. Mainly about marriage problems and feeling stuck.
General Support / by Rhedonderon
Last post
 May 13th, 2022
...See more Hey there, I'm looking for a long term listener if possible and would be supper grateful for someone if anyone feels they would be able to offer help. Currently trying to sort through some things in my life. Mostly marriage and feeling stuck both in work and in marriage. Just feeling lost. I feel like I need to make some changes in my life and how I choose to approach things, just not sure where to start. I don't really have a lot of people I feel I can turn to to talk about these things.
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