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Roselynn23
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Rough Love
Relationship Stress / by Roselynn23
Last post
 March 8th
...See more I’m in a spot in life I just got my self only. I lost my dad and few other family members past five years. I’m in a 7 year relationship we barely even argue at all, I can’t say my relationship is perfect. But the words that comes out as your health is rough. He acts like a victim. When we got apartment, it was ok but he expected me to do everything cleaning cooking, which is OK with me, but honestly, I worked as well. He throws it in my face that he works outside, which is I know that is where really tiring. But I always tell him everyone’s tired and their own way. I’m tired of my grief. I am tired of my hormones always changing my body is draining and I’m drowning in my tears because I miss my One and only Dad. We got apartments, not too long ago two years ago. Now because he works out outside for work and he pays the bills and the house is under his name, He thinks he has the power over me. I have two options when we argue be quiet Or pack my things and get out. Mostly arguments are just simple like literally simple. But when it comes to him being upset, that’s when the rough love of his words come out. I don’t like how he thinks that I’m another pet of his. And let me tell you he has a dog that I do not really like I do not like big dogs, especially I do not like huskies when they said, but I dealt with this dog and she has a huge attitude and he always says he’d rather choose the dog over me. Like im His priority. I’m sorry I don’t make a lot of money, but I still work and I still come home and cook and clean while he just doesn’t even do anything. But like I said, I don’t mind, but it does come to the time whenever I’m sick or upset. I still have to do it but why should I have? It’s his home and it’s not under my name. I’m not ungrateful or nothing. But basically telling me to get out when we argue, and knowing I don’t have family that hurts the most. This rough love is not it for me. I’m already getting older all I’ve been thinking Was getting my health together and having kids And growing a family. I am so tired of guessing if I’m gonna have a home or not. The first thing I think about is my love for him that I do love him. But he doesn’t think the same way he automatically thinks he has the power over me. I try and try But each time I’m slowly giving up like I said it could be small Thing that we’re arguing about, but that’s small things turned into mean words. I just wanna be fully loved again.
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Feeling Worthless
Depression Support / by Roselynn23
Last post
 November 11th, 2024
...See more My dad passed away in 2021 my mom kicked me out after my dad passing. I been with my partner for 6 years we been living in an apartment for two years. My partner bought a house he doesn’t want me to move in due to me of being tired on a daily. He works outside and says he more tired then I am. I work in a daycare of course I can’t top that. But everyone tired of their own job no matter if it inside or outside. He expects me to cook every day I do cook but I don’t have the energy when I have a long day at work. I don’t think it fair for him to treat me this way and be done with me and not for me to move in the new house. I feel so worthless cause my depression,anxiety, and being tired from work. I want him to understand I work as well like he does. We are not married and we don’t have kids. I try best to do things for him and I do show that I appreciate him. But when I ask him to show that he appreciate me what I do he tells me why should I I’m the one paying the bills and working outside and making sure you have a roof over your head. Our relationship never felt like a job until now. I pray to god that he won’t leave me that he can change his ways cause other then that we don’t argue and he a good man. But he is selfish when it comes to my emotions. I’m stuck in a bubble that can’t be popped and him understanding how I feel. I do not want to lose him I lost so much family that I don’t know where to move to if he over for good. I hope I heal right away I just hate crying and me being tired from it.
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Your alright your okay
Grief & Loss / by Roselynn23
Last post
 November 26th, 2023
...See more It crazy how life is death is crazy. I lost my dad age 25 he was 45 at age now I’m 27 it hurts so bad that I just don’t wanna get out of bed. People say it takes time it does I got my drivers license did it myself I got apartment I’m glad what I become. It always those moments it hits me people say oh it okay I’m here, or he in a better place. Easy for them to say when they got their own child husband and mother father to go home to. I only didn’t lost my dad I lost his dad also which my grandfather I lost my mom dad my other grandfather I lost my pastor I lost my grandmother my dad his mom and a miscarriage it was different months out the year but I say it all one timing I didn’t get to heal yet. My mom kick me out after my dad death cause I reminded her of him and I had to do everything on my own it hard to struggle. It shows reality that my dad was the one did everything for me and my sister not my mom. No one understands I’m a girl 27 that can do stuff for her self but does miss her dad and knows he would have been here in a heart beat to help me in need. How should I get over this pain that comes time to time cause my anxiety so off the chart. But I’m alright I’m okay I’ll see my dad one day.
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