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Shikoba12 |
Listener - Helper 2

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Hello everyone, first of all let me say what an absolute privilege it is that you have decided to confide in me on 7 cups of tea. I am a trained active listener who is friendly, non judgemental, enthusiastic and dedicated to support those who's wellbeing is suffering from issues revolving around LGBTQ+ , traumatic experiences, anxiety, self harm, depression, breakups and bullying. I am currently studying psychology, sociology and health and social care at college which has all helped me develop my communication and empathy skills . I enjoy reading literature, writing poetry, swimming, yoga and theatre which I am, at the moment, participating in to raise money for charity. I have overcome a lot in my life which has all given me valuable experience especially on the subject of suicide. With my genuine desire to help people and my non judgemental attitude, I wish to support those who need reassurance, who need a friend and most importantly need to be listened to and although I cant promise to fix every single problem in this world, I can promise you that you don't have to do it on your own so please feel free to chat with me when I am online however if im not then please send me a message and I will arrange a time to get in contact with you. sending you all virtual hugs :)
Number of Ratings: 19
Number of Reviews: 6
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Sep 18, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 19
Cheers 4,334
People Helped 22
Chats 38
Group Support Chats 12
Listener Group Chats 2
Forum Posts 20
Forum Upvotes 18
Categories
Depression
Bullying

Anxiety
LGBTQ+
Self-Harm
Breakups
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 18, on November 9th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 17, on October 22nd, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Share What You Learned
    Completed step number is 14, on October 10th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 13, on October 10th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 12, on October 6th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 11, on September 26th, 2015
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 9, on September 23rd, 2015

Feedback & Reviews
I managed to calm myself. The person really helped me today. I dont know what to say, though
Thank you for listening to my issue... I hope that you have the opportunity to help more people through their issues like you did with me...
Great awesome person to chat with, u need more listeners like this one
Honest and sincere
Very kind
I feel so much better after opening up to you!💘thanks for your help
Badges & Awards
Jester of Smiles Anxiety Depression Managing Emotions Surviving Breakups Listener Oath Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Cultural Diversity Bullying Chronic Pain Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Loneliness Guide Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Finances Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
Questions Answered
Is it my fault for being depressed?
September 21st, 2015 9:56am I need help. Can I find this on 7 Cups of Tea?
October 21st, 2015 9:52pm How can I help people with cancer?
September 19th, 2015 8:30pm Why can't we forget bullying experience?
November 16th, 2015 10:43am Why am I so scared of coming out when I know my family fully supports LGBTQ rights?
September 22nd, 2015 8:24am Why can't I just be straight?
October 22nd, 2015 2:09pm Is it ok to not want to come out right now?
October 21st, 2015 9:55pm Why am I gay? I hate myself.
September 19th, 2015 8:15pm How to get rid of self harm scars?
October 22nd, 2015 2:02pm I know I "should" stop. Why can't I commit to stopping? Why do I think self-harm is OK?
September 28th, 2015 10:14am My boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on me, should we break up?
November 9th, 2015 10:31am Do you believe that time heals all wounds?
September 22nd, 2015 8:16am Why can't I be perfect for him?
October 21st, 2015 9:57pm