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ShinyRock
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PathStep 37 Compassion hearts30 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes15 Current upvotes15 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2025 Member sinceFebruary 26, 2022
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My pronouns are she/they

I love cats and witchcraft

And idk what else to say here :)



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I think i'm aro/ace
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ShinyRock
Last post
 August 21st, 2024
...See more I currently identify as a lesbian, but im starting to think im not actually. like it feels like i'm forcing myself to be interested in people and relationships. I have always been someone who dislikes physical touch and is really bad at showing romantic feelings, but whenever i do do it, it feels like im just putting on a show for everyone. Like im trying to prove that i am capable of it. At first i thought it was just because i didnt like guys so i came out as bi and then eventually got enough courage to say lesbian, but i still feel the same way. I still feel like im just putting on an act and forcing myself to show romantic attraction to people. I have never had a celebrity crush either, it just felt weird.  All that make me think that i am aroace. HOWEVER, I really want a relationship and to do ykw but i dont think i would be able to do it comfortably. So the problem is that i dont really know if i am in fact aroace, or if im a lesbian or just a really anxious/awkward bisexual. So i was wondering if there are any aro/ace people who give me some advice, or someone who can help in anyway. Thank you <3
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