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...See more Hello everyone, I just need advice. Me and my significant other just started couples counseling after having some trouble understanding and communicating with each other. The therapy is going a little slow for something that I would like to bring up right now. So I went through my significant others phone, without him knowing, because I have been feeling insecure and having a gut feeling about some stuff. For one, I already know that he talks to a lot of people of the other sex. It's not something that I like but he is a very nice person and I am not here to stop him from having friends. I saw that he was video calling a girl a lot over a couple of days as well as talking to her about our relationship. After a couple of days I asked him if he talked to anyone about our relationship problems and he said no, just one guy friend. So he lied. Lying is a BIG NO for me. I also saw that he had naked pictures and videos from a girl on snapchat that was about 7 months ago, even though we have been dating for 2 years. He uses snapchat a lot and talked to a lot of people everyday, and I don't like that because I can't see the messages. So I'm coming here to see if I should say something now or wait until a therapy day? And what do you guys think about the snapchat thing?

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