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Spfee |
Listener - Helper 6

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating
Hey. Hey you.
So you're shopping around for a listener, wondering "Do I really need to talk to somebody?" Will it actually help? What's the point? Why would I inconvenience somebody else with this?

Well, if my light is on, I will respond. I am not the most consistent or reliable listener, life happens, but I want to talk to you. I'm usually relieved when people reach out to talk, because I know I've been in the same place, paralyzed by the idea of being a nuisance. You're not a nuisance. We're all just people.

I believe that by simply talking we can help each other out. That even a moment of relief from pain or frustration can change your perspective about what's possible. I think that you know yourself better than I will, and within you is the bravery and resourcefulness to cope with whatever life throws at you. I believe reaching out takes both.

About me? I'm spfee. I like gardening, and music, and I want to make a point of stretching in the morning! I put my hands up against a door frame and sort of walked into the door frame today, and man, great stretch. Felt really nice. Highly recommended.

Oh yeah, me. I'm a flexible, nifty human by all accounts. I've battled depression, panic attacks, and anxiety. I'm also fairly versed on the topics of polyamory and infertility.
Number of Ratings: 19
Number of Reviews: 6
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since May 23, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 88
Cheers 5,178
People Helped 26
Chats 116
Group Support Chats 4
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 5
Forum Upvotes 2
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Feedback & Reviews
He is kind and patient. Listened carefully and helped me answer some never-ending difficult questions about anxiety. Loved the conversation and the great support I've gotten.
This listener is very empathetic and helpful and will help you solve out a problem or conflict!
Spfee is a great listener. Thank you so much for your help. :-)
What a fantastic person! Great listener and great insight.
Very nice and helped a lot with my problem!
First time I have ever used this site and I got this amazingly friendly and helpful person! Thank you for you time and listening to me :)
Badges & Awards
Jester of Smiles Anxiety Managing Emotions Listener Oath Verified Listener Psychological First Aid Graduate Refresher Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Steadfast Soul I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Thankful Heart Continuing Education