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Listener - Helper 6

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating
Hey. Hey you.
So you're shopping around for a listener, wondering "Do I really need to talk to somebody?" Will it actually help? What's the point? Why would I inconvenience somebody else with this?

Well, if my light is on, I will respond. I am not the most consistent or reliable listener, life happens, but I want to talk to you. I'm usually relieved when people reach out to talk, because I know I've been in the same place, paralyzed by the idea of being a nuisance. You're not a nuisance. We're all just people.

I believe that by simply talking we can help each other out. That even a moment of relief from pain or frustration can change your perspective about what's possible. I think that you know yourself better than I will, and within you is the bravery and resourcefulness to cope with whatever life throws at you. I believe reaching out takes both.

About me? I'm spfee. I like gardening, and music, and I want to make a point of stretching in the morning! I put my hands up against a door frame and sort of walked into the door frame today, and man, great stretch. Felt really nice. Highly recommended.

Oh yeah, me. I'm a flexible, nifty human by all accounts. I've battled depression, panic attacks, and anxiety. I'm also fairly versed on the topics of polyamory and infertility.
Number of Ratings: 19
Number of Reviews: 6
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since May 23, 2014
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 88
Cheers 5,414
People Helped 29
Chats 119
Group Support Chats 4
Listener Group Chats 1
Forum Posts 5
Forum Upvotes 2
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Feedback & Reviews
He is kind and patient. Listened carefully and helped me answer some never-ending difficult questions about anxiety. Loved the conversation and the great support I've gotten.
This listener is very empathetic and helpful and will help you solve out a problem or conflict!
Spfee is a great listener. Thank you so much for your help. :-)
What a fantastic person! Great listener and great insight.
Very nice and helped a lot with my problem!
First time I have ever used this site and I got this amazingly friendly and helpful person! Thank you for you time and listening to me :)
Badges & Awards
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