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Hey. Hey you.
So you're shopping around for a listener, wondering "Do I really need to talk to somebody?" Will it actually help? What's the point? Why would I inconvenience somebody else with this?
Well, if my light is on, I will respond. I am not the most consistent or reliable listener, life happens, but I want to talk to you. I'm usually relieved when people reach out to talk, because I know I've been in the same place, paralyzed by the idea of being a nuisance. You're not a nuisance. We're all just people.
I believe that by simply talking we can help each other out. That even a moment of relief from pain or frustration can change your perspective about what's possible. I think that you know yourself better than I will, and within you is the bravery and resourcefulness to cope with whatever life throws at you. I believe reaching out takes both.
About me? I'm spfee. I like gardening, and music, and I want to make a point of stretching in the morning! I put my hands up against a door frame and sort of walked into the door frame today, and man, great stretch. Felt really nice. Highly recommended.
Oh yeah, me. I'm a flexible, nifty human by all accounts. I've battled depression, panic attacks, and anxiety. I'm also fairly versed on the topics of polyamory and infertility.
So you're shopping around for a listener, wondering "Do I really need to talk to somebody?" Will it actually help? What's the point? Why would I inconvenience somebody else with this?
Well, if my light is on, I will respond. I am not the most consistent or reliable listener, life happens, but I want to talk to you. I'm usually relieved when people reach out to talk, because I know I've been in the same place, paralyzed by the idea of being a nuisance. You're not a nuisance. We're all just people.
I believe that by simply talking we can help each other out. That even a moment of relief from pain or frustration can change your perspective about what's possible. I think that you know yourself better than I will, and within you is the bravery and resourcefulness to cope with whatever life throws at you. I believe reaching out takes both.
About me? I'm spfee. I like gardening, and music, and I want to make a point of stretching in the morning! I put my hands up against a door frame and sort of walked into the door frame today, and man, great stretch. Felt really nice. Highly recommended.
Oh yeah, me. I'm a flexible, nifty human by all accounts. I've battled depression, panic attacks, and anxiety. I'm also fairly versed on the topics of polyamory and infertility.
| Number of Ratings: | 19 |
| Number of Reviews: | 6 |
| Listens to | Over 18 |
| Languages | English |
| Listener Since | May 23, 2014 |
| Last Active | in last week |
| Gender | Female |
| Progress Path | Step 88 |
| Cheers | 5,414 |
| People Helped | 29 |
| Chats | 119 |
| Group Support Chats | 4 |
| Listener Group Chats | 1 |
| Forum Posts | 5 |
| Forum Upvotes | 2 |
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Feedback & Reviews
He is kind and patient. Listened carefully and helped me answer some never-ending difficult questions about anxiety. Loved the conversation and the great support I've gotten.
This listener is very empathetic and helpful and will help you solve out a problem or conflict!
Spfee is a great listener. Thank you so much for your help. :-)
What a fantastic person! Great listener and great insight.
Very nice and helped a lot with my problem!
First time I have ever used this site and I got this amazingly friendly and helpful person! Thank you for you time and listening to me :)
Questions Answered
Why do I suddenly have panic attacks in situations that aren't even triggering?
June 2nd, 2015 9:24pm How can I hide an anxiety attack?
October 27th, 2015 7:28pm How do I avoid breakdowns durring an anxiety attack?
October 27th, 2015 7:32pm What does it mean when I have panic attacks?
October 26th, 2015 11:42pm How can I control my repetitive negative thinking when I'm feeling anxious?
October 26th, 2015 11:34pm Do I take thing to personally because of my anxiety?
October 27th, 2015 7:35pm Does my anxiety cause me to be lazy?
October 26th, 2015 11:38pm Why can't I just live life as worry free as everyone else? Why does it have to ruin my life?
June 2nd, 2015 8:57pm My mind is always racing with thoughts. What should I do?
April 22nd, 2016 5:13pm
June 2nd, 2015 9:24pm How can I hide an anxiety attack?
October 27th, 2015 7:28pm How do I avoid breakdowns durring an anxiety attack?
October 27th, 2015 7:32pm What does it mean when I have panic attacks?
October 26th, 2015 11:42pm How can I control my repetitive negative thinking when I'm feeling anxious?
October 26th, 2015 11:34pm Do I take thing to personally because of my anxiety?
October 27th, 2015 7:35pm Does my anxiety cause me to be lazy?
October 26th, 2015 11:38pm Why can't I just live life as worry free as everyone else? Why does it have to ruin my life?
June 2nd, 2015 8:57pm My mind is always racing with thoughts. What should I do?
April 22nd, 2016 5:13pm