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Starlasky
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Number of ratings30 Number of reviews25 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 20, 2020 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 86 People helped107 Chats748 Group support chats193 Listener group chats679 Forum posts267 Forum upvotes756
Bio


Hey! I'm Shreya, 20 years old🌟

Not taking any member chats currently due to my roles.

You are not alone. If you ever feel like venting and getting it off your chest then I'm always here to be all ears for you. I'll listen and support you 😊.


I'm a chat supporter so to listeners who want support during a chat or have chat related concerns you can drop me a text!

To listeners who want peer support. Feel free to pm me if you ever want some peer support.

 

Just like stars, I believe that we all can glow up in our life just like they glow up in darkness ✨



My online status

I'm updating my online status. I barely use the green online symbol, so it's red mostly all the time. You are always free to leave me a text and I will get back to you! I used to keep my response time 24 hours earlier but it's 48-72 hours now and if I still haven't responded, I'm so sorry it must have got piled up among the other texts, you can text me again so I catch onto it. Thank you!


Chats I'm not comfortable with

★Anything sexual-related, such as sexual health, problems, assault, rape.

 

Chat Boundaries

★ I take chats for 45 to 60 minutes.

★ I'm not taking any long term members.

★ Please be respectful, it would be highly appreciated.

 

My roles over here

(Currently these are previous roles because I returned from a year-long break)


★ Support Team Leader for the SHR subcommunity and Addiction Support.

★ Community Mentor for SHR and Addiction Support.

★ A Quality Mentor.

★ An Intern Mentor.

★ Team Leader For Listener Events Team.

★ Chat Supporter.

★ Chatroom moderator for newbie hub and self-harm recovery community.

★ Peer supporter.

★ Project Agent for LCI.

★ Listener verifier.

★ Care Team guide.

★ Project Agent for the VL Team.

★ Appreciation Check - In Host.

★ A safety patrol member.

★ Doorkeeper.



A beautiful poem I want to share and I really want to thank @BlackRose522 for this, they are the sweetest soul I know!


On this bright sunny day, I look at the sky.

Always fearing one day, that you will die.

But I still see you hiding there, Nice try!

I'll wait for the evening, to see you fly!


I await for you to hear my words

Wondering what do I even deserve.

I speak to you, since you're preserved

Hoping you have some love in reserve


The darkness is here, and it's all ours

In my heart, and in the sky, it showers

I await your glow to heal my scars

Oh you're finally here, the ever-stars


Now that you're here, everything is just ok

Pain, sadness, fear, it can all just go away

Bathing in your glow is an eternal bliss

And Nothing can pull me away from this.




Hope you have a good time ahead 💙

 




Recent forum posts
Poetry with Starla!
Poetry / by Starlasky
Last post
 June 19th, 2023
...See more Hey hey, guys! Welcome to my very own poetry thread! I'd love for all poets and writers to throw their emotions into words and create something unique, something beautiful. Even those who have never written, come and give it a try! ^^ Unleash the poet in you. 💙
Appreciating Life With Fristo!!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Starlasky
Last post
 August 9th, 2022
...See more Hey hey, all! I hope you’re all doing well. I’m back with another very *special* guest @Fristo! We all know Fristo and we are known for how wise, kind and thoughtful they are! Fristo personally has been a mentor for me when it comes to life and its lessons so I hope you all learn something from this interview just as much as I have. 💙 ------------------------- Star: What three words describe you best? Fristo: Peace lover. Star: How did you handle each failure in your life? What was your reaction to failing? Fristo: I feel broken at first, then I collect myself and re-believe. Star: If you could map out a perfect day, what would it consist of? Fristo: Lot of Sanskrit learning. Star: How comfortable are you asking for help when you are faced with a Challenge? Fristo: Less likely, I feel hesitant to ask a human being. I try to solve it by myself at first, then if I have to, I look to approach someone. Star: What gives you a deep and profound sense of joy? Fristo: Children, especially those less than 5 years old. Star: How do you define happiness? Do you understand what’s needed for happiness? Fristo: One needs to know how to serve. If you serve using your talents, you experience happiness. Star: Can you identify what limiting beliefs get in the way of your happiness? Fristo: Sometimes my environment gets the better of me. The negative environment around me shakes my balance and I lose perspective, until later when I regain it. Star: How do you define a purposeful life? How is your definition influenced by others? Fristo: Said it. serve using your talents - that is a purposeful life. This definition is based on my experience. Star: How are you a different person now than you were five years ago? Ten? Fristo: I was looot more unstable than how I feel today. Star: How often do your emotions interfere with what you want for yourself? Fristo: Many times! but studying helps me have better control over myself. Star: Happiness and purposeful life, are both similar? Fristo: Yes, true/lasting happiness comes from purposeful life. ------------------------- Thank you so much for this interview, Fristo. I love the time we spent talking. 💙
Appreciating Life With Warmth!
Positivity & Gratitude / by Starlasky
Last post
 August 7th, 2022
...See more Hello hello, everyone! I hope you all are doing well. Here I am posting personal interviews that I conducted. “Appreciating Life” is an interview series where one can question any leader or friend on their views and perspective towards life. This interview focuses on their personal thoughts and views and not their roles here. My very first guest is my sweet friend, Elliot (@WarmLightXO)! They carry a warm, kind nature around them and have a very positive look towards life. I hope you all enjoy hearing from them just as much as I did. 💙 ------------------------- Star: If I give you five words, how would you describe life in them? Elliot: False expectations but still good Star: What are your core values? Elliot: Authenticity, curiosity, community, personal growth, and ethics Star: Since I asked about values, are you being true to your values? What would you say to someone who is not living up to their values? Elliot: I don't think living up to your values is something you do and then don't worry about, it's not a goal as much as a practice. So every day I do my best to live out those values and try to be gentle when I don't. (Gentleness is another value, 100%) To someone else I would say, it's okay. None of us is perfect, and we all have different values. Maybe it's time to reevaluate what's important vs what you think "should" be ❤ Star: Imagine you achieved all of your goals, how would you feel? What can you do to feel that way as you work to achieve them? Elliot: I have enough goals to last a lifetime hehe. Honestly, I'm not sure that accomplishing them is the point as much as working on them. The feeling of dedication and fulfilment is more important to me than a feeling of accomplishment. When I'm doing things that feel important, that's what feels like an achievement. Not to say that accomplishing things aren’t important- just that I'm more of a journey > end result type person. Star: How would you thrive in a country where you don’t know anyone, don’t have a home and no one speaks your language? Elliot: I'd find a small coffee shop or library, and that's where I'd hang out. I've learned that just being in the same place regularly, not even doing anything, invites friendship. You get to know the regulars and the employees, which would simultaneously teach me the local language and build some relationships 💕 I firmly believe that most people are good, and I think this is a solid (admittedly slow) way to garner some assistance. Otherwise… Cross my fingers and get a job with minimal communication 😛 Star: What Is Your Personality Truly Like and How do You Make Decisions? Elliot: I would describe my personality as bouncing between warm and sarcastic. I'm very friendly and encouraging, and I have a really dry sense of humour that people don't seem to understand XD I make decisions with my gut most of the time. I ask questions like, "What would feel aligned? When will I be ready? In a perfect world...?" I also like to ask lotssss of questions before making big decisions 😊 It's a win-win, I learn more about any commitments, and I learn how people react when I'm requesting support. I'm very pro-information 😛 Star: What would you do in your life if money or other people’s opinions were irrelevant? Elliot: Money-wise, I would be getting PhDs in everything lol. But opinion is this big question. So I'm intersex, and my parents really wanted a girl. I was named, raised, dressed, and taught to be very feminine. Anyone who knows me knows that it didn't work XD If other people's opinions were irrelevant, I would go by Elliot in my personal life as well as my Cups life ❤ Star: What’s the most important lesson you've learned so far in life? Are you living that lesson? Elliot: I've said it till I'm blue in the face, but people are so happy to help if you ask. Just ask. Genuinely, you deserve answers and support, and there is someone who has the tools and willingness to share it with you. I certainly like to think I live both sides of this- asking for help and being friendly while providing it. Star: If you had the chance to teach a big crowd of people something who are all eager to listen to you, what would you teach them? Elliot: I'm not a crowd type of person, I'm more a 1-1 or small group, so this is hard 😮. I'm going to say I would teach them behavioural activation therapy, which is something we can all benefit from. It's this idea that our actions come before our feelings, not the other way around ❤. Aka- we have a lot more control over our behaviours than our emotions, and we can use that to our advantage by acting the way we ideally would and leading our emotions to follow ------------------------- Thank you so much, Elliot! This interview was filled with warmth and lots and lots of funnnnn! 💙
Want to Co-Host a Chatroom Event with Starlasky?
Community Projects & Events / by Starlasky
Last post
 August 11th, 2022
...See more Hey hey, I'm Starla! If want to co-host an event with me, I'd love to host alongside you! Are you a new host? Awesome! Check out here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/CommunityActivitiesEvents_1908/Hostingon7CupsMasterpost_274452/] for the hosting opportunities at 7cups. ^^ Feel free to pm me [https://www.7cups.com/@Starlasky] and we shall pick out a time for us to host an amazing event with lots of fun! ------------------------- I also encourage all experienced 7cups chatroom hosts to extend an invitation- especially to first-time hosts to co-host with you! Just make a similar invitation post such as this one and enjoy hosting! 💙
Help Wanted for Addiction Support!
7 Cups Leadership / by Starlasky
Last post
 June 9th, 2022
...See more Hello hello, everyone! I hope that you are all doing well. Addiction Support is currently looking out for your help. We are building a team and for that we some amazing leaders like you to join us and help us in active engagement and provide support in the sub-community! We are looking for some Project Agents. Only Listeners can apply for this role. For more information on this role, please click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ApplicationStation_2148/ApplyforChatroomModeratorInformationonCommCenteredGlobal_112280/] and for applying please click HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform]. (ATLs are preferred) Room Supporters. Both Members and Listeners can apply for this role! For more information on this role, please click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ApplicationStation_2148/RoomSupporterUpdatedRequirementsandApplication_247786/] and for applying please click HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform]. Chatroom moderators. Only Listeners can apply for this role. For more information on this role, please click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ApplicationStation_2148/ApplyforChatroomModeratorInformationonCommCenteredGlobal_112280/] and for applying please click HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform]. Forum Supporters. Both Members and Listeners can apply for this role. For more information on this role, please click HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsLeadership_188/SubcommunityHelpWanted_2306/2022ForumLeadershipApplication_275979/] and for applying please click HERE [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform]. Thank you for all your interest and support towards this community. It is all appreciated! ------------------------- For any queries or concerns please reach out to @Starlasky or @InternalAcceptance
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Feedback & Reviews
Great listener, helped me calm down, i greatly appreciate it!
just feels like an angel listened to me...she helped me when no one was willing to...thank you soooooo much starzy
I feel liberated
She is awesome 👏
she's really sweet and heard me! thank you very much
Starla is so sweet and understanding.
I love this human so much.. Mabe the chat was so good because I already know her ad she's a friend but it made me feel less alone. I love her. She is one of the best conversations I've ever had. Stay your amazing self. Heart ghost will always be here :D
Understanding and supporting. Loved every bit of the conversation...❣️
I would give 10 out of 5 stars if possible! Shreya is such a lovely person, and wonderful beyond words. She has every quality I could ever want in a listener and is helpful to both members and listeners. Keep being you, Shreya, you make a huge impact on cups really..😌🖤
The best listener ever! She's so kind and warm, I felt so good. She changed my whole perspective on myself and life, I feel so much confident and good about myself. I really love her, no one has ever shown me such warmth and I can't help but cry happy tears. Thank you so much star, you literally are a star, I'm so thankful to you since you basically saved my life and I really love you, thank you so much once again ❤
she's THE SWEETEST !
Amazingly helpful, real Good
I left the chat with happy tears because of the difference made. I felt so much less alone and stronger to fight for what's right. Amazing how one person can help shape a life :) Thank you so much :)
Starlasky was so nice and so understanding. Talking to her really helped.
Very nice and welcoming. I felt very cozy and safe.
Seems very kind and helpful and willing to listen
She really can help and listens you very carefully! She always had a good responses for everything
starlasky is so understanding and kind when it comes to talking about your problems. she is able to relate them to her own personal life and gives really good thoughts and opinions which helped me think everything through!
Starla is the best person I've ever met, and incredibly kind
Totally amazing we had a great talk toge
good listener! pretty helpful;)
She asked questions to understand the situation better and was really nice
very helpful made everything clear and in perspective made me feel comfortable and conf
She’s super sweet but I don’t think she really understand what i’m saying to her because she kinda keeps asking the same questions.
It was soo good. Helped me feel good about myself. The listener was soo patient and very comforting!
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