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StarlitSky4762 |
Listener - Sage 13

Listener Rating
4.5 star rating

I am a community leader for the Personality Disorders community.

I have returned after a 3 month break. I will resume hosting DBT groups after I get my leadership roles back. 
Sundays at 9pm Eastern time. Hosted by:  
@FirstLight4762  and  @StarlitSky4762

For LISTENERS interested in learning more about personality disorders: How to support members with personality disorder - 7 Cups Forum 

For MEMBERS interested in Personality Disorders groups: we host  discussion/learning groups  &  sharing/support groups. 
Click here to find out the latest news & events for Personality disorders community. 

I am in the Eastern Time zone.  If you are a Listener looking to join the Personality Disorders team, please leave a message for our team leader 

I am not taking new 1-to-1 member chats right now.
I have experience supporting members who struggle with:
Trauma, ptsd, self-harm, Borderline personality disorder, other Personality Disorders, Depression,  and anxiety. 


*  Developing your support system - ideas and resources 

A guide to naming emotions

 DBT Mindfulness skills (beginner's guide)

*  My favorite CBT skill: ACE technique for balance in life [source]

*  List of free CBT worksheets 

*  Resource kit - coping with anxiety

 Treatment resources (treatment types for personality disorders, provider database, low-cost options, & peer support)

* Collection of resource links for all kind of Personality-Disorder related things. 

* Crisis resources --- suicide hotlines 
Number of Ratings: 129
Number of Reviews: 100
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 1, 2020
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 310
Cheers 179,694
People Helped 437
Chats 2,557
Group Support Chats 664
Listener Group Chats 108
Forum Posts 577
Forum Upvotes 707
Growth Path Timeline
Feedback & Reviews
Helped me understand more about the forum team for members, and gave me a supportive environment to ask questions/learn in with resources. Thoughtful leader.
StartlitSky4762 is a very good listener and is a great person to talk with
Very helpful even though I have a very hectic schedule with my toddler
Nice listener.
Very helpful, proactive, firm and willing to push into uncomfortable territory, empathetic, helps with next steps
Sky is really helpful and nice, a million tanks for you
She's so kind and understanding
Great and understanding
Very helpful! Has good resources and checks in!
Great at listening. Non judgmental. Let me talk but also showed she was listening. Enjoyed our talk
Really nice and understanding!!
Very helpful. Thank you.
Very helpful, I feel a lot better
StarlitSky is very welcoming, helpful, and knowledgeable. I felt comfortable and at ease talking with StarlitSky right away.
It is good talking to her. Not forceful, let's you talk in your own time
very helpful and warm
Thank you so much for listening and understanding my hurt feelings
Helpful!!!!! I love the person's mindset too. May you live long. Stay blessed!!!!
Very friendly, caring and calm
Thank you for listening
Sky is amazing. She takes so much time with me and helps me so much.
Starlitsky4762 was very helpful and supportive listener who got back to your messages as soon as possible.
That person helped me feel a lot better and they're doing a great job here 👏
thanks helpful
Thank you for being so kind, even if I was extremely depressed.
Very sweet and supportive. Helped me to distract and calm down! Merci
A patient, honest, understanding and reflective mind. Helped me through a long chat without being judgemental and angry. Is very rational and won't misguide you :)
Absolutely recommend this Listener. Consistently checks in, because I am easily triggered and leaves chat, and then they warmly remind me they are there to support. I feel I can trust them
Sky keeps and maintains a professional and warm air when communicating with me. I feel like she puts in effort into understanding what I am explaining.
Very helpful listener
kind listener put up with my rambling at a time when i needed it. thank you
she was awsome and realistic
Showed they were listening, understood what I said, and gave words of reassurance
Very helpful. Helped put some stuff into perspective.
Sky is an encouraging listener
Star is a very attentive and caring listener. They went out of their way to find resources for me. Very easy to talk to. They definitely made my day better.
Very knowledgeable, amazingly coherent in the subject, too sweet and kind. Very understanding, very supportive, one of the only two listeners who have ever been truly helpful or supportive. Goes out of the way to help and guide. Takes you seriously. Can't write enough about how nice it was to come across this listener.
Very compassionate and very understanding. Love talking with this person.
very helpful thank you so much
Very kind and understanding! Encourages me to do my best and is absolutely wonderful to talk to!
Helpful and kind
The best, hands down.
Sky is perfect for me. They spend lots of time with me and get to know me and support me perfectly.
They listen a lot and makes me feel at ease. They're pretty chill and attentive.
StarlitSky4762 was there for me during a very hard time. I needed someone to chat with during a time when finding a therapist during COVID-19 was next to impossible.
Impartial listener and provided useful resources.
Very helpful and suggests everything that could possibly help.
Comprehensive and light hearted :)
Good listener. I'm a case that needs more expertise about my disorders, but they did help me. Thank you.
He is a good listener and tries to understand the issue patiently.
Sky gave me helpful resources for support groups, I appreciate the tangible help Sky provided.
Sky is a good professional listener who offers empathetic words to those in need. Really glad I connected with someone like her!
Nice talking to you
Good listener. Thank you
I liked that they listened to me
She is a very good listener.
Extremely helpful!!
sweet and understanding
Great conversation and super helpful
She is a very extraordinarily amazing listener.
Good listener and pretty quick with reply
She listened and understood.
Amazing listener couldnt asked for better
great listener, neutral. good questions. recommended!
Very caring and genuine!
This really helped me.
Very calming and reassuring. Great listener.
Calming. I really.. really needed this. I didn't think I'd actually be heard. I feel a little less trapped in a way. Thank you Starlit.
Patient listner ..loved the chat
Patient, honest, and very helpful.
Very patient and always trying to help.
this helped me so much you would not believe... it helped me at least, i just needed to get some stuff off my chest. I loved it so much. It was just my experience, but i thought it was great
It was really awesome talking to her
The listener offered multiple different methods of support although I was not necessarily comfortable with talking, Was caring and very helpful
good listener she was actually kinda trustable
Helpful and attentive listener.
We talked for hours and she was very understanding, great chat!
Thoughtful listener who knows what questions to ask. Thank you for helping me see the situation more clearly. Hope you keep going :)
this person is so empathetic and intuitive
Helpful and caring, great listener!
vey good listener! helped me see things from a different perspective a be more open
amazing listener, was able of letting me express everything inside my chest and understand what im going through in details.
Very compassionate, patient, and kind.
Super Helpful! 10/10 recommend
Very good at what this person does helped when I thought I was never stop crying taught me something new in a hr of chat
this person was really helpful. he understood my problems and tried to help as much as .. could and im very thankful for the help i got:)
Very helpful! I got alot out of our talks
They seem very understanding
Very very helpful, a great listener!
Really sweet and compassionate
they were very kind
She is a good listener and has a lot of Experience in relationships
Was not judgmental and went out of their way to try to help
Very compassionate and thoughtful; really understood what I was going through and made me feel much better.
Understanding person. Made me feel like I contacted the right person to talk about my issues with
Very smart, understanding
very smart and gentle listener!
Great listener, great when you just need to vent
wonderful listener, very kind and patient
the BEST listener i have talked with so far
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