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SunnyFox207
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My parents found out yesterday
Self-Harm Recovery / by SunnyFox207
Last post
 March 15th, 2024
...See more Tw just in case Yea well they found the marks yesterday and I just don't know. It's really been a long day and idk. It was so awkward. i really hope they never mention it again tho ik they will. Tho they only found the ones I made with my nails. If they make me take off my clothing for them to check they'll unfortunately find ones made with a sharp tool and not my nails and I just don't think they would react good to those. Idk just been really like idk out of it after they found out. thats what i was scared of happening haha and now it happened. How fun. I don't even know I just want this to be a nightmare that I can wake up from. And soon. 
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Just
General Support / by SunnyFox207
Last post
 July 20th, 2023
...See more When you're not having the best day, so you try to connect to a listener but like all of them end it somewhere early, like don't even ask whats going on, or don't even say hi, or just say "i understand" to everything... like no you really don't understand. So then I end up just writing a very large vent to the only listener that actually ever responds to me (and is really amazing for doing that). so ya. not the best but yup just wanted to say cause it's been frustrating.
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I don't know
Friendship Support / by SunnyFox207
Last post
 July 1st, 2023
...See more I've got this online friend that I've been friends for almost a year with, and of course we've got all the arguments that happen and stuff like in a regular friendship, and this one is not too different, really not a big deal, but it just feels like it's gonna be worse. This time I was the one who actually said something wrong that would make her upset at me, unlike all the other times when she just started overreacting. Honestly I feel like what I said was okay. It would be alright for me to be excited that there are more people who share similar beliefs as me, since I'm not religious and basically everyone in my area is. I only know 1 girl in school who isn't religious, everyone else is Christian. And I mean that's good that they have a religion to follow, and I never would want to be rude to them because of their religion, but it gets tiring. Every time when you ask for advice being told "pray to God" even when you don't believe in a god. So I feel like it would be fine to be like "Wait... there's other people in (place) that don't believe in a god!? That's so cool!!!" But apparently it's disrespectful? Idk. I mean it's just not regular for that to happen, and I don't get mad when she says stuff like "Oh well you don't believe in God, you don't have any morals" Like that's not true, but at the same time nothing to get upset over! I just don't get why she would be so upset/mad at me for this. Idk what to even do about it, I don't want to apologize since I end up being the one who always does that, but I also don't want this friendship to be over.
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Question about the 2.0 Chat
General Support / by SunnyFox207
Last post
 June 23rd, 2023
...See more Does anyone know where to find the "leave a review" button? I couldn't find it so I had to switch back to the first one to leave a review for one of my listeners, but knowing where to find it in the 2nd version would be great! Thank you!
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Just about something
General Support / by SunnyFox207
Last post
 June 23rd, 2023
...See more Sometimes I read back to conversations I had earlier online, like a year ago. And these specific conversations i'm talking about are with this one girl who was like 3 years older than me. She hated me. She was so harsh, went all the way to find my real name and use it whenever talking about me. And if she wasn't using my name she was using also bad words to describe me. So yea not very nice. I hated talking with her, after all she said all of this about me, and she scared me too. She wouldn't give up with it. She kept doing it and doing it. I hated her at the moment, whenever she messaged me I would have to turn my phone off and do something to calm myself down cause I would always start shaking and feel as if I was gonna throw up. I kept reading back to these conversations though. I don't understand them. I know what the words I'm reading mean, and I know what the idea is, but I don't understand how what I was doing back then was wrong. All I know is that reading back on this a year later a lot of things that she said would happen did happen. Which is weird, I actually like didn't trust her at all and even skipped over most of it before since I just didn't care. It's weird. But she was right about other things too that I began understanding a little now. One thing that I still don't get though is why she thought it was so important for me to "get help". I really don't see how I would need to do that. Yea what I was doing probably wasn't okay, and for now I'm not doing it and maybe I'll understand when I'm older. I don't get why she thought it was so urgent though. She actually said it as basically "get help right now or get off your phone right now, you're harming yourself and others with this". I don't get how. I would surely want to learn at least a little about how to stop those feelings and stuff that I posted about on there, I don't do it for now since I was busy with school, and now I mean I want to do those things again, I'm not gonna for a little bit cause I got other people's opinions on it (who were also like in their late teens/early 20's) and they agree a ton with this girl. So idk. cause like everyone older than me is saying it's wrong and all so I should trust them for a bit. Honestly I feel crazy for all of this and for doing that and thinking that all of it. I'm obviously not gonna say what the thing is cause you know, idk people judge and people should judge it, but wouldn't want people on here to see it and think I'm crazy, ended up mentioning it to some listeners I started feeling comfortable with and like instant block, so probably not gonna say it on here and stuff.
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